Why successful black men are a$$holes

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black chicks wont completely write you off esp if you're good looking

but they will call you "boring" or "lame" if youdon't fit the status quo

sometimes I wonder if some of you even interact with young black women :patrice:
Here's how I see it.

The quality of black women you can pull as someone working the 9-5, on their way to being "successful" in terms of financial stability, pales in comparison to the quality of white women & latina women you could pull doing the same. The 7+ black women I'VE seen (again, speaking for myself) have been w/ "aspiring" rappers & men involved in illegitimate enterprise.
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i really do hate how some of you act like no one wanted you when you were broke. i dated broke men when younger.

they wanted video girl type of women. so no, it is not "black women don't look at me when i'm broke" it is "video vixen type women don't look at me when i'm broke" and that is no surprise since they like men with money in general
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Black women do this....ALOT. Because smart nerdy nikka don't get the coochie wet. Bad boys with swag do (yes, Bad boys can have 9-to-5s and degrees too). A lot of things that's corny to black women aren't corny to white chicks, so those smart nerdy nikkas get in where they fit in. When that smart nerdy nikka get a nonblack woman, nikkas say "you a lame/ugly, can't pull a black chick" not realizing that saying someone is too lame to get a black woman kinda corrobates the fact that most young black woman want a swagger up playa type, Trey Songz basically. The fact that these guys who were SO lame can go and all of sudden find willing non-black women means they must not be THAT ugly or THAT lame. They just were to black chicks.
 

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as a motivated, smart, goal oriented black man I can wholeheartedly say yes they are. But I still eat off a niche market so fukk it :manny:.

They are.

but are yall broke though?

could be cause they making money (may not be rich but....) they dont wanna be with someone who doesnt have it.

goal oriented SOUNDS good....can it pay it bills though? lol.
 

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I've never came across so many bytch made ass black males until the explosion of social media because some of the shyt yall type is straight up retarded. So let me get this straight...even though black women are surpassing black men in almost every category imaginable...all they want for the most part are drug dealers, ballers, and thugs? Black women don't want to build with black men and instead only want the finished product? Yall seriously believe this stupid shyt? If were going to be honest with ourselves the problem has never been about black women. Its about black men who think they deserve a miracle watts caliber black women who show them no attention instead of focusing on the average black women who are more on their level. I've never had a problem getting attention from black women so I can't relate.


wheeeew! spit yo game! talk yo shyt!

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asking a woman her weight is along the lines of asking a man his income. i've posted about being overweight now. i don't look nearly the same as when i dated them. made some improvements and missteps. i had an ok body at least in my opinion of about 39-27-43. waist could have been slimmer i know, and i did work out frequently.

:manny: i'm moving to an expensive city, so i'm on a diet for 2 months so i can be in shape. i'll need to find a strong independent man to sponge off of.


answer me this: are you single? where do you live? what are your views on speedy co-habitation? :sas2:
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I'm a nerdy black dude. Went to an HBCU too...

Black chicks was never checking for me. Not the cute ones, at least. Cute, nerdy white chicks was checking for me though.

'Shrug'

Black chicks don't really check for me now. I pull cute-ish white chicks and only "fat or below average" black chicks show me love. :yeshrug:
I went to an HBCU too and I'm far from a thug.

But here's your issue.

A lot of black guys for them to date black women the chick must be a damn near dime. But for white or latina the same standards aren't applied. I knew dudes at school talk about "oh some Beyonce bish won't give me no play" fukk black chicks. But yet they NEVER approach a dark skin chick or a let's say a young Michelle Obama type. Those girls exists they not ghetto they not looking for thugs. But they approach very average white or latina girl they see.

I saw it ALL the time. There were TONS of nerdy or down to earth black chicks at my school and YES they were attractive. But for some of you the black girl must look like Beyonce to get your attention but a white bish can look like Jay Leno with a wig and you'll chase her.
 
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