If a woman meets a man in college, and the man actually graduates and has a solid work ethic, there is a huge chance he is not a bum and will be out-earning all of his non college counterparts.
Nowadays, you gotta be extra specific on what "resources" means. A lot of the time, its unnecessary materialistic BS they see on reality shows or a fairytale lifestyle they constantly seek on social media. Having a roof over their head in a decent neighborhood, transportation, and a huge savings account ain't enough.
People are lying and trying to herd others based on lies
Alot of educated experienced people are struggling financially, they went to college, even got certifications, and worked hard. There are things that are not in your control that people are held responsible for like prices going up, or interest rates, or gas that cut into your cost of living.
All those professionals in the bay area that are educated and over educated living in campers do not have the "resources" that are being asked for around the internet.
I do know for sure that standards are different if your race is different. this was admitted to me just last week
Furthermore, follow up on MOST of these IR relationships the blk woman is the BREAD WINNER and the husbands skin color is her trophy/his currency.