Why Isn't Your FWB or Casual Sex Partner Your Girlfriend?

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You like her enough to talk to her frequently, listen to her, have xes with her, go out sometimes ect. So why isn't she your gf?


Where they do that with a fwb:mjlol:. If u doing all that u might as well be together. I talk to her a few times during the week maybe but I usually hit her every few weeks when she got free time and available. I'm not spending or taking her out anywhere and she understand that
 

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You want all that go find you a man.Those things are for gf,wifey status only. I'm noticing though a lot of younger women want older men for companionship,etc cause they tired of dealing with dudes in their age range.

& because older men are usually more financially stable and because they think that older men are more likely to commit and males their age only want to be fwb or have casual sex.

I don't trust her to be faithful to me and I know damn sure I won't be faithful to her but I don't want to mess up a good thing

How is it a "good thing" if y'all don't trust eachother?

Why waste time with someone you don't trust when you could be out there finding someone you do trust?

Because she don't want me :mjcry:

Leave her alone then and find someone who does.

In my case I am old and set in my ways. She has a teenager and I live with my elderly folks so there's no moving in together. I don't wanna know your family, neighbors, or friends.

Just call me when you have a few hours to spend and we can have a sex fight.

I expect her to be faithful and I do the same. So really it's just we cut out all the extra bullshyt that comes with your moms tryna relate to her or whatever.
If she didn't agree to be exclusive or faithful, then you shouldn't expect it that she is.


She's inconsiderate and always got her hand out. As a man, I don't mind taking care of most of the financials, however, this girl don't ever chip in on nothing when we hang out, but always asking for shyt. At least tip, bytch, damn :damn:. I can already imagine the headache I'd be dealing with if I ever got her pregnant :snoop:

Why are you dating a fwb? Why stay with her then? Find someone else.

If a man didnt wanna wife u up when he met u , he never will. U wont "grow" on him. So dont give him p*ssy expecting him to change his mind cuz it probably wont happen. U will just feel used and blame him , when u coulda just be straight up with wat u wanted:yeshrug:

That's not true all of the time. Some guys end up liking their fwb. With younger guys, a lot of them only know fwb and don't really know much about dating, so they pick their gf from their casual sex partners.
:patrice: I'm gunna say your right 95% of the time, but my side joint became my main. She was there when my other girl wasn't
Maybe your other girl wasn't there because you were out cheating.

Men are able to completely separate sex from emotion.

That's why you can be fukking a bytch and not give a fukk about her.

That's also why it doesn't really man anything when men cheat. It's just a nut :yeshrug:

If you don't give af, then why spend time with them outside of sex? Taking them out, talking to them sharing personal info, listening to them, bonding ect?

Don't assume, keep that.

Always strapped.

I didn't assume anything, most of the males on the coli have said that they don't use condoms, there are many thread about it. I believe them too. People are gross.
 

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& because older men are usually more financially stable and because they think that older men are more likely to commit and males their age only want to be fwb or have casual sex.

Old dudes commit quicker because they are desperate but its one of the flimsiest unions out there:

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@InquisitiveHeaux you been doing research again. I understand it may be hard for you to grasp this FWB concept but some things can't be learned artificially. Using your logic programming can't overcome every topic and disagreement.

You'll always be my favourite A.I. Giselle, take this knowledge with you.
 
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