Why jason collins doesnt impress me

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He was definitely misleading her in some sense, but he could have been misleading himself, too, and if he was, then I don't find it useful to demonize him for it, considering the environment that produces this behavior. Self-hating Black folks might or might not get a pass, depending on the circumstance. My whole point was that these are complicated psychological phenomena- even in the case of the self-hating Black folks, there are instances where it can't simply be said that they knew they were in the wrong, or were consciously misleading themselves about their beliefs.

I don't think he should be "demonized", but I don't think he should be given a pass either. Regardless of the reasoning it was not virtuous or heroic behavior, and it shouldn't be framed as such.
 

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basically, this dude mentally abused that woman for 8 years (she ain een kno it) but you have all these news outlets rushing to interview him b/c his story is the FOTM :rudy:
he could be considered a rapist too, i doubt that lady wanted to have relations with a homosexual man :manny:

i tried to explain to my girl that there was no reason he should be on the cover of SI, he's been a garbage player since he came in.

"he's so brave" FOH
"he showed courage" FOH. didnt even think to ask her, "if a someone did that to you, how would you feel?"

how come no one is asking him if he ever cheated on his fiance with a man? when kobe got caught, he was demonized and made to apologize.
 

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He wasted eight years of her life and that's okay because he's gay? That's what I'm getting from y'all. Do you all understand how long EIGHT YEARS is? :mindblown:
 

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:rudy: nikka yes I would.

Sir I get bytches. Misleading women is a necessary evil in this game of life. "Male honesty is career suicide."

I dap Kobe for misleading his wife. I dap Lebron for misleading his wife. I dap the greatest of all time Jeter for fukkn every good girl in hollywood who thought he would make her "Mrs. NY" and left her at the recycling bin for the next lame to come pick up.
:ufdup: Thanks for confirming your a lowlife puzzybeggar who has to depend on deceit to get in panties...your posting is also kinda moist so you may be another"down low" brother who is living a lie


:pachaha: Damn your life must be so hard ...keeping track of the lies and bullshyt must take up so much of your mental resources..you must be so tired...

:laff: aiight nikka. Says who, you? That's the only woman you fukked in your life? You think there's a moral difference between gaming a broad to smash for a couple of months and gaming a broad over 8 years. Is timing not everything?
:umad: You dont even know me breh but trust me my charisma and personality ensure that i dont have to resort to lowlife tactics to get some

and yes theres a difference between trashy puzzybeggar conduct and putting an engagement ring on a womans finger for 8 years while fukking men on the side..if you dont see it that may be because youre one of the men being fukked by other men while lying to their girlfriends

Not all lies are equal

Unless you stole your girl from someone, the fact that she was available should let you know you were lucky. She coulda easily been someone else's play toy and would've been emotionally and socially shut off to anyone else.

We all string bishes along. Stop it.

:pachaha:

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WELL MAYBE IT SOUNDS CYNICAL, MEAN GENE! BUT I THINK YOU'RE RIGHT, BROTHER! COMING OUT WHEN HIS CAREER WAS PROBABLY OVER RAISES THESE QUESTIONS, DUDE!

Wait so hold on...are you Hollywood as well?

And if so do you share the same views? Hollywoods posts are usually pretty good as far as Higher Learning posts go
 

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He wasted eight years of her life and that's okay because he's gay? That's what I'm getting from y'all. Do you all understand how long EIGHT YEARS is? :mindblown:

I'm starting to believe there are downlows out here.
their arguments don't even make sense
 

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Jason Collins is a despicable human being. His career is going nowhere so hes using the fact he likes to get his shyt pushed in as one last job so he can retire with a few extra M's in his bank account. At the expense of this poor woman who trusted him. This is why i feel that nikkas who wife up white women are typically on the DL. They dont know the signs of weakness so they can see a fruit booty nikka and think hes a real man not knowing the nikka is just using her as a front. Jason Collins is a piece of shyt. This nikka really want props for being a fakkit and betraying his woman. Sadly, the gay community applauds him because they are equally trash like him and have no quams betraying people they care about.

I must have missed when you married a queen from the Ivory Coast.

:lupe:
 

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I must have missed when you married a queen from the Ivory Coast.

:lupe:
Wifing White women in particular carry connotations. Other races, mmmm, not so much. White women typically respect nikkas that act like hoes.
 

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Wifing White women in particular carry connotations. Other races, mmmm, not so much. White women typically respect nikkas that act like hoes.

whatever you say chief


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1. LOL at mowgli's position on this issue given his ethnic preferences

2. there is no need to give this guy credit. all these sports writers that have been saying to do so are probably being opportunistic, grabbing a hot story for page views and whatnot. this should be treated in a very matter of fact way, some people are gay, some gay people play pro sports. nothing to see here.

3. kerry rhodes's situation is hilarious, though

4. collins is definitely not to be commended for having wasted a woman's prime dating years. she has every right to be angry. that being said, obviously the dude was afraid of a backlash from society, so it's not like he is simply a sociopath choosing to do things for the hell of it. he was scared, so he did something wrong. he deserves some scrutiny, but also a certain amount of understanding that this was done out of duress, and it should motivate us to make it easier for people to come out early and often so they can skip these shenanigans
 

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:ufdup: Thanks for confirming your a lowlife puzzybeggar who has to depend on deceit to get in panties...your posting is also kinda moist so you may be another"down low" brother who is living a lie

Is that what you got from the post?

Okay my nikka, enjoy your marriage. Enjoy living that lie of always telling the truth to every female you fukked with.

I look forward to you peddling that "my marriage was special and meant to be" message that absolutely screws reality for teenagers/young adults.

Like I told meach, I'm sure your love life (everything from your first wet dream to this very day of May 4th,2013) only rivals Jesus. :smugfavre:
 

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Is that what you got from the post?

Okay my nikka, enjoy your marriage. Enjoy living that lie of always telling the truth to every female you fukked with.

I look forward to you peddling that "my marriage was special and meant to be" message that absolutely screws reality for teenagers/young adults.

Like I told meach, I'm sure your love life (everything from your first wet dream to this very day of May 4th,2013) only rivals Jesus. :smugfavre:

:sitdown: Go get something to eat ...your blood sugar is low cos youre not making sense anymore

Where did i say anyone should get married????...fukk outta here...im peddling INTEGRITY...being true to yourself

:umad: because deep down you know im right...enjoy your convoluted stressful life until the day you smarten up
 
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