When your Parents Pass Away and You don't have the LOVE of your own Family... It's going to be UNBEARABLE.

[semicko82]

I was on that GMB wave as recently as 2018. Fast forward to 2023 and I’m engaged with a 5 month old son.

fukk that “independent” forever single shyt, I love bringing my little man to see his grandparents, uncle, and aunt.

What made you change your ways

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Op needs serious therapy!

if u just compile his threads shyt pathetic!

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

Interesting this topic came up. My sister and I were chopping it up about this just a few minutes ago. We’re good. Our family is good. We have things mapped out along with contingencies.

There’s a reason these goofies are being encouraged to be carefree and irresponsible into their 40s. The only thing that makes humans apex predators is the ability to group up and share knowledge, resources and protection. Without family, we are prey… food.

Do with that what you will youngsters.

 

[Jamal514]

What made you change your ways

I felt like my life was stagnating. I saw friends, my brother, my sister, and cousins starting families and felt left out. Feels great to be part of the club.

 

[mtg]

I remember a couple years ago after my gma passed( she was the family member I was closest too) thinking that life essentially is, your born into a family that you have no say in and as you get older your family becomes people you choose to be around. Now the family you were born into with family members like parents grandparents will give you unconditional love which is something the family you choose will not have. I did a lot of dumb things and made tons of mistakes when I was younger but the thought of my mom or grandma upset about something I did and stop loving me would just not be a possibility. So be careful who you choose to be in your family and at the same time don't expect to find someone that loves you like a parent we're lucky most of us had at least one person in your life to love you that way.

 

[Robbie3000]

Boomers or older are the generations in nursing homes no? Overwhelming majority have families and are still in nursing homes

The best thing you can do for you and your family is to be prudent with your money. Make sure you can take care of yourself and not burden your fam.

 

[InkosiYe]

Y’all know AI is gonna be fully autonomous in like 10 years right?

Unless you’re already this isn’t your issue

By the time millennials and prob even Gen-x are reaching retirement age you’re gonna have ai nurses and doctors making sure you’re good at all times.

Either that or they’ll use you as a battery for sustenance. One or the other

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

All those overseas trips won’t heal that pain

 

[Stuntone]

Op needs serious therapy!

if u just compile his threads shyt pathetic!

You too retarded to fully grasp and understand this topic today, but you will one day.

Do you know your father?

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

You too retarded to fully grasp and understand this topic today, but you will one day.

Do you know your father?

My parents are still married. My parents have no kids besides the 1s they had together


You can't relate!


You stay telling on yaself about being lonely and mad!

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

Y’all know AI is gonna be fully autonomous in like 10 years right?

Unless you’re already this isn’t your issue

By the time millennials and prob even Gen-x are reaching retirement age you’re gonna have ai nurses and doctors making sure you’re good at all times.

Either that or they’ll use you as a battery for sustenance. One or the other

nikka, AI in self driving cars can’t even distinguish folks with melanin from inanimate objects. How are they gonna be doctors and nurses in 10 years?

 

[Elim Garak]

Boomers or older are the generations in nursing homes no? Overwhelming majority have families and are still in nursing homes

The best thing you can do for you and your family is to be prudent with your money. Make sure you can take care of yourself and not burden your fam.

This exactly honestly nothing in life is a guarantee. Plan the best you can but don't worry about every little possibility is honestly my advice.

 

[Stuntone]

My parents are still married. My parents have no kids besides the 1s they had together


You can't relate!


You stay telling on yaself about being lonely and mad!

Whatever your cases, you have to be top of the like loser to come in and troll in a topic like this. You must be miserable.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

So many single people priding themselves on being independent and not wanting to have kids. Believing their Careers and Money is all they need. Most of us are unable to foresee how sad it is to grow old alone. Friends and sibling are wonderful. But will Friends and Siblings live their families to come feed you, wipe your azz, bath and dress you when you very ill? And did this for weeks and months until you're good. We will all face sickness and that type of burden is for spouse to handle.

And many of us living away from family and friends. So we're really fukked when things go bad. Back home I remember seeing people moving older Aunt and Uncles into their homes when they get older, most of us won't have that option. We're in cities where we aren't really close to anyone. Not that close.

To the main topic. My mom and her mom were best friends. Hung together everyday until my grandma passed away 12 years ago. No one loves you like your parents. NO ONE. My mom was devasted. But the love she has for her husband, 5 boys and one 1 daughter and the love we have for her, kept her going. She would not have made it without the family she has built. Sadly, when you loss good parents, a big part of you dies too. And if your parents is all you got it's going to be hard on you.

Just seeing how my parents eyes light up when we come over for holidays and any day really makes me want a big family.

I know dating is hard and marriage is scary, but we going to need someone very special in these later years.

So basically your need for marriage is based on later needs and the idea that if you cuff someone now they will be obligated (sorry, love to) wipe your ass when you are incontinent.

Sounds like some self serving bullshyt.

Now if you do actually have a relationship and the person ends up being there for you in the twilight of your life then that is beautiful.

I don't look to people as resources and call it love. I think a lot of humans are fully incapable of being selfless. Alone is not scary for everyone. Tainted love is worse. If I can't wipe my ass and feed myself I don't need to be here anymore. Shoot me up with the best drugs and put me on a boat in open seas.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Whatever your cases, you have to be top of the like loser to come in and troll in a topic like this. You must be miserable.

The sheer audacity of You posting this!


You an absolute loser that makes beaucoup threads daily crying about women!

You posted ya pics on here and like 10 years ago u was a old ass bloated fat balding nikka!