To be honest. One of my friends is getting verbally/physically abused daily but I will do nothing for a few reasons.
1. She's a grown ass woman.
2. I'm no
. So I can get my ass kicked instead and she goes back to him.
3. All it takes is a phone call to 911 and the police will come down to beat his ass.
On black woman: They seem to think they can solve their own problems regardless, they'd probably turn against you if you try to help. I have relatives who are wired that way, I'll help if they look at me or ask.