What's your racial preference?
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KinksandCoils
African American Queen
I'm going off of what I see and that video. I'm pretty firm on this.It's no way to substantiate that claim.
You're going off of some janky data set from OkCupid/POF and this wack video. Hard statistics show that black men marry black women 88% of the time. Black Men earning $100,000 or more a year marry black women 83% of the time.
What I will agree with you on is black men like to have sex with non-black women. But when it comes to actually marrying someone, 8 times out of 10, its a black woman. Its the Latinos and Asians who sell out their community.
White women aren't the most desired. They are the second least (after black women). It's actually Middle Eastern women.
Blah.. my personal preference has always been black women. Especially dark skin black women.
But for the most part that love hasnt always been reciprocal. I find that latino women tend to show me more love than most black women. I have 3 latinas in my life that would do anything i ask them at the drop of a hat if they could have me. While i fukks with them, I mostly seriously date and can only see myself marrying a black caribbean like myself.
The one back American chick i was in love with only used me( and still uses me) for sex and when she needs attention. I would cut her off completely but she's my kryptonite(sp) and she knows it. I just cant say no to the chick 
I prefer dark skinned chicks because I love that chocolatey skin tone
, but all that's attracted to me is light skinned and white chicks
, but all that's attracted to me is light skinned and white chicks
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Cool. But I'm not trying to say every black man is on this kick. That wouldn't be fair to say. I'm saying that more black men than any other race venture outside of their race. Yea white men love Asians but that's it. I'm not trying to argue cause no matter what is said my opinion won't change. I've seen since I was a young teen how black men put other races of women on a pedestal. and please know I'm not saying all black men.Blah.. mypersonal preference has always been black women. Especially dark skin black women. But for the most part that love hasnt always been reciprocal. I find that latino women tend to show me more love than most black women. I have 3 latinas in my life that would do anything i ask them at the drop of a hat. While i fukks with them, I mostly date and can only see myself marrying a black caribbean like myself.
yeah I don't even know if you can really generalize like that
White men fukk with other women just as much as us, and it's not just Asian women (there are tons of white men with Hispanic wives, and a growing percentage of white men with black wives). But at the end of the day, 90% of us marry our own race.
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KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Ok but I've never seen white men all that into Hispanics. Maybe in places like California? Arizona? Idk honestly never seen it. And I'm not trying to disagree just to disagree.
Tommy Knocks
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Yea I dont know what she's on. If you look at actual numbers, not percentages, white people date more by MILES. Cacs like to use percentage to even things out, but thats wrong. Asians date outside their race the most because they're the smallest population around the majority of the population. It would be like me here in china and they do stats on who I date the most of...errrr I wonder. So the same applies to asians in america. They're mostly in white neighborhoods so thats what the women are dating.
White people that are secluded, which is predominately of their population. date themselves, but in diverse areas like california the numbers magically change.
Its so stupid to try to guess who dates what predominately. First and foremost its same race because thats who you're around the most, then after that, its environmental. If you're a black man and grew up in Beverly Hills, chances are, you'll be dating white, if you grew up in compton,chances are, black or hispanic.
I know this because I lived in South Central, North Hollywood and Korea Town, as you can guess.....my flavors changed based on where I lived.
Tommy Knocks
retired
That's fair
I updated my post by the way
But seriously when they say this i like to think of it as black men being more adventurous and willing to experiment outside of their racial makeup for mates. Not as a lack of loyalty to black women. While i know i would feel awkward being with someone of a nother race, the heart wants what it wants. And whatever you believe in (creation or evolution) there is no rule that states you must stick to your own kind in the bible nor in nature.
I know it doesnt seem that way but while most black men are willing to date other races, most end up with their own kind. This is true also when it comes to nationality. Jamaican women talk all the shyt they want about jamaican men but still go back to them in the end. Same for black Americans. Haitians, whoever. THis is why i laugh when i see all these black women hate threads all over the place. About 99.9% of these mofos are just fronting and WILL end up with their own kinds eventually. Ive seen it with my own eyes with friends
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
I believe so. However I'm getting tired of the subject. It's well known that black women are considered the least desirable of all women. That's because other races choose not to fukk with black women as well as a lot of black men choosing not to. It would take nothing to find a black man say he is not trying to mess with a sista. Heck I even know a couple of them who don't. I don't care about the numbers only cause I know from what I've seen.
so you're saying your anecdotes mean more than the fact that 90% of black men marry black women? You might think black men are more likely to venture out but that's mainly because black women strongly prefer black men and you won't see them date interracially as often.