Why successful black men are a$$holes

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These men in this thread are the descendants of the c00n Black men who abandoned the Black community just so that he could sit at the white man's lunch counters.

Yall need to just go live with white or other nonblacks have your biracial kids, then take care of your nonblack grandkids and once your black bloodline is wiped out you can say mission accomplished. Then you won't have to be around the negroes you c00ns despise.
 

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Black women on average are the least materialistic women out of all the women listed. No one is going to convince that an asian woman would give a broke black man a chance before a black woman...no one.
@Timeis$ broke it down well and @Draje has shown the mentality that many young black men posess in regards to women of their own race as well as my own experience.
Actually our people are very materialistic including the women to where many obsess over expensive clothes and shoes.

Both men and women of our race are guilty of this.
 
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Actually our people are very materialistic including the women to where many obsess over expensive clothes and shoes.

Both men and women of our race are guilty of this.

More materialistic than the people who traded humans for profit?:stopitslime:
 

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It's all about the money and status, breh.

Most Black women feel they are entitled to a Black man's success and money. If he chooses to exercise some freedom over his choices, he's betraying Black women and the women who "held him down" during his rise. The sense of entitlement is at the root of the matter.

Then, if you ask those women, "so what did you do to contribute to his rise? They have nothing to say. They start talking gibberish about Black women being strong during slavery, holding Black men down and some other historic shyt. I never hear shyt like, "Yeah. I bought him textbooks while he was in college, paid half his tuition that one semester when he was broke, let him crash in my off-campus apartment because he couldn't afford housing that semester. After all that, he tossed me in the bushes for a white girl after he made it."

Black men never feel entitled to the success and money of Black women.

Can you imagine average nikkas on some "we're responsible for your success, you owe us" shyt when Black women start talking about how they outnumber Black men in college and with degrees, how they're making money, and how they can't find suitable Black men on their level?

Successful Black men don't owe Black women anything in general. Successful Black women don't owe Black men anything in general.


That shyts funny, but real talk I wouldn't expect a peer to hold me down or help with anything. Women literally obstructed me. Lot of that was my fault. But whenever I found myself making a real run at some shyt, I'd find myself saying I have to leave these bytches alone.

There are a couple that even made shyt tough for me and tried to sabotage the breh. Most though just didn't understand the struggle and served as distractions or disincentives to do what needed to be done.

I think everybody would've loved Nia long in Boyz in the hood type shyt. But most of the chicks I knew just didn't really pay too much attention to what we were experiencing.

At my white high school all the smart black chick's dated white preppies and made efforts not to be racial. I didn't relate to that.

I remember I bumped into one of these black chick's at a lounge. She was fine back in the day and was cheerleader captain. Dated this blonde lacrosse player, super preppy. We never spoke in high school. Bump into her at the spot I catch her looking at me with this white girl that used to go to our school who was also a cheerleader back in the day. They were still rolling tight lol.

Anyway I'm like did you go to bla bla high school? She's like yea! And they both screamed my name and the black chick was trying to get at me. I was blown. 4 years never said shyt to me, now she trying to talk.

Of course, she still looked good for her age. For. Her. Age. So I won. And may have been a smug a$$hole about it. But even if we talked back in the day and shared racist experiences back at that school it would've been a different vibe if I saw her even with her dating cacs. Instead she steered clear.

I don't know. Looking back I was pretty selfish too. I can't think of any black chick's I really propped up. A couple told me sob stories about being raped or some other shyt and I was an ear. I guess that's something. As a guy we are conditioned not to get emotional so I didn't even get tgat.

I think as a people we probably should do a better job connecting early on. Listening to each other and being moral support even if we can't do some of the financial things for one another.
 

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More materialistic than the people who traded humans for profit?:stopitslime:
No but a lot of our people are still materialistic which is hurting our race because that materialism puts money in the hands of those who might be against us
 
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That shyts funny, but real talk I wouldn't expect a peer to hold me down or help with anything. Women literally obstructed me. Lot of that was my fault. But whenever I found myself making a real run at some shyt, I'd find myself saying I have to leave these bytches alone.

There are a couple that even made shyt tough for me and tried to sabotage the breh. Most though just didn't understand the struggle and served as distractions or disincentives to do what needed to be done.

I think everybody would've loved Nia long in Boyz in the hood type shyt. But most of the chicks I knew just didn't really pay too much attention to what we were experiencing.

At my white high school all the smart black chick's dated white preppies and made efforts not to be racial. I didn't relate to that.

I remember I bumped into one of these black chick's at a lounge. She was fine back in the day and was cheerleader captain. Dated this blonde lacrosse player, super preppy. We never spoke in high school. Bump into her at the spot I catch her looking at me with this white girl that used to go to our school who was also a cheerleader back in the day. They were still rolling tight lol.

Anyway I'm like did you go to bla bla high school? She's like yea! And they both screamed my name and the black chick was trying to get at me. I was blown. 4 years never said shyt to me, now she trying to talk.

Of course, she still looked good for her age. For. Her. Age. So I won. And may have been a smug a$$hole about it. But even if we talked back in the day and shared racist experiences back at that school it would've been a different vibe if I saw her even with her dating cacs. Instead she steered clear.

I don't know. Looking back I was pretty selfish too. I can't think of any black chick's I really propped up. A couple told me sob stories about being raped or some other shyt and I was an ear. I guess that's something. As a guy we are conditioned not to get emotional so I didn't even get tgat.

I think as a people we probably should do a better job connecting early on. Listening to each other and being moral support even if we can't do some of the financial things for one another.

I agree. Connecting early on is the best bet for both sides.

Difference with men is we're always looking for the next one. We aren't really checking for chicks in the past like that, because there are new ones coming off the assembly line on the reg. Especially if a man has his life in order.

It's these old chicks, facing dwindling options, that start flipping through their yearbooks, Facebook and other shyt trying to find nikkas to latch on to. They see a few nikkas they curved back in the day doing well for themselves and just so happen to be with non-Black women. Then, they want to get on the "Black men prefer non-Black women once they make it" shyt. You didn't want that nikka in the first place. Why does it matter to you where he's sticking his dikk, now?

Only thing about him that has changed is his success and money.
 

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That shyts funny, but real talk I wouldn't expect a peer to hold me down or help with anything. Women literally obstructed me. Lot of that was my fault. But whenever I found myself making a real run at some shyt, I'd find myself saying I have to leave these bytches alone.

There are a couple that even made shyt tough for me and tried to sabotage the breh. Most though just didn't understand the struggle and served as distractions or disincentives to do what needed to be done.

I think everybody would've loved Nia long in Boyz in the hood type shyt. But most of the chicks I knew just didn't really pay too much attention to what we were experiencing.

At my white high school all the smart black chick's dated white preppies and made efforts not to be racial. I didn't relate to that.

I remember I bumped into one of these black chick's at a lounge. She was fine back in the day and was cheerleader captain. Dated this blonde lacrosse player, super preppy. We never spoke in high school. Bump into her at the spot I catch her looking at me with this white girl that used to go to our school who was also a cheerleader back in the day. They were still rolling tight lol.

Anyway I'm like did you go to bla bla high school? She's like yea! And they both screamed my name and the black chick was trying to get at me. I was blown. 4 years never said shyt to me, now she trying to talk.

Of course, she still looked good for her age. For. Her. Age. So I won. And may have been a smug a$$hole about it. But even if we talked back in the day and shared racist experiences back at that school it would've been a different vibe if I saw her even with her dating cacs. Instead she steered clear.

I don't know. Looking back I was pretty selfish too. I can't think of any black chick's I really propped up. A couple told me sob stories about being raped or some other shyt and I was an ear. I guess that's something. As a guy we are conditioned not to get emotional so I didn't even get tgat.

I think as a people we probably should do a better job connecting early on. Listening to each other and being moral support even if we can't do some of the financial things for one another.
I don't get it, so you're mad that she didn't approach her when she had a boyfriend? But did you approach any of the black people in your high school?
 

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I agree. Connecting early on is the best bet for both sides.

Difference with men is we're always looking for the next one. We aren't really checking for chicks in the past like that, because there are new ones coming off the assembly line on the reg. Especially if a man has his life in order.

It's these old chicks, facing dwindling options, that start flipping through their yearbooks, Facebook and other shyt trying to find nikkas to latch on to. They see a few nikkas they curved back in the day doing well for themselves and just so happen to be with non-Black women. Then, they want to get on the "Black men prefer non-Black women once they make it" shyt. You didn't want that nikka in the first place. Why does it matter to you where he's sticking his dikk, now?

Only thing about him that has changed is his success and money.
:wtf: how did shr curve him when he said he didn't approach black girls? I don't think this applirs in this case...I can understand people who never approached in high school wanting to be your friend now but I fail to see how in this instance it has anything to do with race.:rudy:
 

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im not arguing with anyone.
i just want to know why all these dudes who claim to not like BW are always making and posting in threads about us?
their obsession with women they DO NOT wish to ever date, marry, or have kids with is beyond logic at this point.
make 50 post i one thread about women you claim to not care about, why?:yeshrug:

You are pissed off aren't you ?

Give me more please
 

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There was a time, in my naive super pro-Black days, where I'd call any successful Black man with a non-Black woman a c00n. That was not right. You never know a man's story. He could have been raised around only non-Black women.

That star Black athlete may have gone to non-Black schools his entire life. shyt, in college, he probably had numerous non-Black women writing his papers, tutoring him, etc. We know athletes don't get paid in college. Maybe those non-Black women were throwing him money when he needed it.

You never know a man's story. So, to throw Black men under the bus without knowing his story is lame. Unless he's saying some c00n stuff about Black women or the Black community, his life has no impact on mine. It's the same reason I'm not quick to throw a Black woman under the bus if she dates out. She only gets called a wench if she's articulating wench-like stuff regarding Black men or the Black community.
 

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It's all about the money and status, breh.

Most Black women feel they are entitled to a Black man's success and money. If he chooses to exercise some freedom over his choices, he's betraying Black women and the women who "held him down" during his rise. The sense of entitlement is at the root of the matter.

Then, if you ask those women, "so what did you do to contribute to his rise? They have nothing to say. They start talking gibberish about Black women being strong during slavery, holding Black men down and some other historic shyt. I never hear shyt like, "Yeah. I bought him textbooks while he was in college, paid half his tuition that one semester when he was broke, let him crash in my off-campus apartment because he couldn't afford housing that semester. After all that, he tossed me in the bushes for a white girl after he made it."

Black men never feel entitled to the success and money of Black women.

Can you imagine average nikkas on some "we're responsible for your success, you owe us" shyt when Black women start talking about how they outnumber Black men in college and with degrees, how they're making money, and how they can't find suitable Black men on their level?

Successful Black men don't owe Black women anything in general. Successful Black women don't owe Black men anything in general.
Are you sure about that @mamba thst black men are not entitled to successful and attractive black women? Especially if they see them with non black men...are you really sticking to that story?
 

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:wtf: how did shr curve him when he said he didn't approach black girls? I don't think this applirs in this case...I can understand people who never approached in high school wanting to be your friend now but I fail to see how in this instance it has anything to do with race.:rudy:

I wasn't talking about his case. I was talking in general. Men aren't typically trying to connect with chicks from the past, unless they had some type of relationship, previously.

Women, on the other hand, will try to connect with nikkas they knew long ago when they see he's come up. Meanwhile, breh is lookin' like :childplease:.

Why you want to connect, now? Not much has changed other than my paper and my title.
 

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There was a time, in my naive super pro-Black days, where I'd call any successful Black man with a non-Black woman a c00n. That was not right. You never know a man's story. He could have been raised around only non-Black women.

That star Black athlete may have gone to non-Black schools his entire life. shyt, in college, he probably had numerous non-Black women writing his papers, tutoring him, etc. We know athletes don't get paid in college. Maybe those non-Black women were throwing him money when he needed it.

You never know a man's story. So, to throw Black men under the bus without knowing his story is lame. Unless he's saying some c00n stuff about Black women or the Black community, his life has no impact on mine. It's the same reason I'm not quick to throw a Black woman under the bus if she dates out. She only gets called a wench if she's articulating wench-like stuff regarding Black men or the Black community.
SO they were essentially securing their future. I have seen what you are referring to in my university, not all that glistens is gold. I have seen dudes used black women for favours by connecting on that we are both black shtick and then curve black women by giving white girls attention, I kid you not.So a lot of what I hear is foreign to me. Regardless, I have no interest in the entertainment/sports they seem to produce a lot of times unfaithful/unstable men so I have always pushed black women to have interest in men im careers outside of that industry...but that's just me.
 
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Are you sure about that @mamba thst black men are not entitled to successful and attractive black women? Especially if they see them with non black men...are you really sticking to that story?

Yes. I'm sticking to it.

Successful Black men don't care who successful Black women date. Successful Black men can choose from a large pool of women! We don't feel betrayed when Black women step out. We can always find another woman.

Successful Black men don't feel entitled to Black women at all.

Black women, on the other hand, feel they are entitled to successful Black men and his money. The amount of shaming that Black women do regarding the subject is evidence enough.

Successful Black men aren't sitting around having these types of conversations:

 
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