Why Would A 20+ Year Old Woman Want You?

[Black Magisterialness]

Really?

Nah, legit though. The internet ain't real life in this aspect. Every brother I know that's married or in a long term relationship is in one with a black woman that's 30+.

I'd make the argument that neither men NOR women should be thinking about marriage and the sort until 25-27. Personally, outside of the obvious lust demons as a man in his mid 30s the LOWEST I'd go is around 25. And that's only because she'd be in the professional workforce, probably has a degree, and has shown she's a responsible adult.

Your early 20's are for play-play and learning what you like and don't like.

 

[Tookalossfellbackcameback]

I don't trust these new posters, real spill.


As far as I'm concerned this is either a male using his Coli alt or a femcel from LSA.

 

[EARFQUAKE]

OP you treading on thin ice thecoli isn't here to be challenged by women in these types of discussions.

 

[High Art]

Over 30 women are so down bad they have settled for insulting men into compliance since all over shyt has not worked.
If older men are so terrible why would you want them if you have all the things you claim then? Go get yourself a younger dude. We won't care.

 

[UpNext]

Because I'm the more refined version of men her age lol. If a man is putting in work to constantly better himself, there aren't too many sane women that will take the younger version of that man if they have the option (that's the important part in this equation, this has to be a realistic option for you) to go and get the more refined and well put together version of that man.

 

[Frieza666]

I had this casual fling with this 34 year old for a summer and she’d be so fukking pushy trying to cuff me/commit hardcore. Basically alluding that this is it for her and I’m her “one”

Older women KNOW they’re on the clock so they’ll get aggressive… and the fact I went through her old FB pics and her being way hotter 6 years ago made me bush her

 

[filial_piety]

I don't trust these new posters, real spill.


As far as I'm concerned this is either a male using his Coli alt or a femcel from LSA.

i think there's been a uptick in female members since the upgrade

I noticed that on LSA they were talking about this site dying, and my guess is all the bird talk about this place led to some being curious

 

[Ahadi]

The answer for each man and woman is going to be different. It’s not one answer, it’s more double-sided because there has to be an agreement at the end of the day.

“Why you deserve the prime of anything” is the real question.

What do you want / expect from him + What do you want / expect from her.

This whole thread is in bad faith tbh

 

[Gloxina]

The issue with me and women 30+ is they are in some huge rush to marry and have kids because they know the clock is ticking and they see all their married friends starting families. With women in their 20's they are about having fun and enjoying life and it usually not some big rush to settle down.

I have no issue attracting women in their 20s as I still look like I'm in my 20s and I keep myself in shape plus I have substantially more money now than I did in my 20s.

Outside of money I see no advantages to dating women in their 30s when I can still get women in their 20s. A women in her 30s should be looking at men in their 40s.

Good point
I definitely have always preferred guys my age- I need all that energy lol
However the dynamic is different with someone older. Can’t lie. Men like what they like. You just have to be aware of what YOU like as well and go for it while you can.
It’s definitely creepy if he’s too much older. You’re entering daddy issues/sugar daddy territory at some point.

But you know, the game is different when people are highly attractive, successful and fit.
NO OFFENSE: 50 year old Cedric the Entertainer? Nah.
50 year old Morris Chesnutt or Boris Kodjoe? I’m younger and I would be the one acting silly. Lol
It’s all relative.

Most 40YR old women don’t look like Mya, Ashanti, Keri, etc. If you can put in the work to maintain you will be ok with guys around your age and older.

 

[Boogie]

Got damn these new posters are 🗑

 

[poppastoppa]

Who dis hoe?

 

[Methuselah]

.The same infertility problems women encounter as we age are no different from men. We both have our prime years to have children, we both have our health problems and we both can be jaded at any age. This notion that women have an expiration date is ridiculous.

Men can father healthy children at any age. Women cannot. But, but, but autism???Although the risk of autism does increase with the age of the father, it’s still astronomically low.

 

[InkosiYe]

The issue with me and women 30+ is they are in some huge rush to marry and have kids because they know the clock is ticking and they see all their married friends starting families. With women in their 20's they are about having fun and enjoying life and it usually not some big rush to settle down.

I have no issue attracting women in their 20s as I still look like I'm in my 20s and I keep myself in shape plus I have substantially more money now than I did in my 20s.

Outside of money I see no advantages to dating women in their 30s when I can still get women in their 20s. A women in her 30s should be looking at men in their 40s.

This

So the problem doesn’t lie with the women, it’s with you. You just want to waste time and 30+ year old women aren’t about to let that happen. You’d rather waste the years of a 20 year old and leave her a jaded and bitter 30 year old and move on with the mantra that all women are trash. Got it.

Those 30+ year old women already wasted time though, their whole 20s. That was the ideal time to start locking down a man . That's when they have the most options and the least baggage.

It just is what it is, 20s women are usually in better shape and more fun to date and get to know. When women are in their 30s it's crunch time and men know that. On top of the fact that unfortunately the US is an unhealthy nation overall so finding a 30+ year old that's still keeping herself together well is a task in itself. If you're a healthy type dude that keeps yourself in shape then finding your counterpart, especially if you're dating black women who have a 56% obesity rate, becomes an issue. The amount of women on my Hinge that would be decent if they actually worked out and dropped 30-40lbs is staggering. Now if you're an old fat washed dude then yeah stick to the 30s but if you're keeping yourself right and would like the same from your woman then dating in your 30s gets just that much harder. Then add the women that are set in their ways, that are damaged, and that will end up having fertility issues because they're 35+ and if y'all date for 2-3 years before children then she's deep into high risk pregnancy territory. All things considered a man generally has fewer problems to deal with if he just dates younger.

As was mentioned earlier, I think women in their 30s fit best with men in their 40s, and vice versa. Not the same age but closer to the same stage in life imo.

 

[Gloxina]

OP you treading on thin ice thecoli isn't here to be challenged by women in these types of discussions.

I’m a woman I was like when I saw this.

Naw girl, let the men like what they like lol

 

[UpNext]

Men can father healthy children at any age. Women cannot. But, but, but autism???Although the risk of autism does increase with the age of the father, it’s still astronomically low.

They're tryna push that older men have birth problems nonsense.


And it's like yeah that's only if your old ass sperm is going into an old ass egg. A young egg and young body is gonna nurture that old ass sperm into a healthy young lion.