why is getting laid such an impossible task for the avg guy

[PhonZhi]

Confidence is everything. I know it's a cliche, but it's the truth. If you count yourself out, women will too

Oh and the other important thing, try talking to girls. I mean actually talking to them. Dudes be thinking that when you talk to girls ninjas are going fall from the ceiling and decapitate them and shyt. No, the worst you can get is a "No". Literally.

the best thing that ever happened to me was enduring my 1st "rejection" from a female I approached at a grocery store. it was my first time actually approaching a random stranger. all she did was smile and say "awww thank you, im sorry tho I have a boyfriend". THAT WAS IT!! yes I got "rejected" but I was soo damn proud of myself for gathering up the courage to speak to her. since then I haven't had a problem approaching anyone. its all a numbers game. even "denzel in his prime" looking cats are gonna get rejected 6 times outta 10. just gotta not give a fukk

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

nikkas standards be too high and their game/confidence is too weak. On some 'y aint a chick like Beyonce just fallin in my lap, these chicks playin too hard to get'

 

[DrX]

You want me to answer that question. I posted chicks I been serious here with. I don't bother just posted the randoms as they aren't important and those would clearly be out of your league. My rep is good in most cities breh.

You not realizing the problem is you. Making this simple ass thread and then got the nerves to be an a$$hole ain't what's up. I don't have to help you with shyt to be frank. I am doing this because shyt, nikkas need help these days. Since I am still constantly learning as we all should, I share what I have learn previously in time. If I can't speak on it, I won't but your situation is common.

what? nobody asked ur punk ass for advice, r u delusional or just crazy


u come in here like ur john wayne or some shyt......i bet id have ur women if i wanted dogg.....

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

Mail order brides aren't cheap

 

[ThePeopleUnderTheStairs]

It's the internet generation.

Most guys want girls who looks like pornstars, not the average girl.

If guys lowered their standards, they could get laid anytime they wanted.

 

[#1 pick]

we had a friend who couldnt' get laid in college...and it wasnt because he was ugly..cuz he wasnt...wasnt cuz he was short...wasnt cuz he was short and muscular....

it was his personality.....dats what it rly boils down 2

if u ever had a point in ya life where YOU couldnt get p*ssy....think to yourself wsa it cuz of my personality?

i seen nikkas bag chicks just off of personality....and they couldnt dress for shyt

yall nikkas think about high school for a sec..u ever had that ONE couple in school were this nikka was the shyttest dresser and i mean like straght leg levis with a crooked crease in the middle dusty air forces loose neck polo but had the chick with the PHATTEST ass in the damn school on the low? think about those couples if u ever seen what im talkin about

Yep

nikkas gotta find their comfort zone. I personally suck with women in group settings but I am a star when I can pull one to the side and get 1 on 1 time alone. Find your niche. I tried my homie method of getting women just to see if I get a quality upgrade in this still new city. I didn't, so I went back to good ole me. You always learning. Different cities got different vibes. Different women types always respond different to others. You gotta know what you are dealing with. It comes down to confidence.

Look at Softball. When I first played softball this year in over 10 years, I was I was just trying to get my steps and hands right, fukk hitting a ball. But once I adjust, got some hits, I started feeling confident. I wasn't close to the best anymore but I was at least dependable. It takes practice but it takes confidence. You need some success. If you not getting enough at home. Try something different, train at the gym etc. I would say travel. Man, my confidence went back up again ten fold when I went to Montreal. I was back to the old me even at the time.

 

[PhonZhi]

women are so easy to talk to. one thing that you have to keep in mind that them bad bytches you lust over rarely get approached

Of course if she in the club she get approached often. of course on social media she get mad attention. but in a regular setting men tend to just stare at them bytches.

but if you let go of the fear of rejection you gonna be shooting 40% from the field easily .

one of the greatest tools and piece of advice i can give you is this..........

1. never bring up sex unless she initiates that conversation
2. move like you dont even wanna fukk her. that shyt turns her on even more

women can weed out the nikkas that just want sex easily.

if you able to camoflage ya intentions you in there easy.

tonight im headed to chill with this girl i met at the grocery store today. didnt even expect to get her number cause she was with all her friends

i just walked up struck up a conversation about redbox, shook hands, made her smile and laugh and got her number

I agree with most everything except #2 to a certain degree. of course every woman is different so not all rules apply to them all but in my own personal experience women LOVE and aggressive man. I understand don't act "thirsty" but i'd rather come off thirsty and let her know off top what I want instead of being passive and ending up in the friendzone. I let chicks know in the first 5minutes that I find them sexually attractive. again, im only speaking off my experiences and what women have told me but I agree with bout all of what you said

 

[onelastdeath]

the best thing that ever happened to me was enduring my 1st "rejection" from a female I approached at a grocery store. it was my first time actually approaching a random stranger. all she did was smile and say "awww thank you, im sorry tho I have a boyfriend". THAT WAS IT!! yes I got "rejected" but I was soo damn proud of myself for gathering up the courage to speak to her. since then I haven't had a problem approaching anyone. its all a numbers game. even "denzel in his prime" looking cats are gonna get rejected 6 times outta 10. just gotta not give a fukk

I know brah. People forget that AT THE VERY WORST, you'll get a no. And once the fear of that goes away, the possibilities are endless

 

[#1 pick]

i bet id have ur women if i wanted dogg.....

You couldn't even get the women I reject breh.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

tbh its weird. I can pull but if i dont or things dont workout then i get discouraged and instead of chasing new nana i rely on girls from my past on fb i needa quit that shyt now and get at these girls

 

[Mr. Negative]

because they won't buy hookers, and also have high standards like the same broads that's rejecting them.

the average guy also thinks fukking = relationship.

if they pressed up on that ugly broad that shares their nerdy ass interests but let her know that they aren't looking for a relationship, they'll be getting p*ssy like everybody else.

 

[DrX]

You couldn't even get the women I reject breh.

ur women would be entertained by me, id have them crying when i move on to new p*ssy...im not some boring robotic cliche "smooth" player type

 

[onelastdeath]

The reason so many dudes in our generation have a hard time talking to girls is that you guys AREN'T USED TO TALKING TO GIRLS. Get off of FB, IG, all that. There's a different level of confidence involved in having conversations face to face. It's a lost art these days

 

[#1 pick]

ur women would be entertained by me, id have them crying when i move on to new p*ssy...im not some boring robotic cliche "smooth" player type

Make a pathetic thread and claim you can get bytches breh.

 

[Cacs R Us]

If you're going to bars and clubs on the reg and still can't pull anything. Take a long look at yourself for real.