Why successful black men are a$$holes
- Thread starter Mr.Forte
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I tagged you only once@Yup why you keep tagging me in this stuff? I don't think I'm entitled to dimed out black women or that I'm anything other than an average dude.
I'm lame, corny, and nerdy.
I've accepted this.
Reality
Make your own luck.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
This is why I avoid them. It's not my fault that chick turned you down because you were ugly and broke even though you wouldn't have even approached her if she wasn't attractive. It's so funny how they want an attractive female to look past all their negatives but they won't do that for a woman. 
Kenny West
Veteran
I got mostly black friends with a few others of all races sprinkled in. It's true, most people will be on your jock when you're shining, I get it. The difference with black folks is that during your ascent people shyt on you, and the moment you make it (or even start looking like you might) nikkas got they hands out and chicks riding your jock. People don't even try to hide their intentions. And if you don't play their game "He fake" "he think just cause he ____ he the shyt" etc. It's just so....scummy to me.
"Swimming in so many women I lost count, once they give me the p*ssy homie, I dog em out
" - Juicy JBut on the real it's my policy to try and leave a girl better than I found her. But this is only if I respect her, if not the gloves come off. I've only dogged chicks that cheat on their bfs with me and super annoying birds who may have waited too long to let me hit.
With that in mind if I was a rich black a$$hole, I wouldn't be able to tell who's a bird just after the money and who's not, the smiles are all the same. Because of that I'd probably just do it indiscriminately.
If you think hittin and quittin is some bitter shyt that's fine, but most of the chicks on the market right now are chasing after fellow "bitter" nikkas with the same MO. That's if they haven't dealt with them already and sworn them off .You really think most rich dudes with options are on some wait 3 dates/ 90 days shyt? Or are they running thru hoes? Be honest
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This is why I avoid them. It's not my fault that chick turned you down because you were ugly and broke even though you wouldn't have even approached her if she wasn't attractive. It's so funny how they want an attractive female to look past all their negatives but they won't do that for a woman.
My only negatives are that I'm short, skinny, lame, ugly, and corny though.
I'm not even broke, just too broke for my black instagram queens
Lira Mercer, just let me marry you.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
My only negatives are that I'm short, skinny, lame, ugly, and corny though.
I'm not even broke, just too broke for my black instagram queens
Lira Mercer, just let me marry you.
Then don't chase Instagram "queens". It's stupid how guys go for females that don't want them, then take it out on other females that haven't done anything to them. It's not that chick's fault that the hoe from college didn't want to fukk your shallow ugly ass. What's annoying is they see absolutely nothing wrong with them only wanting those chicks because they're attractive but if that chick wants a dude with money or a dude that's equally attractive, it's a problem. It's ok for them to be shallow but it's a crime if a woman is just as shallow.
philmonroe
Superstar
I can't ride with the black people do this and other groups don't because just of personal experience from my friends of different groups you going to get that period. Not trying to be funny but I bet the closest to you aren't those of other races and the reason I mention that is because its the closest ones where you deal with the most stuff normally. Cats you know but aren't your true friends you don't have that as much cause they don't care so they give out token do your thing type flow. I see that when even talking to people offline how they will say the closest friends act different than associates but often times its because the associates just on some whatever flow. I would also say if you have that many people like that around you maybe you need a new circle. Sometimes we just grow apart. Ive had friends like that at times but after some time apart stuff is usually better cause sometimes you just need space to grow.I got mostly black friends with a few others of all races sprinkled in. It's true, most people will be on your jock when you're shining, I get it. The difference with black folks is that during your ascent people shyt on you, and the moment you make it (or even start looking like you might) nikkas got they hands out and chicks riding your jock. People don't even try to hide their intentions. And if you don't play their game "He fake" "he think just cause he ____ he the shyt" etc. It's just so....scummy to me.
"Swimming in so many women I lost count, once they give me the p*ssy homie, I dog em out
But on the real it's my policy to try and leave a girl better than I found her. But this is only if I respect her, if not the gloves come off. I've only dogged chicks that cheat on their bfs with me and super annoying birds who may have waited too long to let me hit.
With that in mind if I was a rich black a$$hole, I wouldn't be able to tell who's a bird just after the money and who's not, the smiles are all the same. Because of that I'd probably just do it indiscriminately.
You really think most rich dudes with options are on some wait 3 dates/ 90 days shyt? Or are they running thru hoes? Be honest
As far as the girls I don't mess with chicks seriously unless I "respect" them. Even if I don't I don't dog them out and I never said hitting and quitting is dogging a chick out. I'm just honest about if this going somewhere or not but a lot of people aren't but that seems to be most people way of doing business. No I don't think guys with options are waiting 3dates/90days but I know regular working dudes not doing that either. If that is going on consistently in somebody's dating life they need to question themselves on why that's happening to them. For you though sounds like you just want to fukk some of these chicks but act like you wanna be their dude and then they start stalling you out honestly
Kenny West
Veteran
@ the bold you're right, they're not.
However most of this fakery isn't from my circle, I haven't made it yet or anything for folks to switch up on me in that way. Plus I've already cut out most of the frauds in my life. It's just something I've observed multiple times from other friends who were in that position. The offenders would sometimes be their friends, fb acquaintances or just neighborhood nikkas. Nobody has more time to be sitting back gossiping, envying and hating on the next man than neighborhood nikkas who aint bout shyt
Ok, Idk what you mean by dogging a chick out. We're gonna leave that part alone.
As for the bolded
, could you tell me what you're basing this off of again? I've been avoiding titles like the plague for the last year and a half.I'm way too far gone to stall out waiting for a chick, I'll cut off. I've probably lost more chicks not using the bolded approach tbh. I don't have the patience for working on wishy washy maybe girls these days
philmonroe
Superstar
Like you said don't worry about them other cats unless they messing with the bread. If they start the hating and stuff just gotta cut them out the circle. Once you start worrying about them types truthfully you, me, anybody, aren't much better since we entertaining this junk. Last thing sometimes when you make it others don't want you to because when you all from the same upbringing that looks funny when you made it and they still kicking them same excuses. I see that all the time from here to IRL but as you know you gotta keep moving forward.@ the bold you're right, they're not.
However most of this fakery isn't from my circle, I haven't made it yet or anything for folks to switch up on me in that way. Plus I've already cut out most of the frauds in my life. It's just something I've observed multiple times from other friends who were in that position. The offenders would sometimes be their friends, fb acquaintances or just neighborhood nikkas. Nobody has more time to be sitting back gossiping, envying and hating on the next man than neighborhood nikkas who aint bout shyt
Ok, Idk what you mean by dogging a chick out. We're gonna leave that part alone.
As for the bolded
I'm way too far gone to stall out waiting for a chick, I'll cut off. I've probably lost more chicks not using the bolded approach tbh. I don't have the patience for working on wishy washy maybe girls these days
I'm basing bolded off your post on this topic. Don't matter if you never posted in these threads before cause I'm only going by this thread. I'm just being honest nobody I know in real life or hell even online "ballers" have all this stuff to say about chicks when they getting them like that. That's just something I noticed and you can disagree because in all honesty who going to co sign something that they think makes them look bad? I don't know you personally so I can only go off the little posted but shyt we all know that's all anybody can go off of. I'm not and will never act like I know cats when I don't that's why I said what it sounds like. You say I'm wrong regarding chicks stalling you out so I'll take that L since you have no reason to lie to me. I never said dogging a chick out you did and was just repeating it but since we don't seem to know what the other is speaking on on that I agree we can let that go.
Kenny West
Veteran
Real.
I see what you're getting at here. I'll bullet point this since this will be all over the place but
- Truthfully it just seems like the notion of dogging a chick out or how I said it rubbed you the wrong way. And based on whatever vibe that gave off, it feels like you're trying to find a psychological profile that would fit me such as "dejected simp mad at being stalled out". I asked you what you were basing that bolded sentence off of cause the "act like you're their dude and then they start stalling you out honestly " part doesn't seem like it was represented in my post. Don't get me wrong, it's not like that never happened to me when I was younger but it just feels like you throwing shyt at the wall in a lowkey way. This is just the vibe I'm picking up.
- IDK who you be around or maybe you're older, but most of the guys I know with the MOST success with women say the most about them. The guys walking around pointing out tweaks or bragging about how they smut a chick. bytches this, hoes this thots that. Those are dudes getting them like that. One of the most thorough nikkas I know calls women bytches to their face.
It's just the nature of the game, when you deal with women you see the bad sides that are hidden from simps. I didn't know how grimy the game was until I was the dude watching her hit the ignore button while her bf is blowing up her phone. - There are some things about the game that as a man, I don't respect. Hypergamy as a whole has fukked up elements to me, even if I'm a benefactor. That's just how I feel. Women have parts of the game too that they don't respect like side chicks, two timing, being a deadbeat etc. The funny thing is tho, nobody has complaints about the game once they're in the drivers seat. IRL I just accept it for what it is and move accordingly but this forum is a medium I can intellectualize my thoughts on it. label it however you like.
Its because you're a homosexual. Kinda like how id be lambasted if i made it because my wife is asian. Dont worry they'll be turning on this c00n pretty soon. Its gonna be ok.
As if we don't constantly have to hear from Black women bytching about Black men who don't want them. They then take their frustrations out on all Black men. Difference is Black women use national platforms to do this. Black men are only on Youtube and places like the Coli doing this. Black women go on national TV and write op-eds in print media to complain, effectively throwing all Black men under the bus.
Fat Black woman gets no love from the Black men she wants. Claims Black men police the bodies of Black women.
Dark Black woman gets no love from the Black men she wants. Claims Black men are color struck.
Black woman with kids gets no love from the Black men she wants. Claims Black men are deadbeats.