Why successful black men are a$$holes

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Black women take a keen interest in Black men's mating choices once those Black men start making money. They don't give a shyt about him before he's making money. He's invisible before the money. He's just as invisible to most Black women as he is to non-Black women. So, why are Black women entitled to his money?

They want his money as much as non-Black women want his money!
 

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As if we don't constantly have to hear from Black women bytching about Black men who don't want them. They then take their frustrations out on all Black men. Difference is Black women use national platforms to do this. Black men are only on Youtube and places like the Coli doing this. Black women go on national TV and write op-eds in print media to complain, effectively throwing all Black men under the bus.

Fat Black woman gets no love from the Black men she wants. Claims Black men police the bodies of Black women.

Dark Black woman gets no love from the Black men she wants. Claims Black men are color struck.

Black woman with kids gets no love from the Black men she wants. Claims Black men are deadbeats.

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I see what you're getting at here. I'll bullet point this since this will be all over the place but

- Truthfully it just seems like the notion of dogging a chick out or how I said it rubbed you the wrong way. And based on whatever vibe that gave off, it feels like you're trying to find a psychological profile that would fit me such as "dejected simp mad at being stalled out". I asked you what you were basing that bolded sentence off of cause the "act like you're their dude and then they start stalling you out honestly " part doesn't seem like it was represented in my post. Don't get me wrong, it's not like that never happened to me when I was younger but it just feels like you throwing shyt at the wall in a lowkey way. This is just the vibe I'm picking up.

- IDK who you be around or maybe you're older, but most of the guys I know with the MOST success with women say the most about them. The guys walking around pointing out tweaks or bragging about how they smut a chick. bytches this, hoes this thots that. Those are dudes getting them like that. One of the most thorough nikkas I know calls women bytches to their face. :yeshrug: It's just the nature of the game, when you deal with women you see the bad sides that are hidden from simps. I didn't know how grimy the game was until I was the dude watching her hit the ignore button while her bf is blowing up her phone.


- There are some things about the game that as a man, I don't respect. Hypergamy as a whole has fukked up elements to me, even if I'm a benefactor. That's just how I feel. Women have parts of the game too that they don't respect like side chicks, two timing, being a deadbeat etc. The funny thing is tho, nobody has complaints about the game once they're in the drivers seat. IRL I just accept it for what it is and move accordingly but this forum is a medium I can intellectualize my thoughts on it. label it however you like.
Nah the dogging the chick out part didn't rub me the wrong way at all. I just don't agree with it and will say as much but I say the same thing about a chick using a dude too. I'm consistent and if I'm not feel free to get on me about it. I'm not a psychologist or anything like that .I just know what traits are most common on certain things like this "dogging chicks out" topic no more no less. See because we aren't talking but typing that's how things get confused and jumbled together. I didn't answer your question with the "stalling out part" I said it seems like that because of the stuff your typing. The part about stalling out was about the waiting to hit part but like I said when typing these long responses it gets confusing and I'll take that on the chin on my part. Lastly let's also be real I'm not throwing anything against the wall its just what I gathered from what you said and like I also said when not being positive towards someone they are always going to feel as though you're attacking that about them. Its not meant as an attack just what I gathered based off the info I was presented with and like I said I could be wrong. I'm not perfect.

Regarding the second point Ive saw dudes like that but the chicks these dudes usually getting I'm good. That's just who I am though. When people have to clown and put down others to big up themselves I can't roll with that. Dudes calling chicks bytches straight to their face when its no reason? Nah fam that's stupid IMO but I don't know what's going on in these cats lives to comment. Girls cheat guys cheat we both know that ain't nothing new so I'm not surprised but I never thought women were perfect so that's why I'm not surprised. I just can worry about me.

Last part we all do hypergamy (aka wanting the best) so I don't know why you can't respect it unless you don't think you in that class that the girls you after want. I don't think I labeled anything just told you what I see based on limited post but if you feel I did cool but I wasn't trying to. Like you said you spoke your piece I responded and we have what we have now. Its all love on my side disagreement or not esp when you can do this and nobody gets offended.
 
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Here's some old man advice for the day: stop dealing with bum ass bytches and you won't have that problem. I've never dated a broad who was with me for money (probably because I look broke :manny:).

My current girlfriend shops at good will for our clothes.
My ex-girlfriend used to always buy clothes at plato's closet

Stop fukking with bum bytches and a lot of these problems go away.

Honestly breh it sounds like you tha one wit tha bum
 

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Nah the dogging the chick out part didn't rub me the wrong way at all. I just don't agree with it and will say as much but I say the same thing about a chick using a dude too. I'm consistent and if I'm not feel free to get on me about it. I'm not a psychologist or anything like that .I just know what traits are most common on certain things like this "dogging chicks out" topic no more no less. See because we aren't talking but typing that's how things get confused and jumbled together. I didn't answer your question with the "stalling out part" I said it seems like that because of the stuff your typing. The part about stalling out was about the waiting to hit part but like I said when typing these long responses it gets confusing and I'll take that on the chin on my part. Lastly let's also be real I'm not throwing anything against the wall its just what I gathered from what you said and like I also said when not being positive towards someone they are always going to feel as though you're attacking that about them. Its not meant as an attack just what I gathered based off the info I was presented with and like I said I could be wrong. I'm not perfect.

It wasn't so much about being attacked but more on you profiling me and being off base. Not a big deal tho. don't got a whole lot to else to say with this one

Regarding the second point Ive saw dudes like that but the chicks these dudes usually getting I'm good. That's just who I am though. When people have to clown and put down others to big up themselves I can't roll with that. Dudes calling chicks bytches straight to their face when its no reason? Nah fam that's stupid IMO but I don't know what's going on in these cats lives to comment. Girls cheat guys cheat we both know that ain't nothing new so I'm not surprised but I never thought women were perfect so that's why I'm not surprised. I just can worry about me.

I guess this was something lost in translation with the text but it's not likes he shyts on em when saying it. He manages to use it as either a term of endearment or as a pronoun ("pass me that pen, bytch") The reactions are generally giggles to :queen:

But I'm pretty sure all that is besides the point...

Last part we all do hypergamy (aka wanting the best) so I don't know why you can't respect it unless you don't think you in that class that the girls you after want. I don't think I labeled anything just told you what I see based on limited post but if you feel I did cool but I wasn't trying to. Like you said you spoke your piece I responded and we have what we have now. Its all love on my side disagreement or not esp when you can do this and nobody gets offended.

Nah. shyt like cuckholding, using men for divorce $$$, and even the way the birds move in the OP.....I can't respect it. It's got nothing to do with circumstance. It got nothing to do with what class I think I'm in (:huh: whatever that means). It's got nothing to do with whether I'm swimming in puss or on a drought. It's principle. If your principle is easily moved by circumstance then wasn't real principle in the first place.


Ironically enough the highest "class" a man can be in on the hypergamy pyramid is at the top. And the dudes there are all.....dogging out scores of women.
 

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It wasn't so much about being attacked but more on you profiling me and being off base. Not a big deal tho. don't got a whole lot to else to say with this one



I guess this was something lost in translation with the text but it's not likes he shyts on em when saying it. He manages to use it as either a term of endearment or as a pronoun ("pass me that pen, bytch") The reactions are generally giggles to :queen:

But I'm pretty sure all that is besides the point...



Nah. shyt like cuckholding, using men for divorce $$$, and even the way the birds move in the OP.....I can't respect it. It's got nothing to do with circumstance. It got nothing to do with what class I think I'm in (:huh: whatever that means). It's got nothing to do with whether I'm swimming in puss or on a drought. It's principle. If your principle is easily moved by circumstance then wasn't real principle in the first place.


Ironically enough the highest "class" a man can be in on the hypergamy pyramid is at the top. And the dudes there are all.....dogging out scores of women.
Like I said earlier if I or anybody say something you don't agree with of course its going to be me being of base even if I was right (not saying I am). We all do it or done it and if I agreed it wouldn't be no off base talk lol but I do agree that's a done issue.

Second part about boy that's just what works for him but chicks that work on I think I'd be good on them regardless of how they look. That's like a white jawn calling you a nikka as a term of endearment but if it works for him more power to him.

Third the definition of hypergamy is about moving up in class. I said class when I could have used a different term. Simply all I was saying was we all want the best we can get so why should I fault a chick. As far as cuckolding and stuff lets be real for a second. How many boys you know willingly cuckolding? How about getting divorced for their bread? That don't affect 90%+ of dues on here but they talking like they victims. I don't know a dude willingly cuckolding in my life and I'd say neither do the vast majority on this site either. That's some porn weirdo stuff that isn't really part of our lives just like the divorce stuff. I'm not telling you how to think but just saying most of,this stuff like you said earlier is the game that is played and you know how to avoid that anyway. Also like you said its things that benefit us that I'm pretty sure if you take advantage of like side jawns and the like you not trying to give that up. I look it at like we have to take the good with the bad.
 

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Interesting read but like most threads that go over 15 pgs it get lost in translation. while reading i was playing drake - how about now on repeat. :ohlawd:
 

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It's real in your head but keep thinking white asians are there for you. You guys are delusional at best but whatevs
Stop arguing with them, they're lost causes. They demonize black women, AA women especially, to justify them dating out and their cruel and unusual treatment of the women that birthed and supported them their entire lives. You know these MFs are delusional when they say BW don't support them. BW are the BIGGEST supporters of BM bar none.
they think support = p*ssy.
Who ever gives up the most vagina with minimal to no effort on their part is the most supportive, hence their obsession with pawgs.
 

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Then don't chase Instagram "queens". It's stupid how guys go for females that don't want them, then take it out on other females that haven't done anything to them. It's not that chick's fault that the hoe from college didn't want to fukk your shallow ugly ass. What's annoying is they see absolutely nothing wrong with them only wanting those chicks because they're attractive but if that chick wants a dude with money or a dude that's equally attractive, it's a problem. It's ok for them to be shallow but it's a crime if a woman is just as shallow.

Where did I say it was wrong for Instagram models to want dudes with more money or that are at an equal level of attractiveness?

:what:

I want them but I'm not entitled to them. Stop putting words in my mouth, you emotional bytch.
 

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Black women take a keen interest in Black men's mating choices once those Black men start making money. They don't give a shyt about him before he's making money. He's invisible before the money. He's just as invisible to most Black women as he is to non-Black women. So, why are Black women entitled to his money?

They want his money as much as non-Black women want his money!
Yeah because most of those dudes date black exclusively until a few Millions are in their bank account. Now all of a sudden they LOVE variety and have Preferences.
BW had no issue with men like Dennis Rodman because they have ALWAYS dated out.
If you feel this way why are you all up and down that thread about that BW whos married to the WM ?
you all unanimously stated she's unattractive and you wouldnt give her the time of day.
she gets in a relationship with a WM now she's every derogatory name you can think of.
Youre always in threads about BW even though you've stated several times in my few weeks on this forum that you have no attraction and no affinity to them why is that?
why do you expect a group of women you don't like to be loyal &support you??
You same men that talk all this shyt about Black women then turn around and expect Black women to support your clown asses:russ:
"Black women are hard to talk to" "Black women treat me funny at work"
If you clowns talk anything like you do on this site in real life i don't blame them.
Im sure they can smell the c00n on yall.:stopitslime:
 
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