I'd like to to hear more about this.
Sure sir.
And let me preface this by saying I'm not one of those TLR "get married brehs
" dudes.
The thing I hate about married folks & those in loving relationships, is that they seem to delete all the mistakes in their life before they met the right person. The stories are always clean. And when mistakes are admitted, its always a small scratch on the surface. (I was young and dumb. I didn't know any better.) You know cliche ass quotes, and gloss overs.
Nobody talks about the previous girlfriend that they screwed over so badly she doesn't trust men anymore.
Nobody admits that they used jumpoffs and friends with benefits as nut rags through the years. Using their sex as lily pads to get through the years til they finally find the one they want.
Nobody admits the std scares or the abortion runs.
Nobody admits to fukkn with their ex multiple times after they break up because they know they can.
Nobody admits to any past faults that create future problems.
Everyone sets up these nice cozy ass, "I was just dating and holding hands before her," stories. Like really? Can all your ex's vouch for these cordial breaks? Can all your ex's say you didn't waste their time. The details of the fukk ups mean more to the up and coming generation. It's equivalent to the line, "If everybody fukkin' dimes, Who got all these ugly bytches pregnant?" We got LEGIONS of scourned females/males walking this earth, and won't nobody fess up. That shyt is tired. That shyt is played out.
So what ends up happening? You get these cliche ass, "its gonna take work...you'll now when its right" quotes.
Cosigning yourself is the corniest thing you can do on a message board..at least get an alias
