Why successful black men are a$$holes

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Here's how I see it.

The quality of black women you can pull as someone working the 9-5, on their way to being "successful" in terms of financial stability, pales in comparison to the quality of white women & latina women you could pull doing the same. The 7+ black women I'VE seen (again, speaking for myself) have been w/ "aspiring" rappers & men involved in illegitimate enterprise.
 

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Here's how I see it.

The quality of black women you can pull as someone working the 9-5, on their way to being "successful" in terms of financial stability, pales in comparison to the quality of white women & latina women you could pull doing the same. The 7+ black women I'VE seen (again, speaking for myself) have been w/ "aspiring" rappers & men involved in illegitimate enterprise.

Simply truth
 

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When I read threads like this I am reminded that black women need to take note of the "mentality" of many of these black male posters and "expand our options". It is in our overall best interest to do so.

Black American women are the ONLY women on the planet to stand by and let black American men trash us while turning down great men from other backgrounds. Asian women, Hispanic women and White women ALL do what is in their BEST interest ALWAYS. We need to take a lesson.
 

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I believe a lot of successful black men are a$$holes because when they were broke or average most black women never gave them the time of day and looked at them in disgust. But now that they're successful these same women come in flocks. They didn't want to build a future with these men, they wanted the finished product. It's kind of like payback for black men and plus black men have way more options when they're successful.
I see this more with nerdy black dudes than broke nikkas.
 

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When I read threads like this I am reminded that black women need to take note of the "mentality" of many of these black male posters and "expand our options". It is in our overall best interest to do so.

Black American women are the ONLY women on the planet to stand by and let black American men trash us while turning down great men from other backgrounds. Asian women, Hispanic women and White women ALL do what is in their BEST interest ALWAYS. We need to take a lesson.
A black woman with a man from another race makes a biracial not a black woman so how is doing that specifically in the interest of black women as a whole?
 

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A lot of the men on here are unfortunately brainwashed by the white supremecist machine to believe all of their problems are "black problems".

I had this problem before I got my paper up, so have all my non "jock" friends regardless of race.

Stop letting tv fool you into thinking only black people have problems in the dating world.

As soon as I read OP "Back then they didnt want me, now im hot they all on me" got stuck instantly in my head :pachaha:
 

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A black woman with a man from another race makes a biracial not a black woman so how is doing that specifically in the interest of black women as a whole?

Black women need to STOP being loyal to those (specific) black men who HATE us.

This mentality of these black men "getting back at" or "payback" to black women is petty, childish and disgusting.
 

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Black women need to STOP being loyal to those (specific) black men who HATE us.

This mentality of these black men "getting back at" or "payback" to black women is petty, childish and disgusting.

:zzz:
 

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Black women need to STOP being loyal to those (specific) black men who HATE us.

This mentality of these black men "getting back at" or "payback" to black women is petty, childish and disgusting.
Well thats a totally different thing from what youve said before. :yeshrug:

Also women from other races are loyal to their own "as a whole" too just as black women are loyal to their own as well lol.

 
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When I read threads like this I am reminded that black women need to take note of the "mentality" of many of these black male posters and "expand our options". It is in our overall best interest to do so.

Black American women are the ONLY women on the planet to stand by and let black American men trash us while turning down great men from other backgrounds. Asian women, Hispanic women and White women ALL do what is in their BEST interest ALWAYS. We need to take a lesson.

Did I ruffle your feathers ? if so, it puts a smile on my face, lol
 

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A lot of the men on here are unfortunately brainwashed by the white supremecist machine to believe all of their problems are "black problems".

I had this problem before I got my paper up, so have all my non "jock" friends regardless of race.

Stop letting tv fool you into thinking only black people have problems in the dating world.

As soon as I read OP "Back then they didnt want me, now im hot they all on me" got stuck instantly in my head :pachaha:

You're right, it's not just a black problem.
 

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Did I ruffle your feathers ? if so, it puts a smile on my face, lol

Nope. My feathers not ruffled my dear. I date mostly white men so the "banishment" of black women does not affect me. Just hoping that more black American women will get the real gist of what men like yourself are implying. The younger women have and its a wonderful thing to see. I hope that more and more black women will start dating Trevor, Todd and Travis; and leave Tariq and Tyrone alone with Becky, Maria and Mai Ling.
 
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