Marc Spector
the 4'11 Cuban
I believe you are inadvertently bashing males considering we makeup the majority of the users on this forum and the thread title is directed towards us. This thread could have easily been titled "Can a man/woman be a good father/mother if he or she is a horrible husband/wife." That would have lead to a more civil discussion, there would obviously still be some bias but it it would be a lot more civil. In the end you will do as you please and we will most likely never see eye to eye. Just understand that I do believe both genders are in the wrong here, have a nice day, I'm off.
Well I think this thread is in response to the "did you have a good father" thread and a lot of nikkas in that thread stated their fathers were unrepentant cheaters but "good fathers'