Who created this lie that white people like dark skin better than black men?

[1stPick]

I never said we don't need you.

I'm saying y'all don't do shyt, work wise.

And we do need more men in place, but guess none of those are stepping up soooo....

You're like the female Chris B

It wasnt black men who destroyed the community from the inside out by opening their legs and getting pregnant by scumbags

There are scumbags in every race, yet only one type of women makes such a habit out of getting impregnated by them

 

[Blackout]

But the thing is I observe this on here and in real life too.There is a very negative stigma attached specifically to black women dating out.The guy I'm currently talking to is black & has asked me twice would I ever date a white boy. & Of course I said I would lol. & He clearly felt some kind of way both times(& the fact that he asked me a second time is strange).The fact that he even asked me at all is strange.& I remember one time I was having a funny conversation with him about about how my niece's friend said she wanted to date a jewish man & he automatically asked me what race my neice's friend was because "jewish men don't like black girls." It's literally like a knee jerk reaction to quickly let a black woman know she is not wanted.

I could add the "some," label in front when I talk but I feel like that would undermine the significant amount of black men who do fit the description of what I speak of.

Well there is a stigma to anybody dating out cuz my friend who dated out had negative reactions from some black women but knowing history can you blame them?

Plus other races have this stigma too lol

How about you call them c00ns? Way better than you calling them black and devaluing our race.

 

[1stPick]

I'm not going to be "okay," with how the black community treats dark skin black women in order to "take one for the group," and "fight the greater cause."That's how it's always been.There are some deluded Black men and Black women out there who think that dark skin women should accept this treatment and I'm not going to.& If wanting at the bare minimum respect as a dark skin women from my own community labels me as the "problem," "the rebel," I'll be that.& if wanting respect will somehow result in my demise (which I highly doubt) I'll be fine with that too.

Black men who dont have "Swag" are even treated worse

 

[marcuz]

please hurry up and breed yourself out @WHIPPEDCream

i cant wait for the next generation of black mothers with biracial daughters. oh, i wish i could taste their future tears

 

[christinasade]

@ this Victim Mentality y'all have.

Y'all are really in here acting like dark skinned women in the black community are treated like Jews in Nazi Germany. This shyt is beyond hilariously sad.

I know a black man is not talking about victim mentality

Lmao every other thread is "THE WHITE MAN SOOO MEAN, LOOK HOW HE TREATING US BLACK MEN!"

LMAO, BLACK MEN BE LIKE

"THE WHITE MAN HATES DARKSKIN!"

"fukk THOSE BLACK HOES!"

SOUNDS WHITE MEN AIN'T THE ONLY ONE WITH PROBLEM.

 

[godkiller]

I never said we don't need you.

I'm saying y'all don't do shyt, work wise.

And we do need more men in place, but guess none of those are stepping up soooo....

So better you help us then and stop doing the opposite

Yall have no fukking choice, which is where teh hilarity comes in. You want to be servants in cac society or queens in black societies?

I'm not going to be "okay," with how the black community treats dark skin black women in order to "take one for the group," and "fight the greater cause."That's how it's always been.There are some deluded Black men and Black women out there who think that dark skin women should accept this treatment and I'm not going to.& If wanting at the bare minimum respect as a dark skin women from my own community labels me as the "problem," "the rebel," I'll be that.& if wanting respect will somehow result in my demise (which I highly doubt) I'll be fine with that too.

Your personal struggles with being dark skin don't take precedence over black peoplehood. I am dark skin too and I heard little jokes here and there. I also made those jokes about other brehs. In the end, I'm not 6'5; I'm not especially handsome; not especially tall; I have a gap in my teeth; etc. There's any number of struggles I have to overcome. But it is what is. There's no point complaining or throwing black people under the bus because things aren't perfect. Strong people, men and women, know that. And thankfully most black women are very strong, no matter where they are.

C00ns like yourself who come up with a million reasons to c00n--first, it's b/c of dark skin this; then it's b/c of woman that; insert whatever dumb reasoning--are weak. Black people swallowing their pride and getting on with it is how we came here today. And like you say, that's how it's always been, and should always be. When the day comes that we can worry about smaller things,we will -- but today is not that day. Until then let's work together and try to fix what we can while remaining true to the "cause".

 

[Arishok]

Just as I thought. A lot of the black males who have the same mentality picked it up from their mothers, aunts, sisters, etc. But only black men get blamed for it.

I wasn't blaming black men for anything, just that you guys have a tendency to blame black women for everything wrong in the black community and leave black men's hands clean.

 

[christinasade]

Then stop bytching about black men's alleged preferences.

No.

And you ain't gonna do shyt about it.

 

[Software]

Dark skin women looking for an excuse to be with a white man made this lie

/thread

 

[Arishok]

This. The white supremacy guilt trip attempt is bullshyt anyway. It's an assumption. It's stupid to assume every male who prefers lighter skinned women over darker skinned women does so because of white supremacy. I've seen posters on this forum express a preference for darker skin tone over lighter skin tone, but no one has a problem with it. One way is fine, but the other ways not I suppose.

Breh you're agreeing with a poster who said dark skin is masculine and light skin is feminine. I, personally, have no problem with people having preference either way (I have a preference for darker skin men) it's when people become exclusive and start to degrade the other side or simply write one side off because they don't match said preference. Like looking at a dark skin woman and believing she's unattractive simply because she has dark skin.

 

[christinasade]

Spartans used to throw the smallest kids off of cliffs

Let me guess, you're a 5'0 women who wants 6'6 guys but are hating on black men for preferring lightskinned black women? If White Supremacy was the cause, wouldnt said black man just go date a white women as opposed to a lightskinned black woman?

Either way, just gotta deal with it just like the 5'6 guy who still towers over you has to deal with you not wanting him

Now were talking about ancient history lol

Anyways, lighskin has been promoted by white supremacy, so no, you're wrong.

 

[Still Benefited]

I guess everyone's experience is different, I can recall black girls being teased for being dark skin and I have a friend who was told to stay out of the sun and other members of her family being teased for being dark skin

I think people confuse teasing with jokes sometimes though....Because lets be honest you see ALOT and I mean ALOT of lightskin/yellow jokes out there.

The only real difference is the insecurity that a lot of darskin people have....insecuritys that may be caused by society or just they own perceptions.

I don't like the idea that's put out there about black people maliciously clowning dark skin people on some bully shyt though...That aint the case in most cases and doing so puts dark skinned people in a victim role which only adds to the myth which adds to the insecurities,and makes them take the jokes in ways not intended

 

[Northern Son]

Low key, some of you dudes in this thread just wanted a chance to shyt on dark skinned black women.

 

[christinasade]

It's like they don't even want black women to entertain the idea of possibly being with someone who is not black.

& The thing is the guy that I talk now used to date white girls.& I'm pretty sure he would still date "other," which I don't have a problem with.But when it came to me being willing to date other it changed the whole energy of the conversation.

And these the same dudes who claim they don't care who we date lol.

 

[The_Truth]

I know a black man is not talking about victim mentality

Lmao every other thread is "THE WHITE MAN SOOO MEAN, LOOK HOW HE TREATING US BLACK MEN!"

LMAO, BLACK MEN BE LIKE

"THE WHITE MAN HATES DARKSKIN!"

"fukk THOSE BLACK HOES!"

SOUNDS WHITE MEN AIN'T THE ONLY ONE WITH PROBLEM.

Except Black men complain about REAL shyt......like being killed without regard on a regular basis.

What do Black women complain about??? Fukking Beauty Standards?! Right after they finish bragging about how many degrees and job titles they have. Y'all always talking about how much better than black men y'all are, and then in the next breathe complain about how bad y'all got it.