Even though I want to argue this because the logics of it sound retarded, but this is actually legit facts and it's a global phenomena...i call basic wm amongst my friends who're on dating apps (including basic wm friends) 'the algorithm' because they cut through it like a laser beam. It's because they're inoffensive and effectively societies 'default'. They're not too handsome to make girls feel intimidated by their beauty, they're not too ugly to show off to their friends and they look like they'd have 'regular' interests so they don't feel like if they got in a convo with them they'd be out of their depth or feel boring or stupid. They literally look like blank slates to project whatever they want onto them. And if the brudda has any type of bants and/or charisma then he's gonna go clear on dating apps.
I used to work with one brudda who was the definition of average looking cheeky english lad and my daaaaaays i used to be so entertained going through his dating apps everytime we worked. To give insight into how popping his sh't was i remember going 'ayo _____ lemme see your tinder inbox 1 sec......oh only 58 new matches today?...slow one innit?
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inside lol)' he used to take a different girl out every weekday and smash the same night. He'd send us football emojis in our groupchat everytime he 'scored'....he had enough hattricks to make messi jealous lmao and these women were all
I wasn't even mad because i understand how this world works. Especially sex. It was built for people like him to thrive
He isn't the only white brudda i'm friends with that's seeing that type of success neither.
BUT
There are curveballs.
My malaysian bwoy is like the golden child on dating apps. He looks like a Malaysian young johnny depp, grew up in a east london hood and only likes black and mixed race (with black) women. When he was on dating apps I used to call him the charizard shiny and black women treated him as such. He used to get 100's of likes from DIMES.
He's a hood sort of thuggy weed head malaysian don that dresses like he's a carpenter from paris, he studied nuclear physics at uni, is trying to make it as an artist and can build anything he thinks of with his hands...so he doesn't make any sense as a make up of a person at the best of times lmao but that's my guy though
Anyway, the biggest curveball i can give with dating apps is the guy with the most profile likes in tinder history is a Black man...so there you go