Actual suggestions without actual specifics are fukking useless yet too many people in general, including the black community, love them. I don't know why. Such suggestions are at best empty platitudes and at worse, no different than the barking of a dog. Stop it. It's not helping and in fact, just exacerbating the issue. Please fukk off with that. I see a lot of that in my line of work when we do community outreach and that seriously hinders the process. If anything, we have an easier time with other communities since they have a more clear vision of things. This is annoying, even more so when I have to deal with people who think their half-hearted attempt at a thought is something we should be putting our money behind. I'm not a c00n for thinking you're an idiot. I think you're an idiot because you
are an idiot and did nothing to sway me from thinking this.
It seems like black men and black women are two separate races in America. I've never seen this shyt anywhere else except maybe (big maybe) Brazil. It's sad, really. I'm not sure when this happened and it seems like a more recent thing. No, it's not just on the internet, I see it in real life. I'd say the contentiousness I see and even experience is like that of different races trying to interact. That's weird and should not happen. It seems to be an American thing so I've chalked it up to cultural differences in my experiences and I'm not bothered by it but it's still weird.
Too many in the black community want black men to be white men (then tell them not to be). They want them to be the most violent and base oppressors. This is seen by the fact that despite all that, despite all the evidence of the worst shyt that the white man has done and continues to do, despite knowing people or having experienced the stings of the white man's bullshyt, they will still complain about black men and even more, lump them altogether, putting that shyt on random black men that had nothing to do with any issues they are commenting on or seem to have the most respect and reserve when dealing with white men.
Too many people who subscribe to the idea of "men lead women follow" especially as it pertains to the black community are the worst liars and hypocrites and don't actually believe that or seem to think that women are obscenely stupid creatures that are lacking in agency or validate the idea that women are idle children that will fall into degeneracy, stupidity, idiocy, and all manner of folly and foolishness without a guiding hand as if these women can't think for two seconds. That's fukking weird. But equality though. These will be the same people who will claim that this or that non-black woman (often a white woman) has agency and is an agent or source of racism or white supremacy. They make black women out to be the only group of women without agency. When called out, they will claim racism but act like such racism only ever applied to them and no one else. shyt is weird. They will sing the praises of black women's strength but then act like they are fragile damsels in distress. Which is it? Make up your mind. You can speak to helping or uplifting black women without robbing them of agency and making them out to be heartless, non-race loyal racial mercenaries and aspiring gold-diggers and wannabe bag-chasers. A majority are not, yet the idea exists among some due to the silly comments of a few. This brings me to another point.
- This one is the most contentious and people will accuse me of hate but I don't care: Many women, not all, are their own worst advocates. I see it in real life and I see it here. On one hand, I appreciate the honesty, I really do so maybe that shows you care but damn, many of y'all are not doing yourselves any favors with some of the shyt you all say about yourselves. We see dudes avoiding relationships and marriage and all that and some of that is due to the shyt women say. A lot of y'all make yourselves out to be mercenaries. I don't get why. I don't know when seeming like a mercenary was cool. I know dudes make themselves out to be dogs (muh six cert, six figures, six sidepieces and so on) but holy shyt, it's been known that men are dogs. Maybe men are to blame: They believed the best when they should have thought the worst and be pleasantly surprised.
However, I blame the so-called male "allies" of women for many issues that men complain about regarding women, not women though. I blame much of the "gender war" on these so-called allies before
anyone else as well. They are agents of absolute chaos and the community would be better if they didn't exist. They're so full of shyt and are some of the most disingenuous garbage the world has ever seen.
The whole "rap causes violence" thing makes black people look like a bunch of retards. It's a terrible leading point. Complaining about how it tarnishes the image of black men and women and misconstrues the community's struggles makes more sense but this falls by the wayside. I think many people who complain know this but ignore this because such would also extend to stunting on social media and whining in a non-constructive non-fact-based manner about other black people and they can't have that.
A lot of people will live and die within white supremacy because they have no hope of existing withing a true black community, no matter how good it is. They would be unhappy there and try to tear it down. The perfect society for them does not exist and these people cannot compromise or share. I firmly believe this.
I think it is on black men to fix the black community. Not because it is their duty to do it, but because no one else can be trusted to be fair towards black men that they are not connected to.
Finally, I think too many people in general don't understand that if they died today, the world would keep spinning. They are not that important in the large scheme of things. This is not Oblivion where it all ends if Martin Septim dies. You're not that special.
