Why Would A 20+ Year Old Woman Want You?

[Gloxina]

Oh

I am currently into an older man who’s my dermatologist. He’s obviously well educated, spent time in the military and is very handsome. Older men with their shyt together is always a win, but not all older men fall in that category. So I agree with you, it’s easier to build with someone in our age group.

I had no intention to insult anyone but I hear so much about how older women are such a liability and that men need to date younger…which is their business. But as a younger woman I just want to know what these older men are offering that trumps men within our age group, because as they like to repeatedly say men making a certain income are 1% of the population, and chances are these men are not apart of that stat. So what are you offering to twenty year olds that we cannot find within our age group.

Firstly- NICE lol He sounds like a good option.

Secondly- Totally agree. The leverage a younger woman has is that she can pick a guy around her age or an older man who is SUCCESSFUL. Why the hell would you be with a man 10+ yrs your senior who is still “figuring it out”? THAT is what young girls have to understand. The only reason to be with someone older is because he has built a stable life and is bringing you in it. That’s the leverage he has over someone your age. This is why older men flash $ and talk about their careers and what they have. That stuff is especially attractive to someone younger who hasn’t done those things on her own or doesn’t want to.

The daddy issues stuff comes in when girls are just seeking an older man and not factoring in what that older man is supposed to be bringing.
A cool personality ain’t it. Lol

 

[MajesticLion]

 

[Uncouth Savage]

Poverty is a crime.

 

[High Art]

You don’t have to slow it down. Just answer the question and move on with your day.

Why are you afraid of answering my questions? They are simple questions. Though your OP doesn't line up with this post:

I am currently into an older man who’s my dermatologist. He’s obviously well educated, spent time in the military and is very handsome. Older men with their shyt together is always a win, but not all older men fall in that category. So I agree with you, it’s easier to build with someone in our age group.

I had no intention to insult anyone but I hear so much about how older women are such a liability and that men need to date younger…which is their business. But as a younger woman I just want to know what these older men are offering that trumps men within our age group, because as they like to repeatedly say men making a certain income are 1% of the population, and chances are these men are not apart of that stat. So what are you offering to twenty year olds that we cannot find within our age group.

 

[old pig]

Most young women aren't talking about shyt. I don't understand why older men even date younger women. Says a lot about that person TBH

yep…it says I want some young hot 20-something year old cooch on my dikk…I struck out yesterday but I’m not out the game by a long shot

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Men are constantly preaching about avoiding women over 30, which is interesting because not all women over thirty are jaded baby mamas. Many of them prioritized their career and personal growth over men. Many of them are more experienced, financially literate, well travelled, well versed on many worldly topics, and have heightened levels of self awareness.

The same infertility problems women encounter as we age are no different from men. We both have our prime years to have children, we both have our health problems and we both can be jaded at any age. This notion that women have an expiration date is ridiculous.

However my question is what are these 20+ year old women getting from you? What baggage have you accumulated that you need her to sort through? How jaded have you become over the years?

It’s no different than when women demand a wealthy man, but she is not fit, feminine and cooperative. What are you bringing to these women that would make her pick you? I highly doubt all of you are so called High Value Men. So why would a 20+ year old choose a man with higher risks of infertility, erectile dysfunction, kids and debt over her younger male counterparts?

I was discussing this with somebody the other day. Dude's who really have it together don't need a Kevin Samuel's type. His male audience was and is primarily dude's who would not fit into his High Value Male definition and you can tell listening to him he understood this well. Many of them come across just as bias and jaded as the females they rail against and I'd bet money are even in the same pay bracket but feel the need to talk cash money shyt.


Dude set the gender wars back 20 years and folks call him a hero. Is what it is I guess.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

Sir what do you want from me? I asked a question if you don’t wanna answer then that’s fine.

And the maturity level here is no better then the maturity level on LSA or any other forum. Please stop acting like the environment here is mature, respectful and fair because it’s not. I’m taking on one this sites talking points and flipping back at you and now everyone is so above the conversation.

has anyone called you a bytch? Bitter? Broke? A whore? A wench? NO

The MEN here are RESPECTFULLY disagreeing

Why can’t LSA women show the same respect when we are in their spaces? Why are they so insulting to men just for being men up there?

So yes we are very much more mature

 

[High Art]

Why doesn’t it line up with my post. That man is apart of the 1% unlike the rest. He’s the exception all women would want. I’m asking the 99% why are you a better option then someone younger.

And that quetion has been answered many times over across many threads including this one. Many guys in that age range are doing well for themelves and are in great shape. On this board especially, a decent number of guy are doing better than most young dudes and even better than your man I'm sure. Now answer my questions (though we all know you're too scared to), this will be fun.

 

[Peak]

I was 33 when I met my wife she was 24. I'm sure I had something to offer those twentysomethings didn't - whatever works for you really

 

[Uncouth Savage]

has anyone called you a bytch? Bitter? Broke? A whore? A wench? NO

The MEN here are RESPECTFULLY disagreeing

Why can’t LSA women show the same respect when we are in their spaces? Why are they so insulting to men just for being men up there?

So yes we are very much more mature

Women are attracted to "strength"....
depends on how you define that though....
As a man you are expected UNDER ALL CONDITIONS to never "cry, complain, be angry, ridicule" etc

and you are saying "I am a human being just like you, I can be sensitive"
that makes vaginas dry and is considered disgusting

 

[High Art]

I was discussing this with somebody the other day. Dude's who really have it together don't need a Kevin Samuel's type. His male audience was and is primarily dude's who would not fit into his High Value Male definition and you can tell listening to him he understood this well. Many of them come across just as bias and jaded as the females they rail against and I'd bet money are even in the same pay bracket but feel the need to talk cash money shyt.


Dude set the gender wars back 20 years and folks call him a hero. Is what it is I guess.

I disagree. Some dudes, and I've had to give them the talk that Kevin Samuels made a career out of, buy into this idea that they deserve less or they should settle since they are convinced they can't do better or chalk up their failed attempts to what they deserve as opposed to temporary setbacks. I give Samuels credit for seemingly helping dudes with their self-esteem issues, which I think is a serious issue among black men.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

Women are attracted to "strength"....
depends on how you define that though....
As a man you are expected UNDER ALL CONDITIONS to never "cry, complain, be angry, ridicule" etc

and you are saying "I am a human being just like you, I can be sensitive"
that makes vaginas dry and is considered disgusting

I don’t fukk with white boys don’t quote me

 

[Uncouth Savage]

I don’t fukk with white boys don’t quote me

I fear that because you have so much hoodrat thinking it limits you....
take care...

 

[getmoney310cpt]

So this has nothing to do with the conversation. You just want to hold me accountable and for thousands of women from another forum…why don’t you go make an account and ask them yourself.

I just want you to see what part of the black community is really driving the gender division and gender hate..it’s not the men we love black women like we always have..I can’t say our sisters feel the same way back

 

[Uncouth Savage]

I just want you to see what part of the black community is really driving the gender division and gender hate..it’s not the men we love black women like we always have..I can’t say our sisters feel the same way back

alrite you have my attention

are you referring to women in compton or the hollywood hills?
which do not want you