i remember my thread on would you date a man who made 12.50 a hour and hte resounding result was
then stats show that 50% of americans make under 30k a year
and we all know black men have the least money out of any race
Lol, I love how ypu curved that one. How many black women are in interracial relationships vs black men? I thought no one wants black women besides black men. Y'all flip flop too much.
And that's where your reasoning is faulty because it implies that they are different personalities of black men but black women are of singular mind. When dudes talk about black wonen they are not referring to the range of black women that exist, they are only talking about the ones that they are interested in.@Reality hit it on the head
A lot of young black women....at least majority of the attractive ones have a type....the same way men like pretty girls with curves, breasts and booty....they like bad boys/swagged up dudes. I have a theory that BW don't care for the middle guys. They want one end or the other end. Extreme polarity. On one end is the rich ballers. They can be rappers, athletes, actors, doctors, lawyers, the lames they dissed before who are now successful. Any black dude with money. On the other end are the broke dudes. They broke as fukk but, they fulfill a physical requirement they crave. They have a big dikk. They're a bad boy. They have the arrogant swag they love. They're handsome. These dudes are broke but, fulfill one of those requirements. BW deal in polarity....rich nikka or poor bad boy. Now........the middle guys. The average guys. The nikkas who don't fit the status quo for what a black man is supposed to be is shyt out of luck. He's a lame. He doesn't have the natural physical qualities black women crave (thugs, bad boys, pretty boys, swag boys). The only chance he has is to come up financially but, that's years away. My theory is ALOT of black men fall into "the middle guy" zone which is why you hear so many successful black guys say the same story.
As others have said, it's much much easier for that average middle guy to get a woman of another race. She sees your potential. She's not tryna to date the next Wiz Khalifa. A lot of things that's lame to our women is normal to them. I'm rambling now but, I want to add this, I remember one of my roommates had a girl. Let's call him Lamont. The girl he was seeing looked like Victoria Allure (porn broad). My roommate was the kinda cat a lot chicks would love. Player. Arrogant. Swag. Anyway, girl was head over heels for him. She'd come over and cook all us (4 suite mates) dinner. She'd vacuum clean the spot. She'd buy that nikka shiit all the time. I remember asking him where his girl was at once and he was like "don't call that bytch my girl nikkaWe just cool". This broad would bend over backward for duke and obviously thought they were in a relationship while this nikka could care less. I looked at her with disgust eventually cuz I know she gonna be that chick that says nikkas ain't shyt or there's no good men 10 years from now when she spent her prime chasing dudes like him. No shade being thrown at my roommate. I ain't want her. I forgot her name already. It just made me disgusted nonetheless. And I hate when chicks lie online like we don't be around y'all everyday and see how y'all move.
That's all I needed hear black men date out more amd marry out more, period. And your right the way, that black women are thrown under the bus for evrry little thing I encourage my susters to date out more and gain more experience with men of other races.
I respect that...more black women should date quality and keep their legs closed.
Why should there be...I bet that visceral feeling comes into play ehen its gheir men that black women are with. Doesn't change the fact that they feel entitled because of how they are portrayef to the rest of the world
I already said women are spenders
a single man is fine driving a honda civic, living in a bachelors with one couch a flat screen tv and a regular bed, with a small white fridge.
a woman needs the leather coach, mahogony bed head, stainless steel fridge, andy warhol pictures on the wall, coffee table and a fancy waterfront condo with a consinglere.
the car is to bland for her.
Even for travelling you think nikkaz care about 5 star resorts etc.?
I remember when I used to travel with a old brehette if the hotel/resort wasn't 4 or 5 stars it was
now I travel by myself and ill stay in a motel for all i care, its why most stores in the mall are for women, most ads marketed to women they are the spenders
. Then a foldup coach from ikea with a coffee table and shyt. I was like, youre only gonna be here for like a year or two why are you bothering to buy all this shyt and pay somebody to move it in Nope.Is that directed @me?
Never mentioned anything like that
Not all women are spenders...but women tend to want to make a place a home. That's wgat women usually strive for.
Fam I remember my 2nd and third year of university this is literally what I had in my bedroom.
A wooden box fame with a mattress on top...both flat on the ground to sleep on. A desk to do my homework on, And a dresser drawer that I found on the road down the street the first week I moved in. One of my roommates was exactly the same...only without the dresser drawer.
In the living room we had 3 trash tube TVs (the black ones) and whichever one worked is the one we used. I think we found those on road too. We also had 1 recliner a man brought from his basement at home...and then two long sofas we found again...ON THE ROAD. And a trash wooden table to eat on.
my ex girlfriend... i remember when she moved to Toronto had to get the nice ass wooden bedframe and dresser combo. A nice flat screen jawn and a bunch of random pointless pottery and pillows that only got in the way when I was tryna mack on the coach
