If that was the case dudes would not be flashy. Women love flashy men.
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If that was the case dudes would not be flashy. Women love flashy men.
Dudes do a lot of shyt women hate that they think women love. Those are usually the dudes who either only fukk with wack chicks or don't get any play at all.
U still never answered me when I asked u the last time u got some ass was. U talk like a nikka who hasnt fukked in years. Just miserable and defeated.
I've dated almost every race of girls and my first girlfriend was half korean/half white, I'm a black guy but these are my experiences:
-I feel like a lot of black women are culturally "out of the loop" in terms of what they should look for in a guy.
-A lot of families grow up without a father so the women have daddy issues. Then when the father is home, he will often spoil her to death and give her a "princess complex" out of a sense of not being a "deadbeat" dad.
-Materialism is also rampant in the black community, especially with our women(A neauveau rich trait) which ironically is why so many have trouble building any sort of REAL wealth or power.
-Some black women refuse to ask what men see in other women but assume it's simply because of race.
-The whole single mother"I don't need no man!" black male bashing movement doesn't attract men. A large chunk of white guys HATE feminist with a passion and white makes are a lot less traditional than black men about gender roles. You do the math.
I think it's good for women to have an ideal salary because you don't want to marry a 35 year old broke, aspiring rapper. Okay, we all get it. Instead of looking for a salary, black women should be looking for "qualities" in men. Most women of other races do this but black women typically look for money and assume qualities instead of the other way around. Instead of looking for guys that make 80K+, they should be looking for guys that are honest, funny, genuine, a healthy self-esteem, ambitious, respectful, hard working, altruistic, responsible, etc because people with those traits typically go off to do things with their lives because they have a good head on their shoulders.
I have black male friends that were passed over because black women wrote them off as "cornballs" or "lames" who are now making 50K+ mid twenties at the very beginning of their careers with plenty of room to move up doing something they love. Some of them are still holding out for black women, some succeeded and others moved on and found happiness outside of their race.
Most women of other races know how to do this but quite a few black women don't want to build with a guy and date someone because of his character/personality. They date for status and money. It's weird because I know really hot white girls that date temporarily broke white guys coming up that had those qualities and rode it out with them because they knew the boyfriend had qualities that would lead to having a successful career and 99% of the time, the guy did. Because of this, the women had a college educated husband with a good career, kids and a nice starter home by the time they hit 30. No worrying about a biological clock, no worrying about settling down, no worrying about finances, etc. Usually the couple has a much greater grasp on personal finance so they aren't living paycheck to paycheck. SOME black women don't want to build or hear that because it's not as easy as simply marrying a rich guy.
When I date outside of my race, the woman usually tells me it's because they thought I was cute, funny, confident, I made them laugh, they always had fun around me and I'm such a sweet guy. They loved the fact that I was smart too. You know, traits that typically make good fathers and providers. I almost NEVER hear that when black women choose to date someone. I'm not turning this into a black woman bashing ceremony because there are a lot of good black women who are passed over or simply need a healthy boost of self esteem and weightloss but the amount of delusion some black women have is often intolerable. It's also why I see a lot of African immigrant americans who come here dating the motherly redheaded white woman who's a school teacher making 35K because she's a lot more wife material than the angry, materialistic, overweight, aggressive black girl pulling 80K with attitude problem like the whole world owes her something.
P.S. Most dudes don't care about how many degrees you have regardless of race. Quite a few black women love throwing degrees in people's faces but they will be BullShyt majors like childhood development, communication, etc. Nobody cares about your degree, it's about what you do with it that counts. Instead of getting 3 degrees, get 1 degree at an affordable price for you factoring scholarships, grants, loans, etc, go to grad school for your masters and do something amazing with your career. That is MUCH MORE impressive than a chick with 3 bachelor degrees at 40, up to her eyeball in school loans and absolutely no sense of direction or purpose in her life.
-I feel like a lot of black women are culturally "out of the loop" in terms of what they should look for in a guy.
-A lot of families grow up without a father so the women have daddy issues. Then when the father is home, he will often spoil her to death and give her a "princess complex" out of a sense of not being a "deadbeat" dad.
-Materialism is also rampant in the black community, especially with our women(A neauveau rich trait) which ironically is why so many have trouble building any sort of REAL wealth or power.
-Some black women refuse to ask what men see in other women but assume it's simply because of race.
-The whole single mother"I don't need no man!" black male bashing movement doesn't attract men. A large chunk of white guys HATE feminist with a passion and white makes are a lot less traditional than black men about gender roles. You do the math.
I think it's good for women to have an ideal salary because you don't want to marry a 35 year old broke, aspiring rapper. Okay, we all get it. Instead of looking for a salary, black women should be looking for "qualities" in men. Most women of other races do this but black women typically look for money and assume qualities instead of the other way around. Instead of looking for guys that make 80K+, they should be looking for guys that are honest, funny, genuine, a healthy self-esteem, ambitious, respectful, hard working, altruistic, responsible, etc because people with those traits typically go off to do things with their lives because they have a good head on their shoulders.
I have black male friends that were passed over because black women wrote them off as "cornballs" or "lames" who are now making 50K+ mid twenties at the very beginning of their careers with plenty of room to move up doing something they love. Some of them are still holding out for black women, some succeeded and others moved on and found happiness outside of their race.
Most women of other races know how to do this but quite a few black women don't want to build with a guy and date someone because of his character/personality. They date for status and money. It's weird because I know really hot white girls that date temporarily broke white guys coming up that had those qualities and rode it out with them because they knew the boyfriend had qualities that would lead to having a successful career and 99% of the time, the guy did. Because of this, the women had a college educated husband with a good career, kids and a nice starter home by the time they hit 30. No worrying about a biological clock, no worrying about settling down, no worrying about finances, etc. Usually the couple has a much greater grasp on personal finance so they aren't living paycheck to paycheck. SOME black women don't want to build or hear that because it's not as easy as simply marrying a rich guy.
When I date outside of my race, the woman usually tells me it's because they thought I was cute, funny, confident, I made them laugh, they always had fun around me and I'm such a sweet guy. They loved the fact that I was smart too. You know, traits that typically make good fathers and providers. I almost NEVER hear that when black women choose to date someone. I'm not turning this into a black woman bashing ceremony because there are a lot of good black women who are passed over or simply need a healthy boost of self esteem and weightloss but the amount of delusion some black women have is often intolerable. It's also why I see a lot of African immigrant americans who come here dating the motherly redheaded white woman who's a school teacher making 35K because she's a lot more wife material than the angry, materialistic, overweight, aggressive black girl pulling 80K with attitude problem like the whole world owes her something.
P.S. Most dudes don't care about how many degrees you have regardless of race. Quite a few black women love throwing degrees in people's faces but they will be BullShyt majors like childhood development, communication, etc. Nobody cares about your degree, it's about what you do with it that counts. Instead of getting 3 degrees, get 1 degree at an affordable price for you factoring scholarships, grants, loans, etc, go to grad school for your masters and do something amazing with your career. That is MUCH MORE impressive than a chick with 3 bachelor degrees at 40, up to her eyeball in school loans and absolutely no sense of direction or purpose in her life.
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KenyaDoll
Demonic eyebrows & animal print
Like I said earlier, not every bad thing a woman does can be matched by a similar thing by men. "bu bu bu men" wont cut it ALL the time.
bu bu...you haven't addressed the fact that you tried to build a "all woman" argument off about 10/11 out of hundreds of post in that thread. Multiple men even acknowledged on the first page that most of those women were citing very reasonable figures.
jilla82
Superstar
those dudes are focused on bum bytches.
Those trinkets youre talking about may hint that someone has money...but thats a common trap people (regardless of their sex) fall for.
Broke Wave
The GOAT
What most men said in this thread has no bearing on the validity of my statements. The "all women" argument I am making is that women in our society have shortcomings that are very specific to them, one of which is, in my opinion, unrealistic and narcissistic expectations with regards to income in their potential mates, to the point where, as other posters have pointed out (see how useless that is?) , is akin to a job interview process.
Damn dude, that was kinda harshWomen don't love men, they love what a man can offer them.
These chicks would leave their man if he told them hunnny I'm quitting my 100,000 a year job to make 30k a year doing my first love which is being a artist.
All they love is status and monetary items,
KenyaDoll
Demonic eyebrows & animal print
I've dated almost every race of girls and my first girlfriend was half korean/half white, I'm a black guy but these are my experiences:
-I feel like a lot of black women are culturally "out of the loop" in terms of what they should look for in a guy.
-A lot of families grow up without a father so the women have daddy issues. Then when the father is home, he will often spoil her to death and give her a "princess complex" out of a sense of not being a "deadbeat" dad.
-Materialism is also rampant in the black community, especially with our women(A neauveau rich trait) which ironically is why so many have trouble building any sort of REAL wealth or power.
-Some black women refuse to ask what men see in other women but assume it's simply because of race.
-The whole single mother"I don't need no man!" black male bashing movement doesn't attract men. A large chunk of white guys HATE feminist with a passion and white makes are a lot less traditional than black men about gender roles. You do the math.
I think it's good for women to have an ideal salary because you don't want to marry a 35 year old broke, aspiring rapper. Okay, we all get it. Instead of looking for a salary, black women should be looking for "qualities" in men. Most women of other races do this but black women typically look for money and assume qualities instead of the other way around. Instead of looking for guys that make 80K+, they should be looking for guys that are honest, funny, genuine, a healthy self-esteem, ambitious, respectful, hard working, altruistic, responsible, etc because people with those traits typically go off to do things with their lives because they have a good head on their shoulders.
I have black male friends that were passed over because black women wrote them off as "cornballs" or "lames" who are now making 50K+ mid twenties at the very beginning of their careers with plenty of room to move up doing something they love. Some of them are still holding out for black women, some succeeded and others moved on and found happiness outside of their race.
Most women of other races know how to do this but quite a few black women don't want to build with a guy and date someone because of his character/personality. They date for status and money. It's weird because I know really hot white girls that date temporarily broke white guys coming up that had those qualities and rode it out with them because they knew the boyfriend had qualities that would lead to having a successful career and 99% of the time, the guy did. Because of this, the women had a college educated husband with a good career, kids and a nice starter home by the time they hit 30. No worrying about a biological clock, no worrying about settling down, no worrying about finances, etc. Usually the couple has a much greater grasp on personal finance so they aren't living paycheck to paycheck. SOME black women don't want to build or hear that because it's not as easy as simply marrying a rich guy.
When I date outside of my race, the woman usually tells me it's because they thought I was cute, funny, confident, I made them laugh, they always had fun around me and I'm such a sweet guy. They loved the fact that I was smart too. You know, traits that typically make good fathers and providers. I almost NEVER hear that when black women choose to date someone. I'm not turning this into a black woman bashing ceremony because there are a lot of good black women who are passed over or simply need a healthy boost of self esteem and weightloss but the amount of delusion some black women have is often intolerable. It's also why I see a lot of African immigrant americans who come here dating the motherly redheaded white woman who's a school teacher making 35K because she's a lot more wife material than the angry, materialistic, overweight, aggressive black girl pulling 80K with attitude problem like the whole world owes her something.
P.S. Most dudes don't care about how many degrees you have regardless of race. Quite a few black women love throwing degrees in people's faces but they will be BullShyt majors like childhood development, communication, etc. Nobody cares about your degree, it's about what you do with it that counts. Instead of getting 3 degrees, get 1 degree at an affordable price for you factoring scholarships, grants, loans, etc, go to grad school for your masters and do something amazing with your career. That is MUCH MORE impressive than a chick with 3 bachelor degrees at 40, up to her eyeball in school loans and absolutely no sense of direction or purpose in her life.
Since we want to use anecdotal evidence to compare the greatness of all other races of women compared to the horribleness of black women, I have some too. I have a lot female acquaintance/"friends" of other races and when we talking about future husbands and etc, the conversations are STRIKINGLY similar to the ones I have with my black girlfriends. They care about money and status too. The funny thing is my Asian female acquaintances are the most materialist, label crazed women I have ever met. The only difference is that they had women who put them onto game in regard to not being so obvious. Keep putting other races on a pedestal.
Damn dude, that was kinda harsh
tell me im lying though
David is quitting his 100,000 job to go do what he loves, i'm so happy for him doing something that inspires him
Yeah Henry quit his six figure job were moving back with his parents to save on money while he starts the foundation he always wanted to
you'll never hear thes ewords uttered out of 99% of women.
a few women yes, i reemmber at my old church, a guy there quit his job making great money as a store manager at walmart and entered ministry full time and his wief was with him all the time.
KenyaDoll
Demonic eyebrows & animal print
Again, I can quote you using that thread as evidence when it's actually evidence to the contrary.
tell me im lying though
I don't wanna say that women only care about money and status.
But I'd gotta agree that they would be out the door if their man went from 100k to 30k as he chased his dream.
I mean it depends...maybe she's independent and don't need his money
Broke Wave
The GOAT
And my comments aren't about those women who showed discretion. My comments are about, again, a short coming that many women in our society have that is exclusive to women, that is exemplified by the women in the OP. That's what the whole thread is about. A discussion of how unreasonable these people are to demand their partners to be in the top .5% of income earners, lest they be leaches.
I don't wanna say that women only care about money and status.
But I'd gotta agree that they would be out the door if their man went from 100k to 30k as he chased his dream.
I mean it depends...maybe she's independent and don't need his money
women dont want to go back , just remember finances is the number 1 reason for divorce and women file 75% of the time