Why Would A 20+ Year Old Woman Want You?

[High Art]

I never said any of this. I asked what do men have to offer younger women and because you most likely have nothing to offer you’re putting words in my mouth so the conversation can suit you.

The deflection, projection, dishonesty and petty responses in this thread is very interesting.

No, you are. You are literally making a case for it. Why would a man seriously want a woman who thinks the things you said about them? Why would a younger man want to be with a similar aged woman when she will think the things you said once they hit 30+? Why would an older woman want an older man if all the things you aid are true? Why would any party want any other party in an actual union beyond a one night stand if any of the things you said are true? And you listed all these things what women 30+ have but if this were universally true, then why would they need someone to make a thread like this or why would a thread like this even need to be made? Again, you're making women out to be this angry and irate gestalt that want nothing to do with men after a certain age on some revenge shyt on a group that, by virtue of this thread, you don't even want in the first place.
I usually ignore threads like this but I guess I had time today.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

@Tia44 now if this thread was reversed and posted on your site LSA and a black man was saying this, the comments would be full of disrespect directed at him and he would get banned just for retorting..

You see how we have grown up convos over here and not insulting you for your opinion?

You should tell them black man hating miserable ass bytches to take a look at this thread and think about who’s really immature and disrespectful to the opposite sex

 

[Gloxina]

I never said any of this. I asked what do men have to offer younger women and because you most likely have nothing to offer you’re putting words in my mouth so the conversation can suit you.

The deflection, projection, dishonesty and petty responses in this thread is very interesting.

Well, truthfully, if an older man has it all together (and hopefully still looks good/healthy ), there isn’t much wrong with the arrangement. A woman is hopefully old enough to have had some real life experience and formed her own opinions and perspective on things, but young enough to have avoided major pitfalls and setbacks. Hopefully neither is too jaded or unwilling to give their all.

I feel you and totally prefer guys around my age, but looking at reality, men can date same age or younger, women can date same age or older. We don’t generally date younger because men who want families pursue women when we are in our reproductive years. That’s the truth that families are supposed to tell daughters. This is the time window to pick a guy around your, or decide to go a little older.

Again, I prefer guys around my age, but if a Morris Chestnut/Boris Kodjoe pulls up and makes it clear he’s got this life thing figured out, we are riding into the sunset. Lol

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

yeah when i say it was weird it's nothing personal against the old man. but i was in college so there were plenty of cool young guys around, i was rockin with them.

Oh I wasn't trying to argue or nothing like that. If anything I can't blame you for the way you felt

 

[Methuselah]

You’re giving me a head. Just say you have nothing to offer and move on. I just cannot with this back and forth with you.

That’s your rebuttal?

 

[getmoney310cpt]

How was I disrespectful. I stated nothing but facts.

Reading comprehension my baby..go back and read what I said I wasn’t talking about you was comparing us to where you came from

 

[JT-Money]

This isn’t the insult you think it is. Also I thought I proclaimed myself as dogset.

Nobody is getting hurt by these young women older men relationships? Both parties benefit since it's understood it's only temporary.

If there were potential drawbacks these types of relationships wouldn't be so prevalent.

 

[InkosiYe]

Ok that’s great. But what about men? I am not trying to convince anyone to date women older than 30, in simply asking what do men that seek out young women have to offer them. Why should these younger women choose you over her counterparts? Because 20 something year old men are in shape too, they have money, have have hair lines, their dikks work, no kids and less baggage. So why would I 25 year old chose an older man over that?

They're generally broker, have far less direction in life, are more likely to not have a solid home/car situation, less sexually experienced, and are more concerned with smashing as many as they can get and partying than having serious relationships. And if she's not looking for anything serious and neither is he, then the older man still has more bread to splurge on dinners, brunches, vacations, etc. What can the younger guy actually do better besides recover after a workout or something?

It's kind of a no brainer. I know for a fact that me at 33 is better on essentially every level than me at 23, no contest. And it's generally the same for most men. And smart women know that

 

[Wildhundreds]

seriously tho yesterday for the first time I felt completely old and out of place tryna talk to a younger chic…I been starting to appreciate women my age and older for the conversation alone these last few weeks

Most young women aren't talking about shyt. I don't understand why older men even date younger women. Says a lot about that person TBH

 

[Swirv]

I’ll never mess with a broke woman again, whether she’s 20, 30, or 40. #NObrokeChicks

 

[getmoney310cpt]

You said if this thread was made directed at women on LSA it would be a problem. And what I’m saying is that there’s nothing wrong with what I said…my baby.

You are purposely overlooking my point to be disingenuous..if I went on LSA and made a thread like this about 30 plus women all of the replies would be insults hurled at me calling me broke, dusty, SoundCloud rapper, not a man for arguing with women on LSA etc..

My point is none of us are disrespecting and are having a clean dialogue with you on your opinion..I’m saying we are more mature than the bitter hate all black men posters on LSA where you came from

 

[Warren Peace]

So now we’re competing with women in terms of who’s more fertile? Pathetic.

that's a you thing if you view it like that shawty.

 

[RamsayBolton]

I dont think younger men or younger women put that much thought into it

They go with whatever gives them the most instant gratification. For some young women that's a good looking young dude, for others thats a dude with his own place and discretion (or for some its both)

 

[Rum&Pineapple]

You are purposely overlooking my point to be disingenuous..if I went on LSA and made a thread like this about 30 plus women all of the replies would be insults hurled at me calling me broke, dusty, SoundCloud rapper, not a man for arguing with women on LSA etc..

My point is none of us are disrespecting and are having a clean dialogue with you on your opinion..I’m saying we are more mature than the bitter hate all black men posters on LSA where you came from

I have an account over there too. And this is very true. Lmaooooo.

 

[High Art]

What I said is factual. It’s not my problem how some feels about it. I’m not making women look to be any way, as 20 something year old woman I just had a question to ask. Instead of answering my question you got emotional.

I didn't get emotional. Asking questions is emotional now? Glory be.
In fact, I asked a series of questions based on your assertions that you have yet to answer. Let's take it slowly then, a bit more your speed. Why would any woman want a man 30+ if what you said is true? If what you said about older women is true, then they should be going for men your age (assuming you re indeed under 30) and any men saying no to them is an idiot. You should not get first dips on those under 30 men, women over 30 should. They are better than you after all. They're high value. What do you offer those men under 30 that those women over 30 don't?