What's The "POINT" Of Having A Kid If You AREN'T Married? (I DON'T Get It)

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People are saying there's a family structure without marriage. Why would a man, woman, and child live under the same roof and not get married? There's so many benefits they'd be leaving on the table. I think you guys idea of "family structure" is pops shows up a couple times a week, plays with the kids, breaks momma off some bread and goes on his merry way. Sorry that's better than nothing but it's not the same as living under one roof.
 

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What about a woman who isn't in a relationship and never want one but she's a lesbian and wants to have her own child raise by herself?

She gets pregnant by sperm donor.

OP @JudgeJoeGorilla

Everybody situation is different brehs.

Okay, what about a woman got raped by a stranger but she still want to raise her child?
 

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People are saying there's a family structure without marriage. Why would a man, woman, and child live under the same roof and not get married? There's so many benefits they'd be leaving on the table. I think you guys idea of "family structure" is pops shows up a couple times a week, plays with the kids, breaks momma off some bread and goes on his merry way. Sorry that's better than nothing but it's not the same as living under one roof.

Sad that people try to condition black men to think that's cool to do that. :mjcry:
 

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What about a woman who isn't in a relationship and never want one but she's a lesbian and wants to have her own child raise by herself?

She gets pregnant by sperm donor.

OP @JudgeJoeGorilla

Everybody situation is different brehs.

Okay, what about a woman got raped by a stranger but she still want to raise her child?
If she got raped and doesn't want the child she can abort in that case. Also, it's a same sex marriage so..........:manny: I'm talking about dudes and ladies who are smashing for fun and not strapping up.
 

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If she got raped and doesn't want the child she can abort in that case. Also, it's a same sex marriage so..........:manny: I'm talking about dudes and ladies who are smashing for fun and not strapping up.

Watch the movie called "Room" on Amazon Prime and its free. That movie just :wow:

You didn't answer my question about the lesbian part:mjpls:
 

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They are lesbians aka same sex relationship, so there's one who plans the feminine and masculine role.

Okay....what's the difference?

Married people have kids together but got divorced early

And having a child but won't get married?
 
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