Why do so many men not take care of their kids?

[marcuz]

Im a single mother? you want me to be a stat so bad

you're not with your childs father, you're a twerker, you're a prostitute, and you're probably involved with some sort of credit card scam. i dont need to make you a stat.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

They not ready @Teedot ... They are not ready to admit that although I had a shytty upbringing I am ultimately responsible for my adult decisions... They aren't ready to admit that they aren't man enough to sacrifice for the greater good of their family instead of themselves...

They ain't ready @Teedot

It goes both ways, it's such a spectrum all the guys in here are just bashing women though

 

[Born2BKing]

my bad, lets add more generic "there's no excuse for a man to abandon his seed" comments instead.

Or we could have some good posts like below, which explain some situations.

This may not explain everything, but one thing for certain is true...A lot of these men don't even know that they are fathers.

Some of these women are such slores that they aren't exactly sure WHO the daddy is.

Women today are NOTHING like how some were 50+ years ago...women these days are racking up a lottery number of partners....it isn't a coincidence that OOW births and abortion rates are higher than ever

 

[thoushallhustle]

This may not explain everything, but one thing for certain is true...A lot of these men don't even know that they are fathers.

Some of these women are such slores that they aren't exactly sure WHO the daddy is or WHO to test or WHO should be taken to court.

For a lot of these women...if they took the alleged daddy to Family Court...the line would look like the Post Office or the DMV...

Women today are NOTHING like how some were 50+ years ago...women these days are racking up a lottery number of partners....it isn't a coincidence that OOW births and abortion rates are higher than ever.

aint nothing new under the sun. ya granny was a thot back in the day they just didnt have camera phone and worldstarhiphop to put it on blast.

 

[Blackout]

That's good, but you are doing it again. Deflecting back to only the woman again as a means to stop. It is easier to just put on a condom. The whole point is both parties can do something to stop unwanted children, both.

Let me ask you a question.

If a woman tells a guy he wont have sex with her until he puts on a condom you dont think he will listen?

Women run the relationship game. At least accept responsibility for that.

 

[filial_piety]

aint nothing new under the sun. ya granny was a thot back in the day they just didnt have camera phone and worldstarhiphop to put it on blast.

nikka just becuz you don't know who yo daddy is...and yo momma was slurpin n burpin in the alley ways doesn't mean everbody elses was...

 

[thoushallhustle]

you're not with your childs father, you're a twerker, you're a prostitute, and you're probably involved with some sort of credit card scam. i dont need to make you a stat.

if thats what you think go ahead.

 

[thoushallhustle]

nikka just becuz you don't know who yo daddy is...and yo momma was slurpin n burpin in the alley ways doesn't mean everbody elses was...

nah your mom was a hoe. thats why you was born with herpes on your forehead.

 

[Taadow]

It goes both ways, it's such a spectrum all the guys in here are just bashing women though

It's like folks didn't even READ this thread, yo...

I don't even know why I bothered. Shout out to @The ADD

 

[filial_piety]

nah your mom was a hoe. thats why you was born with herpes on your forehead.

nikka you ARE herpes

 

[marcuz]

Or we could have some good posts like below, which explain some situations.

i mean, @thereheis is basically calling these women flat out whores. i'm not even doing that. i'm just saying they make shytty choices when they do decide to spread for a nikka.

 

[Theraflu]

Let me ask you a question.

If a woman tells a guy he wont have sex with her until he puts on a condom you dont think he will listen?

Women run the relationship game. At least accept responsibility for that.

Breh

minus all this talk breh, I live in Berlin, we have a high HIV % among blacks. I used strap up regardless breh, when I was single, I always strapped up with hoes.

I hope you're the same breh

Breh I hope ur not fukking every hoe off the street raw and waiting for her to ask for condoms

 

[Raava]

Let me ask you a question.

If a woman tells a guy he wont have sex with her until he puts on a condom you dont think he will listen?

Women run the relationship game. At least accept responsibility for that.

Are you saying men are child like in mind that they can't deduce I don't want to or have no resources to raise a child therefore I need to put on a condom? They need a woman to tell them that?

"Running the dating game" has nothing to do with an adult being responsible for their safety and not having a child. Each adult is responsible for their own actions. Both parties.

 

[FTBS]

Damn right breh, these conversations tend not to lead anywhere because the default deflection is 'well, just get married, if you're not a babymama/having a kid out of wedlock your problem will be solved' which I say is bullshyt and agree, this is a cultural issue (it spans more than the black race) and I don't think all these women getting married automatically will solve it. I honestly can't count how many single mothers I know who were once married lol. So the people saying this are rather naive.

Marriage literally means nothing anymore, infact it might be me but in my office the married people are the thirstiest and most 'on the prowl'. Generally as a society we are more selfish, it's all about us and our needs. Sadly, the whole makeup of the marital unit as it was meant to be is the exact opposite of our current culture so it's no suprise it's not working.

I have no problem with people being irresponsible, wanting to fukk, being selfish, but don't fukking have children then. Also don't get married when you know by month 3 you're already gonna be fukking around etc. Then when the marriage collapses you're actually shocked. Don't be so selfish that you leave your wife and son to run off with some PYT

The victim of this culture are the children. The children growing up in broken homes. It's the children who pay for the adults fukkery.

This...this...and more this. And then those same kids turn around and become selfish ass adults and thusly continue the cycle. I really don't understand how we got here. There was a time when parents bent over backwards and damn near killed themselves trying to make a way for their kids...planned or not. Now it's just a fukkin free for all. You are absolutely right in that everybody is all about self. Marriage and family don't work with selfish people.

 

[Mountain]

You are missing the point. I have answered the question you asked twice. Why is their only mention of women when they bring up stopping future cases? That is the point. The first thing they hop to is blaming the woman. Men have as much power not to father children they have no intention of caring for, yet they are never addressed.

You honestly believe that dead beats arent addressed and shamed by society, celebrities and general media?