I disagree with that 50/50...how does one tally up what they did vs what the other person did. Relationships are never 50/50 its a give and take or give give take or a give give give take or a give and take take take....basically it varies.
What's the biggest lesson you've taken away from a relationship?
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Stop making a big deal out of the little things... Cause I got bug deals and little things
I'm talking to myself with this post:
- Your own life (goals, interests, friends, hobbies, job) is more important than the other half. Don't let this bytch tell you otherwise. bytches ain't shyt.
- Pick someone with shared interests, life goals, etc. over someone good looking. Unless this person is also good looking in which case you struck gold.
- Like most things in life, your relationship is what you make of it. Invest as much as you're willing to. Nonetheless, the individual who cares less about the relationship controls it.
- If you're only in it for the sex, break up. The crazy shyt about to follow isn't worth the hassle.
- Your own life (goals, interests, friends, hobbies, job) is more important than the other half. Don't let this bytch tell you otherwise. bytches ain't shyt.
- Pick someone with shared interests, life goals, etc. over someone good looking. Unless this person is also good looking in which case you struck gold.
- Like most things in life, your relationship is what you make of it. Invest as much as you're willing to. Nonetheless, the individual who cares less about the relationship controls it.
- If you're only in it for the sex, break up. The crazy shyt about to follow isn't worth the hassle.
I am talking about myself not "these women."
Elle Driver
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This is so important.
Ease up.
You're right but some people can learn from a lot of these posts.
don't jump into one without knowing the person past
Some more.
If something comes up early in a relationship leave run don't walk.
In every bad relationship I've had looking back something popped up like a month in. Whether it was finding out contact with the ex, parents didn't like me , etc. Etc.
But you then the other way and then years lateryour llike
there was a sign to leave before I wasn't emotionally invested
Never date someone who still communicates with a ex.
While looks are important they shouldn't be the primary focus.
If something comes up early in a relationship leave run don't walk.
In every bad relationship I've had looking back something popped up like a month in. Whether it was finding out contact with the ex, parents didn't like me , etc. Etc.
But you then the other way and then years lateryour llike
there was a sign to leave before I wasn't emotionally invested Never date someone who still communicates with a ex.
While looks are important they shouldn't be the primary focus.
Let the ma know your standards from the jump.
Do what you say you'll do and be about your business because to a female everything you say is a promise.
Also don't let your lady become your life, you need to have other interests other than her because once she dips your entire world will collapse.
Do what you say you'll do and be about your business because to a female everything you say is a promise.
Also don't let your lady become your life, you need to have other interests other than her because once she dips your entire world will collapse.
Some more.
If something comes up early in a relationship leave run don't walk.
In every bad relationship I've had looking back something popped up like a month in. Whether it was finding out contact with the ex, parents didn't like me , etc. Etc.
But you then the other way and then years lateryour llike
Never date someone who still communicates with a ex.
While looks are important they shouldn't be the primary focus.
can we get some commas or something my nikka
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This.......
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some more thoughts
- looks don't matter..compatibility does
- don't demand respect .. earn it
- communication is key .. if something is on your mind express it before it manifests into your head and fukks up the relationship
- looks don't matter..compatibility does
- don't demand respect .. earn it
- communication is key .. if something is on your mind express it before it manifests into your head and fukks up the relationship
Anyone who thinks your astrological sign has anything to do with compatibility is a moron, though.
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If she's disrespecting you on the sly during the early stages and never has your back, then that's a woman you don't want to be with.
People CAN change but YOU can't change them.
People CAN change but YOU can't change them.