Why do so many men not take care of their kids?

[KinksandCoils]

I dont think anyone would disagree with you there. And really thats the answer to your question, because they aint about shyt.

Its just that this topic has been done countless times before and the next step is usually women complaining about said men, in which we will all retort "the men werent about shyt before they knocked you up so why you let them knock you up". I think thats a pretty sound argument.

I see your statement about the guys who were good at first then just bounced.....but leats be reality here, thats nowhere near the majority of the case. Its like when you see women complaining about their man being on the down low, then we see a pic of the nikka and its obvious as fukk the nikka was gay. Thats what happens here the majority of the time. The dude was sorry from the jump.

Most of the examples in this matter I see are stereotypical examples.

I have no reason to lie miss. I can only say what I see.

As for the rest selfish humans exist. Thats common knowledge.

If he showed no red flags and she got caught up then he is just as bad as those bum dudes.

On the Coli the example is always where the mom had a wack ass bf and she knew he was shyt or they were just smashing. I never see anything else. Most of these pages are filled with y'all saying that. I don't recall saying u were lying. If I did my bad on that.

And I'm not sure what the percentage is on how a single mother became one. I don't care about that because it all boils down to a man not taking care of responsibilities.

Guys who do this need to get it together. This ain't a diss on men just ain't shyt ones. So don't think I'm tryna diss y'all.

 

[kevm3]

Are you serious right now?

If the guy is a good man then you wont worry about having to force his ass to see his child. Just because the man is no longer in a relationship with you that doesnt make him a loser. See thats how fukked up a lot of yalls mentality is, thinking that because the man isnt with you then he is a loser.

You asking why sorry nikkas wont spend time with their kids..............BECAUSE THEY ARE SORRY! If you try and force a sorry man to be with his kids then guess what he gonna teach them.......how to be a degenerate. Exactly what part of that is hard to comprehend?

Exactly. What else can you do to these loser negroes? They get shamed everywhere. You have 10,000 specials about dead-beat dads. You ask the average dude about someone who doesn't take care of his kids, and he'll call that dude a punk and a coward. What else are we supposed to do to these low-lifes? Go force them by bat to go take care of their kids? Women have the government to enforce child support. Bottom line is if these losers keep getting rewarded with sex, then there ain't nothing else men can do about the issue. If you reward a dog by giving it a treat after peeing on the carpet, do you think it will stop? If you reward losers with easy sex, do you think they will magically become responsible after the fact?




This dude got four female c/os pregnant and you constantly hear stories about female guards sleeping with and getting pregnant by prisoners. The dude is in prison. Does he have any realistic chance of taking care of his kids? Nah... but I bet when you hear the woman talk about it later on in life when there's no money coming in, all of a sudden he's a dog and a loser who tricked them. If you don't take care of your kids as a man, then you're a loser, and if you, as a woman, are letting low-lifes inside of you, then don't complain when he engages in low-life actions and you don't see him around.

 

[Blackout]

On the Coli the example is always where the mom had a wack ass bf and she knew he was shyt or they were just smashing. I never see anything else. Most of these pages are filled with y'all saying that. I don't recall saying u were lying. If I did my bad on that.

And I'm not sure what the percentage is on how a single mother became one. I don't care about that because it all boils down to a man not taking care of responsibilities.

Guys who do this need to get it together. This ain't a diss on men just ain't shyt ones. So don't think I'm tryna diss y'all.

Well I can only speak for myself and based on what I see that example is very common where the woman lets the guy impregnate because the dude was good looking and/or popular and she ignored the bad signs.

Men do the same thing when they go with a girl for looks and dont care about her personality until it is too late.

I think we all can agree that guys who do this need to get back in their kids lives. Its just that us agreeing on that does nothing if those guys still get what they want from women which is p*ssy.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Well I can only speak for myself and based on what I see that example is very common where the woman lets the guy impregnate because the dude was good looking and/or popular and she ignored the bad signs.

Men do the same thing when they go with a girl for looks and dont care about her personality until it is too late.

I think we all can agree that guys who do this need to get back in their kids lives.

Oh yes of course it's common. I wouldn't say it's not. I agree when y'all say women need to pick better partners. I think some posters think I don't agree.

 

[marcuz]

Exactly. What else can you do to these loser negroes? They get shamed everywhere. You have 10,000 specials about dead-beat dads. You ask the average dude about someone who doesn't take care of his kids, and he'll call that dude a punk and a coward. What else are we supposed to do to these low-lifes? Go force them by bat to go take care of their kids? Women have the government to enforce child support. Bottom line is if these losers keep getting rewarded with sex, then there ain't nothing else men can do about the issue. If you reward a dog by giving it a treat after peeing on the carpet, do you think it will stop? If you reward losers with easy sex, do you think they will magically become responsible after the fact?




This dude got four female c/os pregnant and you constantly hear stories about female guards sleeping with and getting pregnant by prisoners. The dude is in prison. Does he have any realistic chance of taking care of his kids? Nah... but I bet when you hear the woman talk about it later on in life when there's no money coming in, all of a sudden he's a dog and a loser who tricked them. If you don't take care of your kids as a man, then you're a loser, and if you, as a woman, are letting low-lifes inside of you, then don't complain when he engages in low-life actions and you don't see him around.

sad you've gotta type it out step by step since these women certainly dont think ahead

 

[Blackout]

Oh yes of course it's common. I wouldn't say it's not. I agree when y'all say women need to pick better partners. I think some posters think I don't agree.

Its not that they think you dont agree its just that your focused on why these men are immature when they all have their own fukked up reasons that can range from anything from selfishness to avoidance of raising kids because they are too immature and lazy to do so.

Plus focusing on how to stop future cases from happening is more important.

But thats just my opinion.

 

[marcuz]

Oh yes of course it's common. I wouldn't say it's not. I agree when y'all say women need to pick better partners. I think some posters think I don't agree.

explain the mindset of a black woman thats attracted to known deadbeats. why do women like men with multiple kids?

 

[Remote]

I don't personally know women who do that so I can't speak on it because I've only heard of it happening from others. I've never physically seen it or had a friend or family member talk to me about how they did it. Your guess would be as good as mine.

I could name entire apartment buildings of women who do this sh*t, woman

 

[aboss4real24]

Oh I bet if I said I had a baby and was denying my baby daddy his ability to see his child it would be a problem. But now y'all saying why would a person let a loser around their child.

Nikkas make up your damn mind

ur dealing with alot of nikkaz who r frustrated at black women becuz they cant get 1, and wen i say get 1 i mean fukk em (witout paying 4 it), so there taking there anger out on the net

But i do agree to a point women should choose better men

but theres no excuse 4 not taking care of ur seed

especially if u have a son , atleast with a gurl the mom can teach her how to b a women by herself

 

[KinksandCoils]

I could name entire apartment buildings of women who do this sh*t, woman

Well you live in New York da hell u expect

 

[EndGame]

Is this is a politically correct way of saying, why do so many BLACK men not take care of their kids ?

 

[KinksandCoils]

explain the mindset of a black woman thats attracted to known deadbeats. why do women like men with multiple kids?

I can't explain the mindset because not everyone is the same. Some women know what they are in for and some women are fooled. Y'all act like every ain't shyt man shows how he ain't shyt. Dudes run a lot of game. Y'all act like in relationships people can't be deceitful.

As far as a woman wanting a man with a lot of kids. That would depend on factors. Does she know he got a lot of kids? Is he taking care of them? Does she like a lot of kids?

Your second question is too broad. Be more specific so I can answer it better.

And I don't want to read no shyt about a woman should know she is being deceived because everyone in this world can be deceived in some way shape or form. Men fall for loser women too.

 

[Diddly Drogba]

 

[Rawtid]

they never wanted kids in the first place...

Then stop fukking raw because you know you can potentially make babies that way.

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

Then stop fukking raw because you know you can potentially make babies that way.

then women shouldn't let him fukk raw, or be on birth control. argument goes both ways, most dudes will fukk raw if you let him

If he dips out because he can't fukk raw, then you know what type of dude you're dealing with [in general not you specifically]