Why Isn't Your FWB or Casual Sex Partner Your Girlfriend?

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Older than me(usually 5+ years...lately 15+ years)

Too chubby and no intentions on taking an active role in their health.

They don't want a relationship and lately that's all I run into alot of women that are starting to realize men see no value in commitment especially men with their shyt together(too much to lose settling down)

Ugly(my standards for fukking and dating are completely different)

They value a man that will hangout with them, go out to eat or drinks, fukk them good and cuddle with them afterwards. I give them everything but the title and gifts. And they still have the luxury of going out on dates with other nikkas. I just have the luxury of getting the p*ssy when they come back from their dates.:lolbron:
 
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Men see certain women they want to have sex with but not necessarily be in a relationship with.

It can be for a whole myriad of reasons.. she got a nice body but her face lacking, she got a man, got kids, they don't see a future with or believe they can build with the chick, she has some sort of issue they don't want to deal with within the confines of a relationship etc.

Also when a dude is messing with different women, his interest spreads out across the board. So he ain't 100% fully into one. He likes this one, that one and also her at the same time and can't decide who he likes the most.
 
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InquisitiveHeaux said:
That's not true all of the time. Some guys end up liking their fwb. With younger guys, a lot of them only know fwb and don't really know much about dating, so they pick their gf from their casual sex partners.
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U clearly dont know what ur talking about. Arent u a smart know it all? Why did u ask if u wanna tell us what we want? Use ur logic and realize men dont operate like women do.Ur trying to rationalize around this, stop it. If a woman is attractive enough to fukk and cool enough but has too many red flags, has kids, is a hoe , not cute enough to be seen in public with etc then once we make u fwb u are staying there. We will fukk u but never truly give a fukk about u in a romantic way. We seperate sex from emotion.


I know this is a research question for u probably because ur in this predicament and u want us to tell u what u want to hear. Well Im here to tell u, theres a 95% chance it will never work. Let him go.
 
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Not wife material :yeshrug:

Actually had a previous sidechick tell me she has been "single" for 7 years and she's "looking for love" last month. I'm not shocked. :mjlol:

Any ninjas with options ain't trying to take those L's.

OP needs to watch Insecure and stay in her lane off of that

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Some women are bad in relationships or simply don't want all that comes with a relationship.

Obligation is a key to the FWB. You're not obligated to do anything, relationships make people obligated to do things.

With FWB, you can do what you want, that's not business or my problem.

So knowing that, I act accordingly
 
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