Many women (even those married) are doing the bolded, especially brehettes.
I think you’re looking at this from the lens of a man. Women don’t operate like y’all. Outside of sex workers, women aren’t having sex with men they don’t sexually desire or like, in big numbers. Women are more likely to be celibate and use their toy than they are to have ons with a man who they don’t want/sexually desire when they get horny. Which is why some women go long stretches without fukking despite the numerous men who want to fukk them.
I don’t disagree but that’s only when marriage provides benefits/incentives to said women. As the author indicated in the article, many times black women are marrying men they are mismatched with, so they aren’t getting the benefits/incentives that often comes with marriage. So they end up getting a divorce because of it. In our community bw nor bm see enough benefit/incentives to marry just anybody. That probably is why our marriage rate is low.
Women have a stighlty less sexual drive than Men they can and do "wait it out" but those "mismatched" Mariage and dating situations aren't so much that a nikka lied to the woman it's just that she was horny enough to throw caution to the wind when dealing with the dude.
Of course women work but most women want the option of not working or relying on a Man to provide for them.
I was in Iraq with a unit with a fair amount of women attached and although I can't say for certain that it happened but I heard there was prositution going on. The problem was money meant nothing because there was nothing to buy. You had tp risk your life to drive to a Big base to get stuff. One time a chick volunteered to go to the big base just so she could get her hair done. Even the big base LSA Anaconda was called "Mortaritaville" because it was rocketed by the enemy all the time. So when a dude said that certain women were selling that thang I said
That doesn't make sense everyone has way more money then they need The Dude said
She'd rather spend your money
Again I don't know if that was true but I will say that working at a strip club I can say that chicks weren't selling it for a life changing sum of money.
The issue is I think people trivalize marraige and people look at shyt too transactionally. Tyomi Morgan a "sex coach". and America's Top Model contestant tweeted
Outside of Procreation and Pentrative sex what does a woman need a Man for ?
I didn't respond but the answer is nothing and
everything. First of all Friendships are important the worse thing that could happen to an inmate is to put him in solitary confinement. It literally makes people go crazy. Second of all she's a sex coach who complains about the lack of Men thirldly she has an Only fans with scenes with certain Male pornstars. It seems like a lot of OF content creators she picks the Male talent who she shoots with.
The Male Talent doesn't tweet it as their scene and it doesn't leak on the tube sites so it's probably not content exchange she pays the Talent for the shoot in other words she buys their sexual labor. Again women think that Men who trick are lame a woman tricking? That's an L of gigantic proportions
It costs more to be a woman and theres hard evidence that despite higher education rates and business creation and much less incareration rates Black woman still lag behind Men in Net worth. Men work more hours are more flexible employees take more risks than women take generally woman appreciate this.
Then there's slapgate. Again a lot of Black women bigged up Will for "defending Jada's Honor" Tiffany Haddish said she found it "sexy".
Finally dudes are useful at doing traditionally manly things like carrying heavy loads and Fixing things and negotiatiing with businesses. I remember in college this dude fixed a chick's breakes for her and she cooked him a meal. She had a boyfriend. When our friend told us what the chick did all the dudes was like
You don't cook a meal for a Man that's not your Boyfriend or Family member. None of the women understood why us dudes were so upset about it.
nikka, you are responsible for your health. 
Your dikk is attached to your body. It is your responsibility to protect your body from STDs. No woman should have to tell you that you need to wear a condom. 
