Why do so many men not take care of their kids?

[Blackout]

Do you realize the conversation is going in circles, Do you need to win here or what is it? It has nothing to do with you so why do you keep talking about yourself? If every time we brought up solutions and you said nothing about men I did assume you thought that way because you continued to turn it back on women. If when I said both are responsible and you go and say "But women". Yes I am going to assume that. We started this about the initial responses to the thread. Not about you until you put yourself in it. I don't even know why after I said we can agree to disagree the convo turned to this.

If you blame both then why are we still talking? That was my whole point. You made assumptions initially and at this point I will just say that I did to because I no longer see the point in this convo. There you go.

We are still talking because i need your help.

I need you as a nubian queen to get black women to assume their status as nubian queens and stop giving these aint shyt men opportunities.

 

[marcuz]

Men have the same option to avoid it. No one is strapping me down and injecting their sperm into women. They have control right there.

just like women have the option to force a man to use that 1 form of birth control. meanwhile, you have about 10 forms of birth control. you can take the 72hr pill, you can abort, you can adopt. women can pretend the choices are 50/50, but they clearly arent.

in fact, if a man doesn't want a kid while the chick is still 1-3 pregnant. he should be able to opt out of any legal responsibility for the kid.

 

[KinksandCoils]

...so going by your title, you seem to believe that there are more of the latter type than the former.

Is that accurate?

There is too many of both. I know some broke dude that still try to do for theirs. I don't know the percentage. I'm gonna assume it's more bums cause the lack of resources makes it even harder.

 

[marcuz]

Again

whats with you black women having so many abortions?

 

[The ADD]

 

[KinksandCoils]

whats with you black women having so many abortions?

Black women have more abortions than any other race?

Is this a fact? If so I'm not buying it. Those white girls will have abortions left and right.

 

[marcuz]

Black women have more abortions than any other race?

Is this a fact? If so I'm not buying it. Those white girls will have abortions left and right.

the stats say otherwise

 

[Raava]

We are still talking because i need your help.

I need you as a nubian queen to get women to stop giving these aint shyt men opportunities.

*sigh*

just like women have the option to force a man to use that 1 form of birth control. meanwhile, you have about 10 forms of birth control. you can take the 72hr pill, you can abort, you can adopt. women can pretend the choices are 50/50, but they clearly arent.

in fact, if a man doesn't want a kid while the chick is still 1-3 pregnant. he should be able to opt out of any legal responsibility for the kid.

I don't disagree with this and at the same time it doesn't disprove what I said. They are both responsible. Whether its one or 10 ways, if you don't have a child why not use that one way? I don't get it. Everyone should make better choices and if you don't you deal with the consequences. Whether that be dealing with an absentee father, being put on child support, going through an abortion or dealing with a crazy baby mother.

 

[BocaRear]

It takes 2 to raise a child regardless of any shyt you'll ever hear. This single mother shyt is ruining society, wimmin need to stop fukking with bum ass nikkas & bum ass nikkas need to take more responsibility for their seeds. With all these condoms & birth control pills & morning afters you'd think this wouldn't be as big a problem as it is.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

This thread has never been made. I'm on the Coli a lot and it's always the shyt on single moms in some way or fashion. It's never why do men not take care of their kids it's always focused on the woman.

• A redundant thread is y'all posting a pic of some girl asking the guys would they wife.
• The shyt on a fat girl thread
• The he won thread cause he got a pretty woman.
• The lets brag on how many women we smashed.
• The lets call some woman a thot thread.

It's a "point the finger at the other gender" thread. Just from the less prevalent gender here. It's a very tired theme.

 

[Blackout]

*sigh*

Im sorry if I annoyed you but I care for my race especially the nubian queens.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

Let's be real. A lot of guys can be bums and they don't raise their kids. They won't do shyt for them. But not every man that has not taken care of his kid is some broke ass man who sits up in some girls house eating up all her food.

Let's discuss....

Cause those ARE THE MEN YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO.....obviously you bought this thread up cause you are either involved or been involved with guys like that

when in reality you should just STOP PAYING ATTENTION TO THOSE GUYS and just focus ON THE MASSES OF GOOD FATHERS OUT THERE!!!

it's no different than a dude worrying about a SORRY RATCHET SLUT...BUT IGNORES ALL THE GOOD HARD WORKING WOMEN...

simply cause HE focuses on the negative ...cause the NEGATIVE is entertaining.......

so it's on you ma..............

YOU WOULD DO BETTER...IF YOU KNEW BETTER

 

[marcuz]

I don't disagree with this and at the same time it doesn't disprove what I said. They are both responsible. Whether its one or 10 ways, if you don't have a child why not use that one way? I don't get it. Everyone should make better choices and if you don't you deal with the consequences. Whether that be dealing with an absentee father, being put on child support, going through an abortion or dealing with a crazy baby mother.

another myth is that black women prefer safe sex. truth is, y'all get offended when nikkas pull out condoms. hell, all of a sudden, BW get latex allergies or claim they're on some form of BC.

but yeah, you're right. both partners are still responsible and men still have condoms.

 

[Taadow]

There is too many of both. (but you said this thread isn't about both, though.)
I know some broke dude that still try to do for theirs.

I don't know the percentage.
I'm gonna assume it's more bums...

...so this comes off like you don't care to know the answer to your question.

Fair enough...i'm out.

 

[KinksandCoils]

It's a "point the finger at the other gender" thread. Just from the less prevalent gender here. It's a very tired theme.

Do u say that in the other thread as well or did u suddenly become tired cause I'm pointing the finger at a man instead of a woman?

Cause those ARE THE MEN YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO.....obviously you bought this thread up cause you are either involved or been involved with guys like that

when in reality you should just STOP PAYING ATTENTION TO THOSE GUYS and just focus ON THE MASSES OF GOOD FATHERS OUT THERE!!!

it's no different than a dude worrying about a SORRY RATCHET SLUT...BUT IGNORES ALL THE GOOD HARD WORKING WOMEN...

simply cause HE focuses on the negative ...cause the NEGATIVE is entertaining.......

so it's on you ma..............

YOU WOULD DO BETTER...IF YOU KNEW BETTER

I don't have kids and I've never been pregnant. I made this thread cause it's the truth