I have found my sentiments towards obese/fat people to have shifted many times over the years. I used to simply chalk their size up as laziness, then it was greediness, then I attributed it to depression..none of which I found very excusable.
As of late, I always give them the benefit of doubt first. I always assume that there's a physical incapacity or illness that prevents them from being active(bad heart, etc) and, because of it, they're obese.
But at the same time you also have what I call the Fat fukk.
Like the ones where I work? Smh.
Hell, the South in general is plagued by 'the fat fukk', when I think about it. And it's so 'acceptable'.
And the fat fukk brigade cares not a damn about what they eat. The Fat fukk will eat out every day of the week at fast food joints for lunch with zero consideration of the health risk it poses to them.
The Fat fukk will even spend all morning, leading up until it gets it's lunch break, discussing with their co-fat fukks exactly what they will have for lunch.. all while complaining about work in between breaths(even though their job requires that they sit on their ass for 8 hrs).
The Fat fukk doesn't make any effort towards being active, either. As a matter of fact, the Fat fukk will circle a parking lot
repeatedly until a spot up front opens up rather than park a few spaces down and get a little much needed exercise(to their credit, non-fat fukks do this also).
And the reason why it's "acceptable" to be obese these days is because slush-brained people who cannot think for themselves have been lulled into the whole "anything you say about a person is judging" trance that has become pop-thought in recent years. People are afraid of being charged with "judging someone", so society says nothing. It's all about "tolerance" these days(insert any other of today's popular propagandist shock terms that you can think of).
If people used their brains, they'd realize that criticizing and judging are two different things. But they don't , so they won't, and so fat fukks are okay with fat fukktivity and so is society.
People who are fat/obese due to physical handicaps, illness, etc.. I can excuse them. I even stand up/fight for them.
But not the Fat fukk. I don't like the Fat fukk.