Whats the ideal salary you want your man to have before you will get married on LSA...

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You're a rare one. Deep down, most of these women want a man to take care of them. They want that "running errands while husband brings home the bacon" life they see cac women outchea doing and on reality tv.

but, I thought you wanted black women to be more like white women :sas2:
 

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I don't think it's wrong if both people decide that a certain percentage of their income goes towards their own private account. I wouldn't personally keep it a secret though...I'd just let him know that I'd like a back-up account and that if he would like one, that's cool with me.

How many women do you think would be comfortable with a man flat out telling them he plans to keep a secret account away from the family?

Say the woman is making $60K and the man is making $260K. He says he'll throw $60K/year in the joint account to match her earnings and keep the other $200K in his personal account so he can buy "cool" stuff for himself!

All "family" expenses will be paid out the joint account..dates, bills, vacations, etc.? How many women would be comfortable with that, brehette?
 

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Who said that? I've never even dated a cac, brehette. Not planning to do so anytime soon. :sas2:

Oh my bad...you mentioned persians and asians (what race scholars refer to as honorary whites).
 

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How many women do you think would be comfortable with a man flat out telling them he plans to keep a secret account away from the family?

Say the woman is making $60K and the man is making $260K. He says he'll throw $60K/year in the joint account to match her earnings and keep the other $200K in his personal account so he can buy "cool" stuff for himself!

All "family" expenses will be paid out the joint account..dates, bills, vacations, etc.? How many women would be comfortable with that, brehette?
I'd be okay with him putting that money away. I can't speak about other women. It's not to buy "cool" stuff...it's in case something happens/an emergency fund.
 

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Sad ass thread full of sad delusional women. Either they all live in NY, DC or LA or have no clue what the average person really makes a year.
 

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I don't think it's wrong if both people decide that a certain percentage of their income goes towards their own private account. I wouldn't personally keep it a secret though...I'd just let him know that I'd like a back-up account and that if he would like one, that's cool with me.
oh ok
 

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ITT: men bytch and moan about having the traditional provider role :aicmon: while still wanting the wife to have the traditional cook,clean, servitude role....
 

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ITT: men bytch and moan about having the traditional provider role :aicmon: while still wanting the wife to have the traditional cook,clean, servitude role....

Nobody is bytching about the traditional provider role. A man making $50K can be an excellent provider. But, a lot of delusional women think they deserve a man making $80K and above. That only such a man makes for a good mate and can be a good provider. That only such a man can give them the life they deserve!

We're simply saying the stats don't support those wishes on the part of women. Vast majority of American households aren't even making $80K, let alone individual earners. It's even more grim for Black households. The number of Black men and women making more than $80K as individual earners, outside the major population centers, is a very small number!

In other words, there just aren't enough of the $80k+ nikkas to go around. Plus, those nikkas realize what these chicks covet, so they dangle it before them like a carrot and smash and toss as many of them into the bushes as they can until they're ready to settle down.

It's more sensible for woman to settle down with a man making $50K who WANTS to get married, combine incomes, and build long-term wealth.

That's not what these delusional chicks want to hear. They want to believe there are hordes of $80-100K+ nikkas just roaming the streets waiting to wife them up. The numbers just don't back up that assertion.
 

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Nobody is bytching about the traditional provider role. A man making $50K can be an excellent provider. But, a lot of delusional women think they deserve a man making $80K and above. That only such a man makes for a good mate and can be a good provider. That only such a man can give them the life they deserve!

We're simply saying the stats don't support those wishes on the part of women. Vast majority of American households aren't even making $80K, let alone individual earners. It's even more grim for Black households. The number of Black men and women making more than $80K as individual earners, outside the major population centers, is a very small number!

In other words, there just aren't enough of the $80k+ nikkas to go around. Plus, those nikkas realize what these chicks covet, so they dangle it before them like a carrot and smash and toss as many of them into the bushes as they can until they're ready to settle down.

It's more sensible for woman to settle down with a man making $50K who WANTS to get married, combine incomes, and build long-term wealth.

That's not what these delusional chicks want to hear. They want to believe there are hordes of $80-100K+ nikkas just roaming the streets waiting to wife them up. The numbers just don't back up that assertion.
I think the post comes across as a bit confrontational and condescending to women on the coli.
But you do state a lot of facts above.

:ehh:
 

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Nobody is bytching about the traditional provider role. A man making $50K can be an excellent provider. But, a lot of delusional women think they deserve a man making $80K and above. That only such a man makes for a good mate and can be a good provider. That only such a man can give them the life they deserve!

We're simply saying the stats don't support those wishes on the part of women. Vast majority of American households aren't even making $80K, let alone individual earners. It's even more grim for Black households. The number of Black men and women making more than $80K as individual earners, outside the major population centers, is a very small number!

In other words, there just aren't enough of the $80k+ nikkas to go around. Plus, those nikkas realize what these chicks covet, so they dangle it before them like a carrot and smash and toss as many of them into the bushes as they can until they're ready to settle down.

It's more sensible for woman to settle down with a man making $50K who WANTS to get married, combine incomes, and build long-term wealth.

That's not what these delusional chicks want to hear. They want to believe there are hordes of $80-100K+ nikkas just roaming the streets waiting to wife them up. The numbers just don't back up that assertion.

You are saying and cosigning that Black women only date for income levels.... and white and asian women only date positive character traits.
Elevating a white woman choosing a Black man as if it is some ingenious and groundbreaking move.... She said I was funny ; therefore white women recognize my amazingness and Black women are third tier as usual....
Yeah, that's why Black women ain't shyt... they are stupid and get stupid expensive degrees and chase men based on dollars and not sense....

y'alls reasoning skills are a joke...
 

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im glad the tides are turning and marriage rates are dropping you women deserve nothing you spat on the good men and now the chickens have come home to roost
 
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