Why Would A 20+ Year Old Woman Want You?

[JT-Money]

I'm getting cat lady vibes.

 

[qashif]

The same infertility problems women encounter as we age are no different from men

an older man can raise a family with a 20+ women
an older woman aint raising shyt with a younger dude

 

[High Art]

Yall don’t like a taste of your own medicine huh? shyt starts hitting and all of a sudden someone is an agent.

You're just making stronger case for everyone to be GMB, if we're being honest.

 

[get my pool]

This thread would kinda make sense if older dudes dating younger was some kinda internet hypothetical but it’s not, shyt is actually happening in real life.

Why not just ask younger women why they want to date older

 

[Rum&Pineapple]

If the shoe fits. I just see so much BS being spewed on here that I just needed to get this off my chest.

A lot of the men here spend more time logged into the Coli than they spend around women, so their thoughts tend to overshadow the well grounded men on here because they have more time to post the most.

 

[qashif]

Ok but what do these older men offer that she can’t get from the younger ones? And please stop competing with women in terms of who’s more fertile, this is sad. You’re a man, stop competing with women.

how old are you?

 

[The Fukin Prophecy]

Miss me will all that reverse MGTOW fertility nonsense yall internet birds came up with...

Yes sperm quality degrades overtime but very rarely leads to infertility or defective children...

Men don't have a geriatric pregnancy wall or menopause to worry about like 35+ year old women do...

The likelihood of a 45 year old man impregnating a young fertile woman with a healthy seed is high...

The likelihood of a 45 year old woman being impregnated by any man is very low...

 

[Methuselah]

So now we’re competing with women in terms of who’s more fertile? Pathetic.

Is reproduction not an aspect of mating, sex and relationships? Why wouldn’t that be part of the competition? Is men competing with other in terms of who has more resources pathetic?

 

[High Art]

I support it…whatever GMB means.

You're basically saying men should not bother marrying women. Instead, pump and dump women.

 

[get my pool]

You get woman like myself want to date older men that are established, meaning they own a home in a great community, educated, great career with a retirement plan, intelligent, all his teeth, can afford to provide for her and a family. But many older men do not provide this, so I am simply asking the ones who don’t (which is the majority of men) why should she pick you over her counterpart who are younger with more time to achieve these things?

So you’re tryna date somebody from thecoli?

 

[Mike809]

Well , im only about to be 32 (august) so im not that old.
Plus i dont have kids and i have a STEM degree

 

[Piff Perkins]

I’m still in my 20s, but the obvious answer is money and stability.

Lot of people - men and women - aren't thinking about "stability" in their 20s lmao. They want to have fun, live life, accomplish goals, make money, etc. I've fukked with women 18-23 while I was in my late 20s or early 30s. We weren't dating just fukking but a lot of it boiled down to just enjoying life. That's where the money part comes in. Me being able to just say fukk it, want to go to LA for the weekend? Or hey I'm in NY can I fly you out here. It was fun.

 

[The Fukin Prophecy]

Sounds like I hit a nerve.

The only thing you hit is the wall and in here trying to convince yourself it doesn't matter...

Next hit for you is reality...

 

[Bmezy]

A lot of men can sniff out brokenness..
They’re lowkey attracted to insecurity and naivety. females like this are generally younger who are still dependent, who don’t really know themselves as a ‘women’ yet especially between 21-26

They’re easier to manipulate/exert control over and eventually assimilate to the ‘man’s’ flow. With someone considerably younger, less perceptive, these men won’t have to worry about their own brokenness being unearthed and challenged. They’re not looking for real partnership. Men in 30-40s that specifically target ’girls’ like this are looking to their seeds, feed their dwindling ego etc.. a means to an end.

 

[Action Mike]

Men are constantly preaching about avoiding women over 30, which is interesting because not all women over thirty are jaded baby mamas. Many of them prioritized their career and personal growth over men. Many of them are more experienced, financially literate, well travelled, well versed on many worldly topics, and have heightened levels of self awareness.

The same infertility problems women encounter as we age are no different from men. We both have our prime years to have children, we both have our health problems and we both can be jaded at any age. This notion that women have an expiration date is ridiculous.

However my question is what are these 20+ year old women getting from you? What baggage have you accumulated that you need her to sort through? How jaded have you become over the years?

It’s no different than when women demand a wealthy man, but she is not fit, feminine and cooperative. What are you bringing to these women that would make her pick you? I highly doubt all of you are so called High Value Men. So why would a 20+ year old choose a man with higher risks of infertility, erectile dysfunction, kids and debt over her younger male counterparts?

The problem is you listed attributes the 30 year olds offer that men generally don't prioritize in relationships