Why Isn't Your FWB or Casual Sex Partner Your Girlfriend?

[The Intergalactic Koala]

Some women just want to keep it as just that.

Trust, I was trying during the dating game and apparently it wasn't the case. Then there were like maybe one that I just didn't want more than just a casual fukk because meh (I was young dumb and etc during the time).

 

[Giselle]

Have any of you mentioned incompatible personalities yet? I only saw a few of you.

 

[Ain't That Something]

Bc they are convenient. I'm married now but when I was single they were guaranteed puss if all else failed.

 

[Giselle]

Well because she isn't girlfriend material. I'm single btw.

I thought you were a virgin. Or at least that's what they said.

Not wife material

Actually had a previous sidechick tell me she has been "single" for 7 years and she's "looking for love" last month. I'm not shocked.

Any ninjas with options ain't trying to take those L's.

OP needs to watch Insecure and stay in her lane off of that

If you had a "side chick", then you are not husband material.

Bc they are convenient. I'm married now but when I was single they were guaranteed puss if all else failed.

Did your wife start off as a fwb? If not, then why not?

 

[SuperGrizzy]

Truth, I don't want use mad energy to be in a relationship. Plus, she fukking nikka that she is not even in a relationship with.


I mean, she cool but she a little on the "not Black or Hispanic" side.

 

[SirReginald]

I thought you were a virgin. Or at least that's what they said.


If you had a "side chick", then you are not husband material.


Did your wife start off as a fwb? If not, then why not?

Yes baby girl I am a V.

P.S. is that you in your avi?

 

[Jamal514]

She's white

 

[AceMan]

If you had a "side chick", then you are not husband material.

Women decide that, eh

Then what's the problem?

 

[Giselle]

@Barnett114 Feature pls, I want more answers and this is an important discussion to have.

Yes baby girl I am a V.

Then you can't answer this question

Women decide that, eh

Then what's the problem?

You're talking about someone's not "wife material" when you aren't even husband material. If neither of y'all are husband/wife material, then y'all are perfect for each other.

 

[TinFoilSnapBack]

I've been single for over two years, and I didn't make my FWBs into girlfriends for one of two reasons:

1.) They didn't want to. Either they just wanted a FWB, or they were rebounding.

OR 2.) The chick was just basic af.

In most cases, the answer was number 2.

I have a woman right now who I will most likely make my gf very soon. The difference between her and the others? She's not basic. She can actually hold a conversation about philosophical/spiritual/intellectual subject matter, she doesn't play hard-to-get games, we have a great vibe, she is gainfully employed, and she doesn't live with her moms. The chicks who were FWBs had those negative attributes, and once again, were just basic. I'll stick my thing in anything, but I am EXTREMELY selective in relationships.

 

[Rigamortus]

Because shes married

 

[Giselle]

I've been single for over two years, and I didn't make my FWBs into girlfriends for one of two reasons:

1.) They didn't want to. Either they just wanted a FWB, or they were rebounding.

OR 2.) The chick was just basic af.

In most cases, the answer was number 2.

I have a woman right now who I will most likely make my gf very soon. The difference between her and the others? She's not basic. She can actually hold a conversation about philosophical/spiritual/intellectual subject matter, she doesn't play hard-to-get games, we have a great vibe, she is gainfully employed, and she doesn't live with her moms. The chicks who were FWBs had those negative attributes, and once again, were just basic. I'll stick my thing in anything, but I am EXTREMELY selective in relationships.

Have you slept with her yet?
How long after meeting her did she go from fwb to gf category?

 

[TinFoilSnapBack]

Have you slept with her yet?
How long after meeting her did she go from fwb to gf category?

We've only kissed up until this point, but we've planned a sleepover at my place for tomorrow night .

I wanna say like 2-3 weeks.

 

[morris]

I must be in the ugly gang cuz I don't have one of those

 

[Ain't That Something]

I thought you were a virgin. Or at least that's what they said.


If you had a "side chick", then you are not husband material.


Did your wife start off as a fwb? If not, then why not?

Nope. I knew my wife was gone be the one the day I met her but that's another story.