"White Supremacy Has Beaten Down & Emasculated Black Men So it's Time To Find True Pure Love With Other Races Of Men"

[Phitz]

If you chose better you’d be one of the men who lost his job and his wife kept the household finances going without an issue- which happened THREE TIMES in MY family because those college educated men who happened to be laid off or sick had married college educated women who made 6 figures and kept their households running smoothly while their husbands either retired or took their time getting back on their feet.


See, you’re missing the damn point. When YOU as a man put your best in your woman and your marriage, if you made the right choice you would have a woman who stood by your side no matter what.

One of my homeboy’s dad is a cop who got injured on the job. Been in a wheelchair since we were in HS. Did his mom leave? Naw. Folks been married for decades.
THAT is what happens when you choose correctly.


The same way you tell us to choose better?
Y’all need to choose better, too.

...how old are these people? Are they Boomers, Gen X, Millenials, Gen Z?

Just curious

 

[Gloxina]

Never have you mentioned 'character' in your previous post. You double down on resources, resources, resources, and not a single thing about young women searching for a man that has solid content of character. Too many women mistake that, and chase down rich men that dog them out and cheat on them on a regular basis.

The same way y’all don’t mention character when complaining about younger women choosing “pookie”

Y’all ain’t mainly concerned about character or intelligence, you’re concerned about who a woman is choosing when she’s young and fine. Let’s be real.

 

[Wild self]

Yall are arguing with her because she had the temerity to mention resources. She's absolutely right and, unless you've raised a young woman into a wife or are surrounded by happy, long married couples who tell you all they business, you have no room to tell her otherwise.

Where's the lie? Part of what passport bros claim to be looking for is the respect they should get for economic success. Why is it okay for Mai Ling to seek a provider and not us? We have bm providers LOOKING for a bw to give them that respect. Ofc, that's not everything, just like beauty isn't everything for a man, but it certainly helps get the ball rolling.

Yall arguing just to be arguing, and I'm being charitable.

The last thing a successful man wants, is a woman that is materialistic, self-centered, and greedy. When you talk about petty things about " a man gotta do xyz in order to get with me", and the man replies "what can SHE offer me in return?" don't get mad when the man straight up ditches that woman for a more subtle, humane, humble woman who respects his company. Not just black women, but any race of woman that is greedy.

 

[JasoRockStar]

If you chose better you’d be one of the men who lost his job and his wife kept the household finances going without an issue- which happened THREE TIMES in MY family because those college educated men who happened to be laid off or sick had married college educated women who made 6 figures and kept their households running smoothly while their husbands either retired or took their time getting back on their feet.


See, you’re missing the damn point. When YOU as a man put your best in your woman and your marriage, if you made the right choice you would have a woman who stood by your side no matter what.

One of my homeboy’s dad is a cop who got injured on the job. Been in a wheelchair since we were in HS. Did his mom leave? Naw. Folks been married for decades.
THAT is what happens when you choose correctly.


The same way you tell us to choose better?
Y’all need to choose better, too.

Yall are arguing with her because she had the temerity to mention resources. She's absolutely right and, unless you've raised a young woman into a wife or are surrounded by happy, long married couples who tell you all they business, you have no room to tell her otherwise.

Where's the lie? Part of what passport bros claim to be looking for is the respect they should get for economic success. Why is it okay for Mai Ling to seek a provider and not us? We have bm providers LOOKING for a bw to give them that respect. Ofc, that's not everything, just like beauty isn't everything for a man, but it certainly helps get the ball rolling.

Yall arguing just to be arguing, and I'm being charitable.

NGL, as someone who wants to be a girldad one day, I wouldn't want mine to be with a dude who isn't about his business.


My daddy wasn't a bum, I ain't a bum, and I don't want any my daughters to deal with a bum.

 

[Wild self]

The same way y’all don’t mention character when complaining about younger women choosing “pookie”

Y’all ain’t mainly concerned about character or intelligence, you’re concerned about who a woman is choosing when she’s young and fine. Let’s be real.

Sensible men do care. Last thing we want is an airhead of a woman that is superficial and rotten to the core, even if she is a dimepiece.

 

[Phitz]

Yall are arguing with her because she had the temerity to mention resources. She's absolutely right and, unless you've raised a young woman into a wife or are surrounded by happy, long married couples who tell you all they business, you have no room to tell her otherwise.

Where's the lie? Part of what passport bros claim to be looking for is the respect they should get for economic success. Why is it okay for Mai Ling to seek a provider and not us? We have bm providers LOOKING for a bw to give them that respect. Ofc, that's not everything, just like beauty isn't everything for a man, but it certainly helps get the ball rolling.

Yall arguing just to be arguing, and I'm being charitable.

The men who shuttle me to the airport are married, the cab drivers are usually married, many of them older. The old guy who helped me at the big box store is married. So is the old guy that helped my mechanic. Honest, hard working men.

What would make their wives say yes to their "meager resources"? I wonder

Because today "resources" means anything over 6 figures, online anyway.

 

[Hitchens]

I never said that other communities don’t discriminate against dark people. Every community pretty much has a color caste system. What I’m saying is that it opens dating options from a few black men to a few of all races of men. It gives a wider pool of people to be compatible with.

I said your statement assumes/implies that non blackmen are less discriminating than black men when it comes to dating black women. Here is your statement

"The fact of the matter is a lot of young Black men will not date young Black women. Especially if they’re dark. If they want a relationship and marriage they may have to move to a different community"

This statement heavily implies that non black men are less discriminating towards black women than black men.

You can acknowledge colorism in the non black community and still believe that non black men are less discriminating towards black women than black man when it comes to dating.

 

[HarlemHottie]

The last thing a successful man wants, is a woman that is materialistic, self-centered, and greedy.

Is that who you're choosing?

 

[Phitz]

NGL, as someone who wants to be a girldad one day, I wouldn't want mine to be with a dude who isn't about his business.


My daddy wasn't a bum, I ain't a bum, and I don't want any my daughters to deal with a bum.

what does "about his business" mean?

can you all be specific, like numbers, descriptions, occupations

Contrary to popular belief, MOST people are NOT bums.

what is the career of a bum?

 

[Gloxina]

Yall are arguing with her because she had the temerity to mention resources. She's absolutely right and, unless you've raised a young woman into a wife or are surrounded by happy, long married couples who tell you all they business, you have no room to tell her otherwise.

Where's the lie? Part of what passport bros claim to be looking for is the respect they should get for economic success. Why is it okay for Mai Ling to seek a provider and not us? We have bm providers LOOKING for a bw to give them that respect. Ofc, that's not everything, just like beauty isn't everything for a man, but it certainly helps get the ball rolling.

Yall arguing just to be arguing, and I'm being charitable.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Why even acknowledge this YTer nonsense?

 

[Wild self]

The men who shuttle me to the airport are married, the cab drivers are usually married, many of them older. The old guy who helped me at the big box store is married. So is the old guy that helped my mechanic. Honest, hard working men.

What would make their wives say yes to their "meager resources"? I wonder

Because today "resources" means anything over 6 figures, online anyway.

If a woman meets a man in college, and the man actually graduates and has a solid work ethic, there is a huge chance he is not a bum and will be out-earning all of his non college counterparts.

Nowadays, you gotta be extra specific on what "resources" means. A lot of the time, its unnecessary materialistic BS they see on reality shows or a fairytale lifestyle they constantly seek on social media. Having a roof over their head in a decent neighborhood, transportation, and a huge savings account ain't enough.

 

[BigMan]

these convos should be limited to people in serious relationships and marriages because some of these comments lol

 

[JasoRockStar]

The last thing a successful man wants, is a woman that is materialistic, self-centered, and greedy. When you talk about petty things about " a man gotta do xyz in order to get with me", and the man replies "what can SHE offer me in return?" don't get mad when the man straight up ditches that woman for a more subtle, humane, humble woman who respects his company. Not just black women, but any race of woman that is greedy.

Like she said, it isn't everything, but it's definitely a plus when a man has good finances. That's not to say that there aren't quality dudes who are husband material that work standard jobs, just like there's a lot of average-looking women who make terrific wives.

 

[Wild self]

Is that who you're choosing?

No

I won't be seeking no golddigging woman in my circle, and I carefully observe on what media content she consumes willingly and what he naturally gravitates towards. Hell, those self centered and selfish high-earning economic men don't want to be CLOSE to a disloyal woman that will leave them at a drop of a hat. Any parent with a son in college will tell him not to entertain some woman that doesn't show unparalleled loyalty to him.