When your Parents Pass Away and You don't have the LOVE of your own Family... It's going to be UNBEARABLE.

[Stuntone]

The sheer audacity of You posting this!


You an absolute loser that makes beaucoup threads daily crying about women!

You posted ya pics on here and like 10 years ago u was a old ass bloated fat balding nikka!

You just like a hoodrat b:tch. Just want some attention whether troll and arguing. Lost shyt. Just leave bruh.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

You just like a hoodrat b:tch. Just want some attention whether troll and arguing. Lost shyt. Just leave bruh.

Man shut ya bloated ass the fukk up you p*ssy ass crybaby

 

[Stuntone]

Man shut ya bloated ass the fukk up you p*ssy ass crybaby

Go back to war Fa g g it and risk your life for them CACs again you f@g flag toting, saluting, Proud Uncle Tom azz Fa g glt!!! those white boys spit in your face in the Army and you loved it.


Yeaaaa fa g g lt, lets get to it!!

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Go back to war Fa g g it and risk your life for them CACs again you f@g flag toting, saluting, Proud Uncle Tom azz Fa g glt!!! those white boys spit in your face in the Army and you loved it.


Yeaaaa fa g g lt, lets get to it!!

Got yo ass so mad u can't type right!

Or maybe the gout in ya fingers the issue!

 

[Stuntone]

Got yo ass so mad u can't type right!

Or maybe the gout in ya fingers the issue!

Put that White boy Flag in your azz C00N.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Put that White boy Flag in your azz C00N.

You would say some gay shyt, you bloated ass sambo fakkit, effeminate p*ssy!

 

[Gloxina]

Idgaf, shouldn't have left us out here abandoned

Whole generation of people raised by poor single mothers, left out of the economic pie because they're just a walking nut

 

[Gloxina]

Exactly. Black Family aren't even close like that anymore.

My girlfriend had to take care of her grandma's twin in high school. Can't imagine these young girls doing that now.

If they come from that type of family they will.

If a young woman doesn’t come from a nurturing family and she was just thrown out to the world, she shouldn’t feel obligated.

That being said, your girlfriend probably came from a nice family, so she was there to help her elders when they needed her. That’s the natural flow of things.

 

[OfTheCross]

So many single people priding themselves on being independent and not wanting to have kids. Believing their Careers and Money is all they need. Most of us are unable to foresee how sad it is to grow old alone. Friends and sibling are wonderful. But will Friends and Siblings live their families to come feed you, wipe your azz, bath and dress you when you very ill? And did this for weeks and months until you're good. We will all face sickness and that type of burden is for spouse to handle.

And many of us living away from family and friends. So we're really fukked when things go bad. Back home I remember seeing people moving older Aunt and Uncles into their homes when they get older, most of us won't have that option. We're in cities where we aren't really close to anyone. Not that close.

To the main topic. My mom and her mom were best friends. Hung together everyday until my grandma passed away 12 years ago. No one loves you like your parents. NO ONE. My mom was devasted. But the love she has for her husband, 5 boys and one 1 daughter and the love we have for her, kept her going. She would not have made it without the family she has built. Sadly, when you loss good parents, a big part of you dies too. And if your parents is all you got it's going to be hard on you.

Just seeing how my parents eyes light up when we come over for holidays and any day really makes me want a big family.

I know dating is hard and marriage is scary, but we going to need someone very special in these later years.

As long as the mind is sharp I'll take care of whoever without any ill feelings

 

[Gloxina]

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/when-your-parents-pass-away-and-you-dont-have-the-love-of-your-own-family-its-going-to-be-unbearable.962737/

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/one-day-the-best-days-of-your-life-will-be-in-your-past-might-already-be.962735/

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/a-lot-of-men-cant-get-the-women-they-want-because-theyre-not-fronting-and-stunting-enough-fake-is-real-in-2023.962406/

Breh you been making some real depressing threads recently.

Everything good?

I was going to say something but I didn’t want to get snapped at.

He makes a lot of negative threads about dating, but this one was surprisingly less negatively charged, but more depressing.



It seems like these posts are therapeutic and revelatory, and maybe a way of talking things out with himself. I do hope all is well.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

op bringing the forum down wit all this reality shyt
nobody should be thinking about this everyday and posting it man

u sound one foot in the grave how u talking
tighten up nikka.life is fun

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Do you know your father?

breh!!!

 

[Braman]

My grandma probably wouldn’t be alive rn if I wasn’t around to keep up with her. Saw my other grandma keep up with her mom till she passed. Def keep your family relationships as happy and strong as possible.

The way this society is breaking up people and their families, the transition in the next 50 years will be intense.

Facts. Society, even backed by something as strong and trusted as therapy, is basically giving people confidence to look out for self first and foremost.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

You just like a hoodrat b:tch. Just want some attention whether troll and arguing. Lost shyt. Just leave bruh.

Ayyyo
u killin me op

 

[Braman]

I swear I’m not trying to be divisive when I say this but coming from an African home and seeing how heavy “ADOS” are on that ‘break generational curses” vibe it’s startling

Like of course I get it but…gotdamn EVERYBODY gotta start from scratch and disavow your folks?!

And while that’s happening, the culture is aiding and abetting, giving a false sense of security and unity among ‘everybody black’, as if that can replace family. Even if only on a subconscious level: Shaderoom referring to each other as ‘rooomates’, ‘the cookout’, referring to strangers as ‘family’ just bc they black, celebs completely b*stardizing ‘my brother’ , black women calling each other ‘sis’

Like that’s cool and all but that is NOT the same as real family… but for a younger generation and some older, I really think that subconsciously gives a false sense of security. And of course that security will not be there in real life long term