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Just because someone is lighter doesnt mean they are biracial.
why do people assume its not pro black to date Light Skinned/Mixed people ?
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Drooling over lightskinned people sets a bad precedent considering most people who identify as black dont look like Steph Curry or whoever. Nor do they have his features. We should put brownskin/darkskinned features on a pedestalOne minute we praise how diverse we are and boast about the many types of features Black people can have unlike Whites and especially Asians who tend to all look the same. But if your girlfriend doesn't look like India Arie all of a sudden it's a issue.
The hoop coli nikkas jump through in these conversations is hilarious
If you prefer light features than say so then. You can have your preferences. but dont pee on my head and tell me its raining.
To get a better idea of your perspective.why you wanna know ?
But all or damn near all Blacks in the African Diaspora (I'm not even going to say just America) are mixed.
they also think you are color struck when you date somebody light skinned and you are dark. but you actually love them.
they probably think this sister is color struck just because she is with a very light skinned man
and people love saying that Steph and Ayesha Curry's relationship isn't Black Love
fukk team light skinned vs dark skinned
we team melanin out here
That's not how it works breh.
light skinned man + dark skinned woman = Black Love
light skinned man + light skinned woman = Black Love
dark skinned woman + dark skinned man = Black Love
dark skinned man + light skinned woman = c00n
This shyt is all about black women feeling insecure about their skin tone. Colorism is real, but that's what it's about nowadays.
allow me in?
I'm not mixed and neither is my girl. And idgaf who anyone wants to date. The fact that some ppl feel the need to put down one shade to show how much they love the other is some self hating brainwashed shyt in my opinion.I'm light brown and my girl is a yellow/redbone. One of her best friends(who didn't like her at first for being light) is dark brown and has made it a point to let it be known she would never date a black man my complexion or lighter. I simply said I would never date a black person that practices colorism
bytch been quiet ever since
an ex of minemind you she's the one who broke up wit me
said i left her to be with this lightksin chick because thats "all us nikkaz like anyway"
somehow just because i started to smash on this yella chick after she broke up wit methat i wanted to be with a "lightskin chick anyway"
man i never talked to that hoe again, dumbest shyt i ever heardfacts ALL fukkIN FACTS
Quadroon ,mulatto, octoroon were terms used for people of significant mixed raced ancestry aka light skin people
Who dont look like what most people consider an authentic black or white person
That doesnt mean anything
Damn near all Hispanics are mixed. Try being half black in a Mexican neighborhood and see how they take to you.
A lot of black people, in both genders, are colorstruck. Black men and black women. It's not gender specific.
Rell84shots
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i use to think this way but now it's fukkin stupid. i hate that whole stigma that you aint truly pro black if your partner aint dark skinned or brown skinned. like we brehs we all black, its a zulu love and complexion dont mean a thing word to kendrick
people need to get that willie lynch bullshyt out of they head and start uniting with their brothers and sisters no matter their skin complexion.
Light/Dark/Brown is not the problem, it's when you preach black unity but you're laid up with a someone who ain't black.
It's also not specific to just black people, every race has people male/female that think "the lighter the better".
It does because you're saying that all mixed Blacks aren't really Black - by using the phrase "allow you in our community." So everyone (outside of a tiny % of Blacks) not in Africa is not Black according to this logic.
complexion
look from dark skin women in public