mode.
Get in the car. *deletes number while driving*
What stories have I told?
Naive, desperate??
Quit trying to catch birds and you won't get pecked.
You say the majority of attractive young black women deal in polar opposites they either like the Rich nikka or thug bad boy. This leaves the majority of black men, the "middle men", shyt out of luck and you keep hearing the same stories from them.
What stories would that be? How good looking black women weren't checking for them so they grew a chip on their shoulder and now favor non-black women.
Seeing as most black men wind up with black women these stories seem fabricated.
Almost every successful black dude I know is with a black women. Almost every black dude I know on his grind trying to make a come up is with a black women.
It is the lames that think they deserve a black women who is a 10, but would gladly take a non-black 5, that have these stories.
And how would I know the dude is lame, because he would be telling me this story. Most black men don't have this problem.
I can have one of them too if I wanted....they on me every time I go to church.....stop acting like BW are this rare commodity 
.....I just have no desire to raise your b*stard children or be a rest haven for a girl who would've acted like she was too good at 19/20. I'm open to meeting a good black chick though. The problem is finding an attractive black chick (that's not ran through) that's childless, not overweight, reasonably educated, isn't crazy, cooks/cleans, loyal and doesn't have unrealistic standards is like finding a fukking unicorn. Unless you're on a college campus. But you can easily find this in "other women" 
I already said women are spenders
a single man is fine driving a honda civic, living in a bachelors with one couch a flat screen tv and a regular bed, with a small white fridge.
a woman needs the leather coach, mahogony bed head, stainless steel fridge, andy warhol pictures on the wall, coffee table and a fancy waterfront condo with a consinglere.
the car is to bland for her.
Even for travelling you think nikkaz care about 5 star resorts etc.?
I remember when I used to travel with a old brehette if the hotel/resort wasn't 4 or 5 stars it was
now I travel by myself and ill stay in a motel for all i care, its why most stores in the mall are for women, most ads marketed to women they are the spenders
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on here heavy for their interests, but you know it's wrong and fake, I know it's wrong and fake. No point in trying to change em, just get rich and dog em out I came in to say, perhaps you need to broaden your circle.All the successful brothers I know, who are not in relationships with the ones they came up with, are on
They go on dates/meet women and inside they're just
I'm getting there myself. I cut this chick off last week cause she questioned where I parked when we went out to Navy Pier.
Her: Why you park right here? You couldn't park on the 3rd level?
Me:
I aint even think twice about her once i dropped her off, then I pulled up to the gas station and another one struck up a conversation with me about my car, and put her number in my phone. Wants to come over and cook for me and go to The Art Institute later.
It's a revolving door now, and I know it's got nothing to do with me, it's the things I have. I didn't have these things 10 years ago. I was fresh out of HS and broke.
Now, I'm turning into an asshhole and Im getting away with it because there's an endless amount of women in this city and they're socialites who only care about appearances/vanity.
Hopefully I get a grip before I turn into old boy from the Best Buy thread. I'm already cutting chicks off over parking spaces and dinner selections. But there's always another one ready to replace them, so until that changes, I'll keep envying the ones that got their queens already.
No fronting they love is on another level, but the GMB movement is staring me down too. I don't want to end up on the wrong side of that situation either.
shyt is just internally taxing, and I don't know what the answer is.
They are not contradictory. I prefer black men but I am not turning down a guy from another race that I vibe with. Boohoo!
Quit trying to catch birds and you won't get pecked.
You say the majority of attractive young black women deal in polar opposites they either like the Rich nikka or thug bad boy. This leaves the majority of black men, the "middle men", shyt out of luck and you keep hearing the same stories from them.
What stories would that be? How good looking black women weren't checking for them so they grew a chip on their shoulder and now favor non-black women.
Seeing as most black men wind up with black women these stories seem fabricated.
Almost every successful black dude I know is with a black women. Almost every black dude I know on his grind trying to make a come up is with a black women.
It is the lames that think they deserve a black women who is a 10, but would gladly take a non-black 5, that have these stories.
And how would I know the dude is lame, because he would be telling me this story. Most black men don't have this problem.
What name did I call you?
All I'm saying is when white men marry black women they have the biggest education gap of any relationship. Education is the direct correlation of income in all groups. However black women are saying they are getting the white men who surpass these factual educational incomes. Basically you're getting the white men diamonds in the rough.
Facts don't lie black women white men have one of the highest incomes in marriage but the biggest educational gap.
I understand its hard to admit when black women get some money they marry a poor white man but the facts aint lying y'all are
For emphasis....directing to you @DrajeCosign the bolded to the fullest. nikkas don't know their market value. You got average nikkas, with an average personality, with average money, and average intelligence somehow thinking that they DESERVE a dime who has her option of any man she wants. The world don't work like that and having a degree, a car, an apartment, and a job paying 40k/yr doesn't make you a catch
If you want better women, be a better man.
OP is dancing on the line of fukkboy but this is a real ass thread.
It's not just the women. (they are the main culprits tho) but black folk in general be on this bullshyt. Basically if it ain't tangible or material nikkas don't fukk with you. If you on the come up EVERYONE doubts you. If you aren't rich or wasting your money pretending to be rich then folks label you broke. Nobody respects the journey, most are hoping you fail or are trying to drag you down with them. This is why so many black folk turn their back on the "community" when they make it. nikkas asking you to "give back" to the community when the only thing the community gave you was hate.
As far as the women go, birds gonan chase the material shyt. Cause that's what they do. nikkas will
