Why do college educated black women seemingly, immediately write off blue collar black men?

Gloxina

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Not gona lie but our brothers needs to level up also. I cringe when I see alot of our folks working retail or fast food spots knowing it's a dead end job unless the company is paying for their school. I had an employee that worked a grave yard security job on the weekend. He used that time to study and get his Doctorate. Honestly companies paying for school is really the only reason to get into dead end jobs. If school isn't for you then learn a trade which is extremely profitable especially now. If that isn't your thing either then work for a large warehouse or logistics company and try to move up as far as you can without a degree in either management or get a trucking gig. There's options out there for alot of folks they don't don't have the drive or been beaten down mentally that they think minumn wage is all they can get. I know somone right now that had a part time job since he was 20 years old and is now 40 and content living with his mother and no desire being FT.
And she ain’t throw him out :hhh:
 

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Ouch.


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All women do this. I would argue white and Asian women do it more than black women. It’s a class thing.

Both men and women do it in their friendship too. A man or woman with a college degree is going to have a circle of friends with college degrees. It’s a class thing.
 

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Read some replies..

My thing is..

I don't have a problem with Blk women or anyone else exercising their right to choose who they wanna date, marry, cohabitate, deal with, etc.

If Blk women wanna severely limit their options on choosing a suitable mate, then cool.

Just don't start wagging fingers & sniveling about Blk men or men in general being this, that or a 3rd should they not get favorable outcomes.
 

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I mean White and Asian women are going after the dudes in Finance working at Wall Street not the plumber or electrician.:manny:
Actually now that I think more about it, I would say Black women are more likely to choose the plumber guy more than other races of women.:manny:
lol says who thats not how middle class whites operate
 

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I'm sorry for the generalization it's just what I see (mainly online) :hubie: this is something I mainly hear on line, but in real life too I honestly see white collar black women dating blue collar brehs less than latinas and white women. Asian and black college educated women specifically seem against blue collar dudes for the most part


I know college women in general date/marry other college educated men obviously, but the dialogue I hear from a lot and mainly college educated black women is that they will NEVER date a blue collar/trade man. Why though?

It seems backwards cause if we're being fr in MOST places where black people live (like the south) the most financially secure black men are blue collar. But their biggest gripe with dating is seemingly "black men aren't earning enough".

Just from what I see, it looks like a lot of college educated/white collar black women genuinely look down on blue collar men. Obviously not all of them, but a good enough amount to notice it. I think educated women in general tend to lean against blue collar men but I specifically see mainly white collar black women talking down.

Respectfully
Blue collar men are better off not being saddled with 6 figure student debts and rampant spendthrift.

Treat these women like zoo animals - marvel from afar

DO NOT FEED
DO NOT ENGAGE
DO NOT TOUCH
 

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Read some replies..

My thing is..

I don't have a problem with Blk women or anyone else exercising their right to choose who they wanna date, marry, cohabitate, deal with, etc.

If Blk women wanna severely limit their options on choosing a suitable mate, then cool.

Just don't start wagging fingers & sniveling about Blk men or men in general being this, that or a 3rd should they not get favorable outcomes.

Totally agree

For the black women lurkers

Look,, by all means brag about your degree, your house, your car, your career, your travels , your income and your saying “ i need a man on my level nonsense “

But also remember there are more black women than men and the numbers are not in your favor .

Also remember The white man overall prefer white and Asian women first and latino men stay with their own..

So by all means go yell on social media and tv that you can’t find a black man

But at the same time don’t say there isn’t any quality black men out here when 55% of men are single and some are quality

And please don’t yell black men don’t like marriage when 36% of black men are married compared to 25% of black women
 

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Nah what’s your opinion on what the white girl said?
I mean she ain’t wrong.



This is what I be talking about. White and Asian women discuss this shyt with their young daughters. If that Black girl understood, she wouldn’t be on Tiktok bragging about that shyt. She looks crazy. That’s the shyt a man is supposed to brag about to get your attention.


And I’m not saying we aren’t supposed to strive for success ourselves! But at the end of the day the only guy who is choosing you based on those stats is a guy who actually needs your help to create the lifestyle he wants.

White girl ain't wrong. It’s just that no one sits down with the 18YO Black girls and puts it to them like this. White and Asian moms game their girls up.
 
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