Why Isn't Your FWB or Casual Sex Partner Your Girlfriend?

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This is why its a womans job to puy their foot down and give ultimatums these days. Hard to go to the negotiating table when youve kept a sweaty brow with no promises,no future plans,no commitments. Its just how the mind works unfortunately. Alot of people enjoy netflix,when they can use it for free. If they suddenly had to pay,they would resent the fact they had to pay for something that was free for years. They would suddenly start taking inventory of all the things netflix is not.


So you need to make demands and ultimatums to progress the relationship. Sadly alot of men are too p*ssy to do this these days and leave it in the hands of women. Afraid to put themselves out there to be rejected. The rest just dont want to buy the cow while getting the milk for free.


im telling you the truth,you can be an exceptional woman and men wont commit,or advance the relationship status. Coming back repeatedly is commitment enough to them. You wont know how valuable he considers you until you make a demand or threaten to leave. Alot of women are afraid to find out their stock value is extremely low:respect:
 

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They had a thread like this on lsa a long time ago. Common Answers were:

*they not asking bc that’s a man’s job
* they just got out of a relationship
*they are lonely and just wanted company but you’re not compatible
* attractive but dumb
*attractive but broke

Search it on lsa

Did they or women in general say how long they lasted? I’ve found FWB usually lasts 4-6 months.
 

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Did they or women in general say how long they lasted? I’ve found FWB usually lasts 4-6 months.
Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit... They last a lifetime if you play it right.. Literally she's a friend and sometimes you fukk

As long as you make sure to never dishonor the friendship, they'll always find themselves back in that bed
 

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Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit... They last a lifetime if you play it right.. Literally she's a friend and sometimes you fukk

As long as you make sure to never dishonor the friendship, they'll always find themselves back in that bed

Lol that’s rare tho. Most girls eventually catch feelings or find someone else for real relationship.
 

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Lol that’s rare tho. Most girls eventually catch feelings or find someone else for real relationship.
You can always lead em on if you play it right.

I no bullshyt have 3 females off the top of my head I can always hit up even after years of not speaking whether they married/engaged, bf etc & drop dikk in them

Women don’t wanna just give up good reliable cocksmen who play they position like that
 

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Lol that’s rare tho. Most girls eventually catch feelings or find someone else for real relationship.
It's really not

You can always lead em on if you play it right.

I no bullshyt have 3 females off the top of my head I can always hit up even after years of not speaking whether they married/engaged, bf etc & drop dikk in them

Women don’t wanna just give up good reliable cocksmen who play they position like that
This!!

That's why I said put "FRIENDSHIP" first.. Go ahead and catch feelings. I'm going to let you know I don't have any, but I love you so much as a friend, but I'd never fake a relationship with you, so go find that true love honey, but I'm still gonna talk to you, respectfully......................................................... as I wait for that shyt to fail and you break emergency glass in case of dikk

Go ahead and find another man... What's the percentage of relationships that end in everlasting marriage? Extremely low... So let me root for y'all, call you my fav couple, tell you to stay with him and do right by him every chance I get, always try and keep them together, and put our "FRIENDSHIP" first.................................................... as I wait for that shyt to fail and you break emergency glass in case of dikk
 

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You can always lead em on if you play it right.

I no bullshyt have 3 females off the top of my head I can always hit up even after years of not speaking whether they married/engaged, bf etc & drop dikk in them

Women don’t wanna just give up good reliable cocksmen who play they position like that
It's really not


This!!

That's why I said put "FRIENDSHIP" first.. Go ahead and catch feelings. I'm going to let you know I don't have any, but I love you so much as a friend, but I'd never fake a relationship with you, so go find that true love honey, but I'm still gonna talk to you, respectfully......................................................... as I wait for that shyt to fail and you break emergency glass in case of dikk

Go ahead and find another man... What's the percentage of relationships that end in everlasting marriage? Extremely low... So let me root for y'all, call you my fav couple, tell you to stay with him and do right by him every chance I get, always try and keep them together, and put our "FRIENDSHIP" first.................................................... as I wait for that shyt to fail and you break emergency glass in case of dikk

Yeah you're right it can last for years in the on-and-off scenarios you're talking about. I'm talking about consistently hooking up 2-3 times per week. After 4-6 months, usually one person wants to take things to the next level or leave.
 

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You can always lead em on if you play it right.

I no bullshyt have 3 females off the top of my head I can always hit up even after years of not speaking whether they married/engaged, bf etc & drop dikk in them

Women don’t wanna just give up good reliable cocksmen who play they position like that


I had wifey change #s when we got serious cause of Ps lurking in the shadows like u :russ:
 
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