“Why more black women should marry white men” - The New York Post

[Wiseborn]

So you honestly think BW are sleeping with WM the same rates that BM sleep with WW? Even though BW always express their lack of attraction for WM, how they don’t even like the way white penis looks, they don’t fukk with WM. They don’t go around calling WM snow bunnies or any corny nicknames like that because on average BW don’t fukk with them. We both know this. And it’d be extremely disingenuous of you to deny this.

The bolded is cap that has been negated by social media.

Black women are Black. If you can accept that even Black Men who deal with Black women talk about "snow bunnies" and maybe knock off the occasional curious white girl in college, You have to accept that Black women like "good hair" too.

There's differences between Men and women but not that many. Just like the most milinant breh will accept a random dikk suck from a "cave bytch" Best believe you put an eskimo woman in front of a bedoiun Arab and she'll find someone to choose up with.

How can Black Men and only Black Men be affected by colorist thought and some how his sister (the one wearing the Blonde weave) but be affected by colorism? They live in the same house and watch the same media.

 

[Wiseborn]

We gotta stop preaching delusional nonsense

Your logic that since there are 2 million black women with fatherless seed means they have higher cross racial sexual interactions?

Like negro what? What sort of logic is this?

You know Marriage is different than fukking right?

white male IR rates are very high but they don't tend to marry women.

Maybe just Maybe Black People Men and women covet IR relationships so the most #GMB breh for Black women will marry that wee irish lass in a heartbeat and Black women will marry that white "struggling actor" even if he cheats and beats on her.

 

[saturn7]

Sure, lets listen to random men on Youtube vs this Standford Law Professor
None of your post is based in reality

Look at the reality of the family statistics for the Black community. How is that not reality?

This stuff has been going on way before youtube was online. For the last 30 plus years there have been countless TV specials about why educated, professional Black Women are having hard times finding partners, husbands.
That's not reality?

Those shows never addressed the woman's role in being single. You know damn well sistas dismiss a lot of good dudes off the rip because, dude is not tall enough(or non attractive physique), his job is not prestigious enough, not enough swag (square etc), his lifestyle is not flashy enough. Until now they've never been called on it.

This author and the people who support them are full of shyt. There are plenty of stable, hardworking, non-colorist brothas available to marry Black Women. Women will overlook this brothas and to add further insult act like they don't exist.

 

[Wiseborn]

There's types. The average BW has had the Black experience and thats their comfort zone and vice versa.

Can BW eat off non Black folks, yes but they need to look like Candace Owens type and those types can easily eat off BM.

The average BW can't as well as the average BM. If your picture belongs in a Michael6300 thread, you know what it is and I'm talking about you. Not you personally CB but those who look like that.

Facts. Biology is a bytch. A breh can look like TÇhaka Zulu (or the breh that played him in the movie) and a non Black woman will choose up based off the raw genetic currency. Be a woman with a 50 inch ass with tatts white or Black you're greatest appeal will be to Black Men.

 

[jwonder]

Articles, movies, and tv shows. All have a lot of BW/WW couples. In reality white dude ain't checking for BW for marriage like that at all.

 

[Wiseborn]

Article hit all the divesment talking points.

This writer ain't a New Jack.

"A bit more than a decade ago I published a book, “Is Marriage for White People?” that examined the decline in marriage across American society and especially among African-Americans, and focused in particular on the predicament of black women. The book raises the possibility that black women — like Harris and Brown-Jackson — would do well to open themselves to partnering with men who are not black. After all, black men appear to have no problem marrying out: That same Pew report revealed they are twice as likely as black women to have a non-black spouse."

Did the breh do anything else in Life? he's supposed to be an academic does he talk about anything else? Or is he gonna clout chase off a book that he wrote 20 years ago forever?

 

[CarmelBarbie]

You was cooking up until this point. The idea that women can pick and choose who they marry in a patriarchal society is contradictory. You can want a white man all you want but it's them that have to ask BW out and pick BW as wives. Men are not in that position because of the volume of people we pursue.

My point was about the notion that these stats and studies about desirability somehow mean one thing for bw that they don’t mean for bm. The only group who consistently rates bm high are bw. Most nonbw dont want bm as partners(something a lot of bm choose to not discuss as much as they do the opposite).

Yet, knowing how most nonbw feel about them does not stop Brehs from pursuing, dating these women, sexing, and proposing to these women nor does it stop those women who generally don’t prefer them from saying yes.

Following that same thought, while most wm and bw tend to mutually rate each other low, that has not and will not stop marriages consisting of bw/wm from happening because they’re happening now. The author even uses Ketanji as an example.

But where I will agree is that if bw open up their options to date out/marry out more, this does not mean that wm dating bw will propose to those women. Wm and ww are more loyal to each other than any other group. Marriage stats demonstrate this.


But I think more bw would rather stay single than to want to marry wm anyway (and this is what the author also mentioned too), which is another constraint to this theory—a lot of bw would rather be single.

 

[Jazzy B.]

Another breh using this discussion to shyt on black women instead of being constructive.

"
Even if you decide to "expand your options" to White Men you are now also competing with White Women for those same White Men.

White Women who are held as the standard of beauty globally by none other than... white men."

By your logic, all white men should be married to white women. Surely i don't need to explain why reality says you're wrong.

"If they choose not to go with conventional white women then it's Hispanic white women."

I guess you thought about it some and realized your previous comments made no sense so you threw in Hispanic women?



So you are essentially saying that in all circumstances , a white man will choose a white woman- but sometimes a Hispanic woman?

Then how do you explain the black women married to white men?

None of that is shytting on Black Women. That's just you projecting.

Hispanic women still white women, they're just not the conventional white woman and white men separate them from their own white women (for example Cameron Diaz) which is why I made the point.

My point is that a white man will mostly seek to marry a conventional white woman if not then it's Hispanic which means a black woman who is now specifically seeking a White Man man and one who is affluent is now in competition with a far greater number of other women even though she has "expanded her options". None of that means it's impossible for a White Man to marry a Black Woman.

But it lowers the probability and tells you why the Black Woman White man marriage rate is low. Whilst the most common intermarriage is white and hispanic.

These are hispanics who are lesser educated and lesser off financially than white people.

Black Women on average are not their first choice and are lower in their hierarchy to other additional women so this notion that Black Women can switch on "I'm gonna expand my options" and then get some higher educated or well off white man at the click of her fingers is laughable. The White Men have to pick you for that to happen and most white men are not going to pick a black woman.

 

[Taadow]

Wtf, how did 4 people dap this nonsense, are you right in the head? Since we’re talking about evidence via stats, where on Earth is the evidence that black women are having more IR sex than black men?

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr113.pdf


This is a Five-Year study (by 3 women) of Fertility in people ages 15-44.

It is 17 pages, so I’ll cut to the chase:

On page 3 you’ll see a graph of Women’s Birth Rate by race and Men’s Birth Rate by race.

Black Women are the only race of women in this country who have more babies than the men of their race.

Does that mean Black women are having more IR sex than Black men?
Not necessarily...but it makes you think...

 

[filial_piety]

I’ll amend my stats :
117 million white men vs 21 million Black women.
Still good odds

I don’t know where you’re getting the idea that the important thing is that they’re white. That’s not the author’s MO. It’s just a numbers game and the pool of white men is greater.

Care to take a crack at my other post? No one seems to want to touch it. I’ll quote it


What do you propose is the solution to the problems stated in the authors article/book?

your math still doesn't add up, because it's purposely absent of the white women that black women would have to compete against. To put it mildly, black women are not the only women on the planet. In this type of environment, white men still have more options than just dating, marrying or baby mommying (yes this happens as well) BW.

Besides, there isn't a surplus of available, economically viable astute single white men hanging around waiting to get married. Now there might be some white men available to them, but outside of their perceived social status based on their race, they really don't have much of anything to offer anyone.

And there are still more white women than men in the US, and then add to boot the number of Asian and white-hispanic women that are also in competition for their affections that are socially and aesthetically more to their liking than black women and it's an uphill battle for them imo.

Now, I'm not trying to dissuade anyone--date and fuk who you want...I know i have and will...but the facts are the facts.

As for suggestions as to what black women should do...I'll say this...this isn't really a serious problem because despite what the news is saying, most black women do not have a college degree, and most make significantly less than the average black man.

There is a very small number (I wouldn't even call it a percentage) of BW who are even close to Kataji's level.

impo you can find someone of the same race if you put the effort into doing so...I keep hearing black women outnumber this...and black women outnumber that...and blah blah...but I'm in grad school now (at an ivy that is very WASPy) and YES, I'm the only black man in there...but my wife is black....reason being that I went looking in black spaces for them...I didn't go to work looking to wife up a white woman (nothing wrong with that btw) and I didn't go seminars and engagements conferences looking for them...I took the time and went into black spaces to congregate and hang out with other black people and it worked.

Usually when I hear BW say that they can't meet BM in their social spaces it's because they aren't looking for black social spaces to begin with.

 

[Houston911]

Facts. Biology is a bytch. A breh can look like TÇhaka Zulu (or the breh that played him in the movie) and a non Black woman will choose up based off the raw genetic currency. Be a woman with a 50 inch ass with tatts white or Black you're greatest appeal will be to Black Men.

what sort of silly comparison is this?

A tall athletically built man vs a woman with a cartoon ass and a bunch of tattoos?

 

[Wiseborn]

what sort of silly comparison is this?

A tall athletically built man vs a woman with a cartoon ass and a bunch of tattoos?

My point is the average Black Man who looks like the average Black Man has a better shot of getting married to a non Black Person than the Average Black woman who looks like the average Black woman does.

It's low key fukked up but it's the literally talking point for colorism, That phenotypical Black women aren't seen as beautiful to non Black people (and some Black People)

I only said that because say what you want Candance Owens looks like the average Black woman. In Fact there's a good chance that she'd be wifed to a Black dude if she had the appropriate 50 inches of ass.

That's the main reason women are running down to my location to see surgeons. My IG is flooded with Surgery ads.

 

[Henri Christophe]

Black Women are the only race of women in this country who have more babies than the men of their race.

Does that mean Black women are having more IR sex than Black men?
Not necessarily...but it makes you think...

thats interesting.... this confirms theyre most definitely having more sex

IR sex? we would need more data to confirm

but they are definitely having more sex for sure.

 

[#1 pick]

Nonbw don’t desire the average black men though either. Most prefer their own or wm. It doesn’t stop/detour Brehs from marrying or dating other women. And here in Charlotte I’ve seen all kind of bw with Nonbm—fat, ugly, pretty, thick, etc. I don’t even think Candice is that cute—she’s actually what I would consider average. I just want us all to be honest about the fact that neither group is desired by others but many will still find someone from that other group if/when they want to.

I agree. Most Black people aren't married to non Blacks. The average everyday Black person I see, is dating, marrying, and building a legacy with another Black person.

Brehs dating is brehs dating. Brehs like nice titties, nice ass (how much depends on the man), and a cute face. They are the least likely to think what would my parents think so they make decisions based their personal feelings. So yes, we date out the most even if we don't marry out like that. I still think we sex out the least. I know perception is we do because of our sexual prowess but only a handful of Black men get that benefit, most don't.

If you see that in Charlotte, what's your issue then? Candice is cute. Most men would be happy to claim her. That said, looks-wise alone, add the bullshyt and

Candice ain't average. She's cute. Quintessential cute girl

Black people's desirability is related to our racial quarrels and the financial situation globally due to systematic white supremacy. You can't have one without the other.

 

[Yzak]

How can something like this be published? shyt is crazy

It's pretty much softly encouraging ethnic erasure.