Why successful black men are a$$holes

[MikelArteta]

Here's some old man advice for the day: stop dealing with bum ass bytches and you won't have that problem. I've never dated a broad who was with me for money (probably because I look broke ).

My current girlfriend shops at good will for our clothes.
My ex-girlfriend used to always buy clothes at plato's closet

Stop fukking with bum bytches and a lot of these problems go away.

I've never messed with bum ass chicks

 

[Scott Larock]

Gotta step out, this was a real ass thread... many cats can relate to this shyt alot of sisters do.

Truthfully average nikkas are better off dating non black, they'll appreciate you more since they socialize at a lower level, real talk let's keep it 100.

I go to a black event, everthing is about the grown and "established" whites and others just party to party, nikkas gotta show off to the world they got something.

Let's be blunt, we gotta get over that shyt, if you a average nikka, don't even bother

 

[MikelArteta]

I consider myself a successful black man, but I've never had issues getting with black women even when I had nothing. I think the problem is delusion on both sides. Women thinking looks alone should bring them a wealthy man, when there are way more pretty girls than rich men. Men thinking money can get women, then getting mad when they use money to attract women and only catch golddiggers.

I always think about one of my friends, who never has girls and his money aint right. He was like "yo when i get a nice car like you imma have all the bytches too". No, your just going to be a nikka with no bytches in a benz. When we go out, he wants the baddest girl and never gets her, then gets frustrated and starts bytching all night about black women aint shyt.

To both women and men, it's time to be honest with yourself. Maybe the problem isn't everyone else, maybe it's you.

if you can't get women when you have nothing when you have money the only women you will get are the ones who want you for money.

 

[AtomicUse]

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I came in to say, perhaps you need to broaden your circle.

Aren't you a troll poster?

I only deal with college educated/ professional/entrepreneurial women, from all sides of the city and surrounding suburbs. I'm not fukking with hood rats,no way.

There are some malicious dudes out here though, that's another story, my attitude is based more off of reception. I'm not out to get back at or play anybody.

 

[Taadow]

OP is dancing on the line of fukkboy but this is a real ass thread.

It's not just the women. (they are the main culprits tho) but black folk in general be on this bullshyt.

EVERYBODY is on this.

The dweeb with the pocket protector that makes good.
The broad who had no body in HS who grew up to be bad.

Everybody feels some way about folk who accosted them. It ain't wrong to feel this way.
But if that's your main motivation for bettering yourself, that's when it can become a liability.

 

[CarltonJunior]

The problem is finding an attractive black chick (that's not ran through) that's childless, not overweight, reasonably educated, isn't crazy, cooks/cleans, loyal and doesn't have unrealistic standards is like finding a fukking unicorn. Unless you're on a college campus. But you can easily find this in "other women"

That raw uncut ether

 

[Yup]

Bullshyt. I never needed a dime. Cute always been good enough for me. Alot of good black men don't get women until AFTER they're successful and AFTER the woman has had her fun and her b*stard children. 70% of black children are born to single mothers. That's fact. I know 83% of black men are marrying black women. You're not teaching me anything. We know that. But I bet a good number of those men are putting up with hella baggage. Statistics say so. Don't bullshyt me. I'm 26. Most the (black) girls my age have baggage. Bytches hella ran through. Don't bullshyt me I can have one of them too if I wanted....they on me every time I go to church.....stop acting like BW are this rare commodity .....I just have no desire to raise your b*stard children or be a rest haven for a girl who would've acted like she was too good at 19/20. I'm open to meeting a good black chick though. The problem is finding an attractive black chick (that's not ran through) that's childless, not overweight, reasonably educated, isn't crazy, cooks/cleans, loyal and doesn't have unrealistic standards is like finding a fukking unicorn. Unless you're on a college campus. But you can easily find this in "other women"

I don't believe they are unocorn status and if we are going by the stats aren't you moreso the rarity than the black women.

 

[Yup]

I consider myself a successful black man, but I've never had issues getting with black women even when I had nothing. I think the problem is delusion on both sides. Women thinking looks alone should bring them a wealthy man, when there are way more pretty girls than rich men. Men thinking money can get women, then getting mad when they use money to attract women and only catch golddiggers.

I always think about one of my friends, who never has girls and his money aint right. He was like "yo when i get a nice car like you imma have all the bytches too". No, your just going to be a nikka with no bytches in a benz. When we go out, he wants the baddest girl and never gets her, then gets frustrated and starts bytching all night about black women aint shyt.

To both women and men, it's time to be honest with yourself. Maybe the problem isn't everyone else, maybe it's you.

One of the readonable post on here. If you let these guys tell it black women are the only gold diggers out there. I am an average pretty girl, if a guy passes me up for a Beyonce or a kelly rowlans I aint going to be mad. But if he turns around and says there are no good black women out there then he is a blatant fool and a liar.

 

[Yup]

That raw uncut ether

Oh ya? White girls can cook now?

 

[Yup]

like?

Family oriented, ambitious, loving, faithful, humble, kind...shall I go on.

 

[Scott Larock]

Bedwench needed me for foolishness, by saying average nikkas will have a hard time getting a sister, fukk you brehette, you mad cuz um not lying.

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

One of the readonable post on here. If you let these guys tell it black women are the only gold diggers out there. I am an average pretty girl, if a guy passes me up for a Beyonce or a kelly rowlans I aint going to be mad. But if he turns around and says there are no good black women out there then he is a blatant fool and a liar.

Black women are just more blatant and short term with it, they want money upfront i.e. expensive drinks and meals, bills paid. Non-black golddiggers play the long con, they want to get married and get half.

 

[Tae]

Bullshyt. I never needed a dime. Cute always been good enough for me. Alot of good black men don't get women until AFTER they're successful and AFTER the woman has had her fun and her b*stard children. 70% of black children are born to single mothers. That's fact. I know 83% of black men are marrying black women. You're not teaching me anything. We know that. But I bet a good number of those men are putting up with hella baggage. Statistics say so. Don't bullshyt me. I'm 26. Most the (black) girls my age have baggage. Bytches hella ran through. Don't bullshyt me I can have one of them too if I wanted....stop acting like BW are this rare commodity .....I just have no desire to raise your b*stard children or be a rest haven for a girl who would've acted like she was too good at 19/20.

That statistic includes biracial children fathered with non-black women by black men.

Alot of good black men don't get women until AFTER they're successful

WRONG!!

if you can't get women when you have nothing when you have money the only women you will get are the ones who want you for money.

...stop acting like BW are this rare commodity.....
The problem is finding an attractive black chick (that's not ran through) that's childless, not overweight, reasonably educated, isn't crazy, cooks/cleans, loyal and doesn't have unrealistic standardsBut you can easily find this in "other women"

Seems like you're the one acting like good BW are a rare commodity.
I suggest you marry out and keep putting other races of women on a pedestal, since it would be a disgrace to see a good black woman be with a man who thinks most women of other races are above her in terms of quality.
Oh and good luck with your future divorce. Hopefully Becky, Maria or Mai Ling won't be too hard on you.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I've never messed with bum ass chicks

If a broad is telling you she needs expensive furniture in your crib and expensive ass hotels, she's a bum ass broad.

 

[philmonroe]

Gotta step out, this was a real ass thread... many cats can relate to this shyt alot of sisters do.

Truthfully average nikkas are better off dating non black, they'll appreciate you more since they socialize at a lower level, real talk let's keep it 100.

I go to a black event, everthing is about the grown and "established" whites and others just party to party, nikkas gotta show off to the world they got something.

Let's be blunt, we gotta get over that shyt, if you a average nikka, don't even bother

Get out of your little bubble and stop sucking off other races. Cats always snitching on yourselves and don't even know it