Why Isn't Your FWB or Casual Sex Partner Your Girlfriend?

[maxamusa]

Yep. Eventually the dude she's in love with will come around or unblock her, then suddenly she doesn't want to sleep with you anymore.

sleepy Floyd some chick did u filthy n broke your jaded heart you always on that shyt

 

[Cat piss martini]

You like her enough to talk to her frequently, listen to her, have xes with her, go out sometimes ect. So why isn't she your gf?

Any woman that fukk with me should know
better and is not worthy of being my woman.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

sleepy Floyd some chick did u filthy n broke your jaded heart you always on that shyt

I been on both sides of the coin bro they all the same

Not jaded I'm just telling it like it is.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You like her enough to talk to her frequently, listen to her, have xes with her, go out sometimes ect. So why isn't she your gf?

Because men's biological purposes is to fukk as much as possible. So if you're an easy layup they save their energy that he doesn't have to spend on you on the next one who makes him actually work for it.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Because men's biological purposes is to fukk as much as possible.

Yet men have long refractory periods while women can orgasm over and over and over again, and women on average have an astronomically higher body count than men. Sounds like women's biological purpose is to fukk as much as possible.

So if you're an easy layup they save their energy that he doesn't have to spend on you on the next one who makes him actually work for it.

There are a lot of married couples who had sex on the first night after the first date.

What "energy" are you talking about? Men do not want to work for sex. We all know that when a woman is attracted to a man, she's going to sleep with him and she's not going to make it difficult.

Sex isn't what qualities a women to be girlfriend/wife material. It's actually at the bottom of the totem pole... it's more about how much does the man like the woman when they're not having sex, and does he see her as bringing value into his life if they were in a committed relationship

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I’m just venting breh. I’m 32 and first time in this type of situation

That thang must be marinated at 52

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I can’t stand side bytches like you, yuck!!!

You need to leave that married woman alone and stop wasting your good years, plus putting yourself in danger.

You need to let Stella get her groove on and him get a PS5 out of this

 

[O.T.I.S.]

She’s 17 years my junior, has bad breath (even thru the gum sometimes)… and doesnt shave her armpits.



Shame, cuz she has a great frame and supremely intelligent.



But i dont have the balls to tell
Her aboot her quirks (or rather, hygiene habits).



Shes still around because shes a lead flight attendant and im not sabotaging my travel plug).



.

bruh, you just gonna have to tell her

I had this issue once… but it was because she was a weed head and would have that shyt smelling weed breath

She was also older

Basically one day I had listerine strips around kinda giving her the hint like nikka

Then I said fukk it, just told her. She was like “oh, my fault” and wasn’t an issue since, she just gargled after she smoke then gargled something else…


But it through me through a loop because she was bad to me.. definitely my type. But her breath would smell like someone would straight shyt in her mouth and it was unbearable until I told her.

But she was also married and eventually moved to Florida to be with her dude. We still friends on FB and shyt but thats about it. She’s also older than me. Most of the females I talk to are 40+ and older than me.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Oh I did that night. I told her that I felt insulted by the proposal and that I wasn't trying to be someones placeholder until they found what they were looking.

She's still blowing up my phone days later trying to converse like it didn't happen.

Man you let The Coli talk you out of some golden girl p*ssy

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Men do not want to work for sex.

You don't want to work for anything which is why you try to sell women the "love connection" fantasy and "mutually beneficial" BS that you just tried to sell me.

Yes you take the easy route when available. But you all are looking for more than sex, correct? Men use women for tons of reasons.

So when a woman can't provide you with anything beyond sex you use her for that especially when it's easy and then use the rest of your energy to find women you can use in multiple ways or just keep the seperate women for different objectives.

So to expound on my original statement, men will use women for sex because it is easy (and ya'll need sex in ways that women don’t) but if he is having casual sex with her he's already determined that that is all he can use her for and therefore will use her to get that need met while he attempts to find a better deal or different traits in another woman/other women.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Yep. Eventually the dude she's in love with will come around or unblock her, then suddenly she doesn't want to sleep with you anymore.

And you're there dumbfounded thinking I've done everything sexually with this chick from fukking her outdoors in the snow to having her swallow me up but now she decides to cut me off to be lovey dovey with this yout.

Then you sit back and think whose L is it, mine or his all the while 'A week Ago' is playing in the ambience

 

[Won Won]

and women on average have an astronomically higher body count than men

Is this based on anything, or just a “trust me breh” situation?

 

[MostReal]

Men are able to completely separate sex from emotion.

That's why you can be fukking a bytch and not give a fukk about her.

That's also why it doesn't really man anything when men cheat. It's just a nut

/thread

 

[Thavoiceofthevoiceless]

That thang must be marinated at 52

Oh it was, but the thang and the good conversation wasn't worth it so I had to toss her to the bushes. She kept throwing up the age difference and started fukking with my peace of mind, so she had to go.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Oh it was, but the thang and the good conversation wasn't worth it so I had to toss her to the bushes. She kept throwing up the age difference and started fukking with my peace of mind, so she had to go.

Toss her seasoned ass my way then bruh

I’ll be the sugar baby that stepped up