i been telling people about this. both bm and bw are looked at as fetishes. growing up around Toronto ive had to check too many hockey/lacrosse white boys on their comments about black women. the c00ns as well
i like you juicy.. im trying to help u...i dont want to see u lonely in 15 yearsI'll never be desperate. I know you want me to be but It won't happen. I can be perfectly happy being single. I've been told since I was a little kid that I don't need a man, when you're taught that all your life, nothing will change it.
i dont buy that, women say that and feel scorned after when the guy dont call back...yall not build for NSA sex....only hookers can do itI'm telling you that sex is more methodical for women than you realize, and we'd like to keep it that way.
until you become the last single chick in your group of girlfriends and you've seen how happy they all are at their weddings and baby showers. that shyt would def. impact youI'll never be desperate. I know you want me to be but It won't happen. I can be perfectly happy being single. I've been told since I was a little kid that I don't need a man, when you're taught that all your life, nothing will change it.
thats your fault (i mean women's fault) for choosing those men...they werent shyt when you were dating them...
though some people actually change.....most dont
edit: yall dont get tired of doing some version of this same thread every damn day?
Explain.
Your Avi made this comment even more hilarious.But but but I thought non black men treat black women with the most respect...
They compliment my hair in its natural state...
They appreciate my dark skin...
fukk black men...
i dont buy that, women say that and feel scorned after when the guy dont call back...yall not build for NSA sex....only hookers can do it
They already do this. Despite what we are taught men and women are not that different when it comes to sex.so your telling me that women just want to have sex with random dudes she fin attractive without a relationship?
moms was saying what she felt. but the truth is this. moms knew pops was a ladies man before she married him. but she married him anyway. and she allowed him to cheat multiple timses. notice what she says. "never make having a man a priority because it opens you up to being abused."
how would she know that unless she allowed him to cheat more than once? its not abuse if he cheats once and you bounce. its abuse if he cheats again and again and again and again. moms never took proper steps before they got married. didnt take those steps after he cheated the first time. she doesnt HAVE to divorce him on the first one. but there are steps that must be taken so she can forgive him, herself(people feel guilt for other people's crazy), and so he can forgive himself and stop with the bad behavior. if she thought him saying i'm sorry and crying about it once, taking her out once and having some make up sex was enough. then thats why the issue never was resolved. remember cheating on your spouse is a SELFISH MOVE. dont worry about the actual sex or thing he/she did. think about what prompted them to do it. SELFISHNESS.
Check that and you're good, if you dont check it. it will come up again or something else will.
what moms should've told her daughter is learn thru God how to find a good man and let him date you first so you can get to know him before yall get all up in those sheets. and start confusing what you see in him for a one off or two off situation. sex will always cloud the situation. you knew dude was selfish. but since yall kept having sex you confused sex with love and love with the fact that he's selfish by nature. and its going to be hell changing that about him. get that tight first. THEN get married and not a moment sooner.
then moms should've said put God first and everything else will follow.
i like you juicy.. im trying to help u...i dont want to see u lonely in 15 years
u gotta get of that "i dont need a man" because yes u probably dont financially but your still gonna want somebody to hold u at night..nothing is cool about being alone
alone as a man respect u and take care of u....u should let him lead