Why are Black People Upset when Corny, Swagless, non-Edgy, Too Nice Black Men leave our Community?

Iverson_64

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if i know yall coli brehs as well as i think, you likely not getting any attention from women outside the black community either.
corny or not you still creepy af in your approach to women.
Brehs really think that attractive non-Black women have lower standards for us than Black women when that's not even remotely true.

Shii.... I remember there was a social experiment where a Black dude in college rated a White girl he liked as a dime behind her back. And the interviewer who was also a White girl went up to the girl he liked and asked her to rate him back.

The girl thought about it for a bit then said that he was a "5." :dead: Mind you, this Black dude was tall, muscular, dark skinned, and wasn't ugly at all. But this White girl nonchalantly said he was a "5" and he caught feelings when he found out that the attraction wasn't reciprocated.

Plus, if a brother is bagging gorgeous White, Asian, and Mexican women left and right, why would he even be bitter or still spiteful towards the Black community? That literally makes no sense.
 

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Why do people who get into IR relationships have to be corny, swagless, non edgy & too nice? Who says these individuals are the aforementioned?

Also, what community did these people leave? IR relationships are simply relationships. Some work out and others don't like endogamous relationships.

Another thing, why is the focus on IR relationships strictly with the Black person and not his or her non-Black partner? Did the non-Black partner left his/her community?

At the end of the day, I understand that people may be against IR relationships from all sides. That comes with the territory.

But, these days, all kinds of people hook up from all walks of life. I would imagine that there are more important things to focus on than who people choose to date/marry.

May not wanna accept change but change is here to stay and will keep on keeping on..

*shrugs*
 

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Being Corny in the Black Community is almost a Death Sentence.

Seems like it is with some Black people. Seems like some people are invisible to others until that so called invisible person is with someone others disapprove.

If anything, cock watching should be considered corny especially considering what's going on these days.
 

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Most black women don’t care when awkward, ugly corny Brehs leave the community. They only care when those Brehs start talking shyt about black women, bring us up to compare us to those other women or pander to us to get our dollars despite not even liking us (this is directed at Brehs in the entertainment industry that aren’t mainstream enough to have a huge white fan base so they still rely on black audiences and black women to watch them and support them) Etc etc. in other words pawg in peace and leave us alone completely.

Most Black women care more about the attractive corny black men leaving our community or the very wealthy black men leaving our community. We don’t care about the average corny Breh dating out in fact we kind of expect them to.

I can’t speak for black men but I don’t think they care unless the Breh is shytting on us, thinks he better or on some c00ning shyt.
 
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As a "corny" Black man who's softer than Charmin Ulta, I choose to live around mostly other Black people with some Caribbean Hispanics and Indo-Caribbean people because that's who I'm most familiar with and 80% of my friends are Black. Funnily enough, I've never been called corny a day in my life.

I've lived in a predominately White suburb before as well as a majority Hispanic city(San Antonio) and it's not at all how TLR romanticizes it to be.

Whites and others are just good at hiding their issues and not bringing too much attention to it online. But there's plenty of "nerds" that get bullied and ostracized in their communities. In fact, a lot of White loners and incels have stories about being bullied and ridiculed by their own kind. Also, Mexicans can be just as bad when it comes to hating on Mexicans who don't act like the type of Mexican they prefer.

Plus, you're bound to deal with prejudice, discrimination, racial profiling, and MAGA lunacy in pred. non-Black environments which can take a toll on a brother worse than a random person calling you corny. Hell, in 2023, I don't know how many Black man could feel truly "loved" in a lily White community where MAGA fascism is rising in popularity on a national level even in a number of Blue states. I remember seeing pickup trucks with Confederate flags...........in upstate NY. Thanks but no thanks. :hubie:
 

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Most black women don’t care when awkward, ugly corny Brehs leave the community. They only care when those Brehs start talking shyt about black women, bring us up to compare us to those other women or pander to us to get our dollars despite not even liking us (this is directed at Brehs in the entertainment industry that aren’t mainstream enough to have a huge white fan base so they still rely on black audiences and black women to watch them and support them) Etc etc. in other words pawg in peace and leave us alone completely.

Black women care more about attractive corny black men leaving our community or wealthy black men leaving our community.
No, y'all care when ugly nikkas with money leave because that's one less stepdad, work boyfriend, church simp, and/or fat best friend to talk about things you should talk to your fat homegirls about. The very thought of "lames" leaving has you tight because there is no stick and carrot for you to goad anybody with.
If they're getting p*ssy from elsewhere, you can't entice them with it. If they're gone, you can't threaten your current with "new money simp". You also have less people to call and remove said current when you get bored with him.
 

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No, y'all care when ugly nikkas with money leave because that's one less stepdad, work boyfriend, church simp, and/or fat best friend to talk about things you should talk to your fat homegirls about. The very thought of "lames" leaving has you tight because there is no stick and carrot for you to goad anybody with.
If they're getting p*ssy from elsewhere, you can't entice them with it. If they're gone, you can't threaten your current with "new money simp". You also have less people to call and remove said current when you get bored with him
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Brehs really think that attractive non-Black women have lower standards for us than Black women when that's not even remotely true.

Shii.... I remember there was a social experiment where a Black dude in college rated a White girl he liked as a dime behind her back. And the interviewer who was also a White girl went up to the girl he liked and asked her to rate him back.

The girl thought about it for a bit then said that he was a "5." :dead: Mind you, this Black dude was tall, muscular, dark skinned, and wasn't ugly at all. But this White girl nonchalantly said he was a "5" and he caught feelings when he found out that the attraction wasn't reciprocated.

Plus, if a brother is bagging gorgeous White, Asian, and Mexican women left and right, why would he even be bitter or still spiteful towards the Black community? That literally makes no sense.


Non black women tend to have lower standards for black men as far as swag or coolness is concerned

The reason u don't see more black men with non black women is most of them like they own men

@carmel barbie

Spoke on this as a person who grew up in a white suburb

Most white dudes are corny and white people in general

They don't require that type of stuff

So it's easier for square or Corny black men to eat there


Also most bm who interacial date don't say anything bad about black women

The 10% is loud
 
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