Why Isn't Your FWB or Casual Sex Partner Your Girlfriend?

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I managed to talk my way into the puss without owning it.

So why buy a car when you can drive a free rental???
 

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This is why its a womans job to puy their foot down and give ultimatums these days. Hard to go to the negotiating table when youve kept a sweaty brow with no promises,no future plans,no commitments. Its just how the mind works unfortunately. Alot of people enjoy netflix,when they can use it for free. If they suddenly had to pay,they would resent the fact they had to pay for something that was free for years. They would suddenly start taking inventory of all the things netflix is not.


So you need to make demands and ultimatums to progress the relationship. Sadly alot of men are too p*ssy to do this these days and leave it in the hands of women. Afraid to put themselves out there to be rejected. The rest just dont want to buy the cow while getting the milk for free.


im telling you the truth,you can be an exceptional woman and men wont commit,or advance the relationship status. Coming back repeatedly is commitment enough to them. You wont know how valuable he considers you until you make a demand or threaten to leave. Alot of women are afraid to find out their stock value is extremely low:respect:
You're threatening woman with guns to coerce them into sex. Shut the fukk up.
 

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Holding onto a 5 while searching for a 10 is a key part of a man's fukkup in life.. Eventually he'll open his eyes and see his happiest moments aren't with the best looking ones... And 90% of couples aren't two 10's together.. It's regular ass average people. Those people you look and say "what are they doing together" are happy as fukk and don't care about what you think

When you find THAT... You'll realize looks don't matter as long as YOU like how she looks
Say it louder for those in the back
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You could make the same arguement for a lot of different people who get the short end of the stick, no? If that's the case then no adult could ever be a victim of anything if no one "forced" them, right?

If women actually understood the nature of men the world would look completely different, which is why as women gain their independence all over the world, they're moving further and further away from men. It's a global trend.

So while I won't say women are "helpless and dumb" most are extremely delusional and limited in their understanding of the world because we are force fed that men are somehow better than us or something to aspire to have from birth. Both are complete lies.

Even the benefits you posted aren't real benefits. Women don't need men to squirt nor for companionship. Those are 2 things you can get without the additional burdens of having to expose yourself to pregnancy, diseases and the drama that comes with coupling with men.

And yes the "waiting" is part of the delusion. But you already know this. If the woman waiting wasn't brainwashed into thinking a man choosing her would validate her then she wouldn't wait.

The only way most of ya'll get sex or even chose is because you play into the societal delusion of women and ya'll know that shyt. Take away the delusion of romance and most men would die virgins.

People should be held independently accountable, yes, but for a societal POV, most women are completely in the dark. Men too really but we're talking about women.
I agree with a lot of what you said, just not all of it. The only part that sticks out to me is, it's 2024. I get this in the 60s, 70s, hell, I'll give you early 2000s. In 2024, there shouldn't be (there is) a woman alive who still believes in the bullshyt of men. It's on every medium we can see, that men ain't shyt, and will lie, cheat and steal with their dog asses, in order to get a drop of p*ssy....

But yet, women still fall for it everyday and hold out hope everyday and act just as you described. I really don't believe anyone is forced into anything. You're grown, open your eyes and learn to peep manipulation or at least be able to set your boundaries and not give it up/all to someone who hasn't earned it.

But again, you're right in the end, because it's exactly as you said it is. To this day.. It's almost sad really. Women just get played for the fool for most of their lives until they can find that unicorn who does everything he says and stays faithful to that.
 

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The elephant in the room is a lot of us are having sex with woman to feed our egos.

So many of us lie to ourselves and mess around with women we say we're not attracted to then make excuse after excuse.
I only sleep with women I see as 10's.

That might be my problem, their egos are sky high and they have a high need for attention, they're never satisfied with how much attention they get

For me, sex is strictly lust based

As soon as I see a hot chick, I'm already imagining how the backshots gonna be, tryna gauge how many times the booty gonna bounce for each stroke.
 

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You're threatening woman with guns to coerce them into sex. Shut the fukk up.


Until one of you bytch nikkas offer to pull up to stop my supposed reign of terror,or even call the police. Ill just consider you unserious people,who dont really believe that yourself. But when your a midget intellectually,these are the things one must resort too:respect:

I agree with a lot of what you said, just not all of it. The only part that sticks out to me is, it's 2024. I get this in the 60s, 70s, hell, I'll give you early 2000s. In 2024, there shouldn't be (there is) a woman alive who still believes in the bullshyt of men. It's on every medium we can see, that men ain't shyt, and will lie, cheat and steal with their dog asses, in order to get a drop of p*ssy....

But yet, women still fall for it everyday and hold out hope everyday and act just as you described. I really don't believe anyone is forced into anything. You're grown, open your eyes and learn to peep manipulation or at least be able to set your boundaries and not give it up/all to someone who hasn't earned it.

But again, you're right in the end, because it's exactly as you said it is. To this day.. It's almost sad really. Women just get played for the fool for most of their lives until they can find that unicorn who does everything he says and stays faithful to that.


Its sad until you realize its 2024,and most of the women arent the women from the 60's. Youd be a fool to think even the ones youd put in the "good" category arent weighing their options outside a relationship to a certain extent. So how bad can you feel when they are being players too?

Obviously this is probably womens reaction to the cheating that men did,plus false promises from the past#TheChildOfMan. But the problem now is how do you teach young men they need to be more loyal and honest to this current crop of women? Without setting them up to be crash dummies and look like fools. The only way to get things back in order is setting our sons up to be sacrificial lambs to women who thrive on "doing their big one" to men:francis:
 

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Variety will always be first option and there’s no way I can tolerate the same person day after day. Too many options and flavors in this city and it turns out once your paper starts getting longer the quality of what you’re eligible for increases significantly.
 

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Until one of you bytch nikkas offer to pull up to stop my supposed reign of terror,or even call the police. Ill just consider you unserious people,who dont really believe that yourself. But when your a midget intellectually,these are the things one must resort too:respect:




Its sad until you realize its 2024,and most of the women arent the women from the 60's. Youd be a fool to think even the ones youd put in the "good" category arent weighing their options outside a relationship to a certain extent. So how bad can you feel when they are being players too?

Obviously this is probably womens reaction to the cheating that men did,plus false promises from the past#TheChildOfMan. But the problem now is how do you teach young men they need to be more loyal and honest to this current crop of women? Without setting them up to be crash dummies and look like fools. The only way to get things back in order is setting our sons up to be sacrificial lambs to women who thrive on "doing their big one" to men:francis:
That's internet babble to me. I meet good women every day who cry themselves to sleep over never being chosen or treated right and have body counts under 10... I probably know more of them than stone cold sluts...

The problem is nikkas can smell a victim and nobody trying to game up the homely looking chick who never goes out and reads manga and is a nerd...

But every man alive knows at least 10 good women who ain't on no type of bullshyt and they ignore the fukk out of them when they find it's going to be a hard challenge
 

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That's internet babble to me. I meet good women every day who cry themselves to sleep over never being chosen or treated right and have body counts under 10... I probably know more of them than stone cold sluts...

The problem is nikkas can smell a victim and nobody trying to game up the homely looking chick who never goes out and reads manga and is a nerd...

But every man alive knows at least 10 good women who ain't on no type of bullshyt and they ignore the fukk out of them when they find it's going to be a hard challenge


How the hell do you meet good women everyday? If you are meeting them,you are taking their word that they are "good". Because certainly theres no way you could know. What your not realizing is that most people can rationalize their bad behavior,and consider themselves good.


Im including women who have "brothers", and male friends they keep in their orbit. Unless you believe women are naive and dont know these men like them. These are women keeping their options open. Also included are women who advertise their bodies on social media,these women are operating as though they are single. Men have been operating as though they were single(literally cheating or trying). So women are now operating as though they are single,whether they are literally sleeping around or not. Cant expect men to want to commit and be loyal to these type of women,when the better crop of women from the past couldnt get loyalty and commitment.


I think the type of women Im talking about far outweigh the homebody nerds and #OurCorrettas. But if your talking about ugly women who would have difficulty finding commitment like ugly people of both genders,fine.


But i can assure you those ugly women arent testing the men who are breaking their heart. Because no man is doing that much work to sleep with an ugly woman outside of ugly men. So its even easier for ugly women to rule out a scumbag than it is for attractive women.Be ugly and have a 30-60 day no sex policy,youd root out 95% of the bad apples. Point being,those homely women are acting as whores,which means they are not good women either,but actually unclaimables:respect:
 

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How the hell do you meet good women everyday? If you are meeting them,you are taking their word that they are "good". Because certainly theres no way you could know. What your not realizing is that most people can rationalize their bad behavior,and consider themselves good.


Im including women who have "brothers", and male friends they keep in their orbit. Unless you believe women are naive and dont know these men like them. These are women keeping their options open. Also included are women who advertise their bodies on social media,these women are operating as though they are single. Men have been operating as though they were single(literally cheating or trying). So women are now operating as though they are single,whether they are literally sleeping around or not. Cant expect men to want to commit and be loyal to these type of women,when the better crop of women from the past couldnt get loyalty and commitment.


I think the type of women Im talking about far outweigh the homebody nerds and #OurCorrettas. But if your talking about ugly women who would have difficulty finding commitment like ugly people of both genders,fine.


But i can assure you those ugly women arent testing the men who are breaking their heart. Because no man is doing that much work to sleep with an ugly woman outside of ugly men. So its even easier for ugly women to rule out a scumbag than it is for attractive women.Be ugly and have a 30-60 day no sex policy,youd root out 95% of the bad apples. Point being,those homely women are acting as whores,which means they are not good women either,but actually unclaimables:respect:
I'm going to stop you right at the first sentence.....

You don't have female friends or female family who don't lie to you? You don't have other people in your life, who also have friends and family, who know women and knows who's a fukk bot and who's a virgin?

How many women do you walk by every day? 30-40-100? Depending on where you live and how much walking you do, will matter... But just going to Walmart, you can pass by 50 women on one walk around the store.... But you can't find 10 women in the entire city who ain't whores playing games?



Hell yea you can find 10 women, every day, that ain't fukking everything moving. Maybe they never got guys... Maybe they too shy... Maybe they're religious... Maybe they just ugly... Maybe they don't care about men... Maybe they only had 3 long term relationships in life.. Maybe this, maybe that.. But out of the 50 women you walked by today, there's no logical reason to think 41 of them are sluts, hoes, multiple bodies, playing games etc etc

Just how it can be a club full of nikkas, how many of them you think actually fukking something tonight? shyt 5 came in one car, another 10 have no game, another 10 have no money, 15 are ugly........... and so on.


Again... If you can't find a good woman out here, your standards are too high or you not looking in right places. Same for a woman who can't find a good man.. I got plenty of partners begging for just one girl, and meanwhile they keep picking my ain't shyt ass and wondering why it don't work out.. You think that nerdy chick working at gamestop at the age of 34 is really bagging nikkas on the regular like that? But she stink and she ugly so she don't even count
 

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I'm going to stop you right at the first sentence.....

You don't have female friends or female family who don't lie to you? You don't have other people in your life, who also have friends and family, who know women and knows who's a fukk bot and who's a virgin?

How many women do you walk by every day? 30-40-100? Depending on where you live and how much walking you do, will matter... But just going to Walmart, you can pass by 50 women on one walk around the store.... But you can't find 10 women in the entire city who ain't whores playing games?



Hell yea you can find 10 women, every day, that ain't fukking everything moving. Maybe they never got guys... Maybe they too shy... Maybe they're religious... Maybe they just ugly... Maybe they don't care about men... Maybe they only had 3 long term relationships in life.. Maybe this, maybe that.. But out of the 50 women you walked by today, there's no logical reason to think 41 of them are sluts, hoes, multiple bodies, playing games etc etc

Just how it can be a club full of nikkas, how many of them you think actually fukking something tonight? shyt 5 came in one car, another 10 have no game, another 10 have no money, 15 are ugly........... and so on.


Again... If you can't find a good woman out here, your standards are too high or you not looking in right places. Same for a woman who can't find a good man.. I got plenty of partners begging for just one girl, and meanwhile they keep picking my ain't shyt ass and wondering why it don't work out.. You think that nerdy chick working at gamestop at the age of 34 is really bagging nikkas on the regular like that? But she stink and she ugly so she don't even count


Well you said "meet" as in these were new women you are meeting daily and can confirm they are good women. Most of the women in my direct family are in the top 10 percentile when it comes to good women. But doesnt mean theyve never told me about some bullshyt they did while in a relationship. That easily could make a man decide to put them in the unclaimables category.
Hell,my current sister didnt even like her current husband. She thought he was a nice good guy but she wasnt attracted,and he didnt have that edge:mjlol:. And I dont even know my sister to date actual thugs/street dudes,theyve all been more on the Will Smith side of the game,but her husband is Carlton. I had to convince her it aint alot of good men out there and to give him a chance. He eventually won her over and they seem happy. But if i could feel my woman didnt like me like that,that could give a man a "reason" to treat her poorly.


My sister is a nice person,and treats everyone nice,and she is loyal. But most women in my opinion aint even that. They subconsciously treat the men they settle for like dirt,and they testing the waters or outright cheating.



My main point is that most women at some point in they lives have done these things. While many still are behaving like this in some way.


So what makes them different from all the men who used to cheat like myself who dont now? I dont believe there are any men who have never cheated. But there are men who stopped cheating. And I dont believe there are many women who have NEVER cheated in some form or fashion. Unless we are talking about people with zero to no options. Who you cant really count in my opinion. Your loyalty has never been tested because people dont want you,and you know they dont want you,which makes you not even try.


There are people who dont cheat now,dont play games now. But if you probe me about my past and im honest,how could I be upset if women didnt want to take me serious? After i tell them my history of having cheated,being a whoremonger,and playing games? Even those 10 women who are "good" NOW in Walmart. 8 of them wont seem so good if they tell their s/o their past dealings with men. They would go right in the unclaimables category,in a mans mind. Thats where men come in and need to respect their bodies,and respect womens. If shes an unclaimable why are you fukking her anyway:respect:?
 
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You can always lead em on if you play it right.

I no bullshyt have 3 females off the top of my head I can always hit up even after years of not speaking whether they married/engaged, bf etc & drop dikk in them

Women don’t wanna just give up good reliable cocksmen who play they position like that

Are these women not really into the guys they're married or engaged to? Are they just married because they want to be married?
 
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