Who created this lie that white people like dark skin better than black men?

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The point the person is trying to make is that date preferences and biases exists. You can not chastise someone from having a preference when you have preferences too.

Except his so called preferences come white supremacy.

And he knows that, and so does everybody else, so if yall know that and still choose to participate in it,

You have a problem.
 

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:bryan:What kinda feminist bullshyt is this? And how are you going to fight a war as the most downtrodden, oppressed group with no resources, etc. you'll die without black men


But we've already been without y'all.

Lmao I'm not saying that's okay but its not like black women haven't been doing everything on our own.
 

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Black men who love black women are taken for granted...and so are black women who love black men, ESPECIALLY HERE.

@_Anghellic_ Let's be real though, most black women in real life don't really believe this bullshyt, it's an internet thing. Those women are losers, ignore 'em.
 

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Majority wise they are right. Its the same for black men as well.

Nobody wants us majority wise than our own. The sooner you accept this the better.

But the thing is I observe this on here and in real life too.There is a very negative stigma attached specifically to black women dating out.The guy I'm currently talking to is black & has asked me twice would I ever date a white boy. & Of course I said I would lol. & He clearly felt some kind of way both times(& the fact that he asked me a second time is strange).The fact that he even asked me at all is strange.& I remember one time I was having a funny conversation with him about about how my niece's friend said she wanted to date a jewish man & he automatically asked me what race my neice's friend was because "jewish men don't like black girls." It's literally like a knee jerk reaction to quickly let a black woman know she is not wanted.

If you do then you wouldnt generalize black men.

I could add the "some," label in front when I talk but I feel like that would undermine the significant amount of black men who do fit the description of what I speak of.

No poster here ever said "no man will ever want you except me". That's your projection. You misrepresent stating a fact and statistic about race as "no man wants you except me".But your projection does not make A) the fact equal B) your projection.

Black women date black men because they like black men or people or whatever. Black women who don't care about all of that will do otherwise. You're just mad most black women aren't sellouts like you and as such you feel alone. You want to claim to be more enlightened but there's nothing enlightened about a delusional ho that ignores anything which doesn't cater to the views she already holds. There's nothing enlightened about a ho who tries to massage fetishism into something positive by using a "you do it too" hypocrisy argument, which at best doesn't make that behavior right (and at worst doesn't apply to the situation). You're the antithesis of enlightened. You're benighted. :russ:

I see y'all favorite word is "projection." :comeon: no,I'm not "projecting," anything,I'm looking at this thread and calling it what it is.
&I'm a "sell out?":mjlol: Mmmk.

& I never said fetishism is a good thing,however,I said y'all need to stop using it as an argument to deter black women from dating out considering black men do it as well.Pot calling kettle black.Do not act like your morals are so "high," because they are not.They need to get a BETTER argument.
 

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I see y'all favorite word is "projection." :comeon: no,I'm not "projecting," anything,I'm looking at this thread and calling it what it is.
&I'm a "sell out?":mjlol: Mmmk.

& I never said fetishism is a good thing,however,I said y'all need to stop using it as an argument to deter black women from dating out considering black men do it as well.Pot calling kettle black.Do not act like your morals are so "high," because they are not.They need to get a BETTER argument.

You're definitely a sellout. You have virtually ignored every piece of evidence which does not agree with your c00n views and whitewashed it with a label as a means of ignoring it. c00nery and anti-blackness are arguments against dating out enough, for both bm and bw, and fetishism as well as the fact 90% of non-blacks are racialist is as good an argument as any. It's not that the fetishism argument bothers you, it's that all anti-c00n arguments bother you because you're a c00n.
 

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I mean.....the work and heavy lifting.

So nowhere then on Earth black women survive without black men? Alright then. And women do housework,nursing, cleaning and jobs related to those things. If men don't do anything else, it never gets done :dead:. That's beside the point though. The fact is that black women need black men and the more black men there are in a place, the more powerful black people are.
 

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But the thing is I observe this on here and in real life too.There is a very negative stigma attached specifically to black women dating out.The guy I'm currently talking to is black & has asked me twice would I ever date a white boy. & Of course I said I would lol. & He clearly felt some kind of way both times(& the fact that he asked me a second time is strange).The fact that he even asked me at all is strange.& I remember one time I was having a funny conversation with him about about how my niece's friend said she wanted to date a jewish man & he automatically asked me what race my neice's friend was because "jewish men don't like black girls." It's literally like a knee jerk reaction to quickly let a black woman know she is not wanted.



I could add the "some," label in front when I talk but I feel like that would undermine the significant amount of black men who do fit the description of what I speak of.



I see y'all favorite word is "projection." :comeon: no,I'm not "projecting," anything,I'm looking at this thread and calling it what it is.
&I'm a "sell out?":mjlol: Mmmk.

& I never said fetishism is a good thing,however,I said y'all need to stop using it as an argument to deter black women from dating out considering black men do it as well.Pot calling kettle black.Do not act like your morals are so "high," because they are not.They need to get a BETTER argument.


Exactly, a lot of black men are soo quick to remind black women we're not wanted lol

And claim that its out of love......NOT!

its like the abuser saying, "I beat you cause I love you girl!" Lmao


The relationship between black women and black men is an abusive one that should be addressed

Properly.
 

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But the thing is I observe this on here and in real life too.There is a very negative stigma attached specifically to black women dating out.The guy I'm currently talking to is black & has asked me twice would I ever date a white boy. & Of course I said I would lol. & He clearly felt some kind of way both times(& the fact that he asked me a second time is strange).The fact that he even asked me at all is strange.& I remember one time I was having a funny conversation with him about about how my niece's friend said she wanted to date a jewish man & he automatically asked me what race my neice's friend was because "jewish men don't like black girls." It's literally like a knee jerk reaction to quickly let a black woman know she is not wanted.



I could add the "some," label in front when I talk but I feel like that would undermine the significant amount of black men who do fit the description of what I speak of.



I see y'all favorite word is "projection." :comeon: no,I'm not "projecting," anything,I'm looking at this thread and calling it what it is.
&I'm a "sell out?":mjlol: Mmmk.

& I never said fetishism is a good thing,however,I said y'all need to stop using it as an argument to deter black women from dating out considering black men do it as well.Pot calling kettle black.Do not act like your morals are so "high," because they are not.They need to get a BETTER argument.
:smh: Christ. You're colorstruck as hell :dead:
 

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I guess everyone's experience is different, I can recall black girls being teased for being dark skin and I have a friend who was told to stay out of the sun and other members of her family being teased for being dark skin :yeshrug:
Were these insults form men or women?
 
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