depends on the vibe. Cuz you may be around a bunch of white folk and think son is down...yet give you a when you
That shyt's embarassing.
Lots of these dudes are just "waking up"We do this without thinking about it where I'm from
u aint neva lied!! ive been driving trucks for the past year and its made me realize how much more comfortable i am when im around my own people. I go to some of these places where you just know there's little to no blacks and i get really uncomfortable. I look in car after car after passing car trying to see a black person. Ive had convos with other black drivers and they feel the same. Its like a huge relief when i finally do see another black person.travel to some 95% cac towns, seeing another black man is like , I remember when I was in ukraine and I saw a african brotha on the street I was like
Imagine living that life from the time you were a child to young adulthood. Thats where I am right now in my life (and what inspired me to make this thread). All my life I've been around nothing buy cacs. Sarcastic, subtly racist, ignorant, boring cacs. I would have KILLED to grow up in a black suburb, gone to a black private school...AND BEEN AROUND BLACKS. And honestly its one of the reasons (one of the many reasons) why I harbor so much resentment to my parents. Its like, didn't they care, or think about the psychological effects, growing up in predominately white area, would have on me?u aint neva lied!! ive been driving trucks for the past year and its made me realize how much more comfortable i am when im around my own people. I go to some of these places where you just know there's little to no blacks and i get really uncomfortable. I look in car after car after passing car trying to see a black person. Ive had convos with other black drivers and they feel the same. Its like a huge relief when i finally do see another black person.
up. moms taught me never to 'lower' my head to no one. its why even in japan I struggle to bow back, its programmed since childhood.do you guys nod up or down? i noticed i'm more inclined to nod up at a white person, and down at a black person.
Imagine living that life from the time you were a child to young adulthood. Thats where I am right now in my life (and what inspired me to make this thread). All my life I've been around nothing buy cacs. Sarcastic, subtly racist, ignorant, boring cacs. I would have KILLED to grow up in a black suburb, gone to a black private school...AND BEEN AROUND BLACKS. And honestly its one of the reasons (one of the many reasons) why I harbor so much resentment to my parents. Its like, didn't they care, or think about the psychological effects, growing up in predominately white area, would have on me?
I wonder if white people realize when we do this
Like, the way we dap each other up is common knowledge by now, but the obligatory head nod still feels like a secret among brothers.
You can tell off top if someone isn't the type to reciprocate or acknowledge. You've got lost blacks from the suburbs in a lot of colleges who will try and treat you like a bytch around white people who may not even be their friends.. they also tend to link with black kids who are similar to them.
do you guys nod up or down? i noticed i'm more inclined to nod up at a white person, and down at a black person.
Do you feel obligated to acknowledge them? Like if you see another black dude walking past do you nod your head out of respect to the struggle? I always feel obligated for some reason. It can get pretty awkward.