Why Isn't Your FWB or Casual Sex Partner Your Girlfriend?

[Rice'N Beckford]

Back when I was single I had a FWB she wasnt gf material cuz she was 15lbs to big for me. My max weight on a chick is 150

She was in a sorority so she had 10+ bodies

 

[Tunez]

Be dumb brehettes

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

I ask the same thing. But who am I to turn down familiar p*ssy?

Nothing like that piece you're comfortable with


Nicca can just hop right into it like

 

[CoochieMane]

I just didn't want a relationship, I tried my best not to smash because she was a good girl who deserved someone that wanted the same things she did and I didn't want her to catch feeling.

 

[HabitualChiller]

OP looking like a whole Sunday Dinner:Stephgrin:

 

[Larry Lambo]

Have any of you mentioned incompatible personalities yet? I only saw a few of you.

If the personality is incompatible, it's usually no go period.

I can't see myself making a move on a chick if I'm not at least halfway digging her steez.

 

[Turbulent]

Because we like the current flow so why try to change it.

 

[luckyse7enz]

...because then you're turning leisure into a fukking job.

I like kicking it with the chick with the 100% intention and understanding that we're fukking every time and that's what we want.

If she becomes my girlfriend, I've now forced myself into being OBLIGATED to spend that time with her with the possibility of fukking decreased from that 100% every time.

 

[At30wecashout]

Cuz shes a thot

Grand opening. Grand closing.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

Cause she has a Metro PCS phone

And I have standards

 

[Giselle]

We've only kissed up until this point, but we've planned a sleepover at my place for tomorrow night .

I wanna say like 2-3 weeks.

So are you saying you only saw her as a fwb until after those 2-3 weeks when you got to know her?

How about you ask her to be your gf before you fck her? What if you fck her and she doesn't want to be your gf, but you're already attached?

I must be in the ugly gang cuz I don't have one of those

lol

Or maybe you haven't tried. Or maybe you are better than them and don't want to participate in casual sex.

Nope. I knew my wife was gone be the one the day I met her but that's another story.

How did you know?
So you based it all off of looks?
Did you sleep with her before you asked her to be your gf?

If the personality is incompatible, it's usually no go period.

I can't see myself making a move on a chick if I'm not at least halfway digging her steez.

So you are saying that you have to somewhat like your fwb? If you have to be compatible with your fwb or like her personality, then why isn't she your gf or someone you're dating instead of just fcking?

Because we like the current flow so why try to change it.

Because you or her want more than just sex? An actual relationship where y'all talk, go out, spend time together, bond ect.

...because then you're turning leisure into a fukking job.

I like kicking it with the chick with the 100% intention and understanding that we're fukking every time and that's what we want.

If she becomes my girlfriend, I've now forced myself into being OBLIGATED to spend that time with her with the possibility of fukking decreased from that 100% every time.

So basically she looks nice enough to fck, but is not that compatible with you ,which is why you don't like spending time with her?

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Because she's just a sidechick... Whats not to get?

 

[HabitualChiller]

Well fukk it I take back my compliment

 

[Turbulent]

Because you or her want more than just sex? An actual relationship where y'all talk, go out, spend time together, bond ect.

what if we both mainly want sex and are happy with the way things are? why are you trying so hard to make things fit with what you would want in the situation?

you're probably the same type of girl that would complain the dude is cheating on her and why dudes don't keep it real. but when dudes keep it 100 from the beginning it's still a problem.

 

[Shadow King]

When I acquire a FWB I will let you know why she isn't more