What's the biggest lesson you've taken away from a relationship?

[Remote]

That when you snatch a chick clean off Raul hip, they have a distinct smell of pupusa.

LMAO

You're welcome to try.

 

[Remote]

if they'll try to kill you once, they will try to do it again.

Well that was cryptic

 

[MikelArteta]

Relationships aren't worth it

 

[Remote]

Don't start relationship on a lie
Give as much as she gives you
It doesn't hurt to do nice gestures from time to time

Truth.

 

[Remote]

Don't argue. It accomplishes nothing. If you can't communicate without conflict then you either with the wrong person and/or you are not mature enough to be in a relationship

Don't ignore the signs. Most people play themselves by ignoring clues that the person they are with is not a suitable partner. Then when the relationship goes south they whine about being used. Grow up. People only do what you allow them to do.

Take personally responsible for your dating decisions. Who you date is a reflection of you, your short comings and your inadequacies. You pick this/these people to be in your life.

Communicate how you feel. People are not mind readers.

Talk to these women. Please.
A lot of them are reckless out here forgiving men for their bullsh*t.

 

[Brehnamedwavey]

Never date a black woman again. I learned this the hard way.

 

[Remote]

Relationships aren't worth it

I disagree with you a lot but sometimes I think you're right.

 

[Remote]

Never date a black woman again. I learned this the hard way.

You a Chris B. alias?
LOL

 

[The 2020 New Member]

Well that was cryptic

not if you're familiar with my posting career. i wasn't always the overt 'mo/heelish troll that you see today. i've been here.

real nikkas know.

i've earned my stripes since i started posting here.

 

[Brehnamedwavey]

You a Chris B. alias?
LOL

who dat? nah man

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Never underestimate the demonic read flags.

 

[MikelArteta]

I disagree with you a lot but sometimes I think you're right.

Stress, nagging, infidelity, lies


I mean rrlationships are grewa and exciting in the honeymoon period before the rose colored glasses are removed.


Id rather casual date herr and there no commitment no emotional attachment

 

[Raava]

Communication is key. Compromise is important. When people show you who they are believe them. Nobody changes all of a sudden signs are always there.

 

[Remote]

Stress, nagging, infidelity, lies


I mean rrlationships are grewa and exciting in the honeymoon period before the rose colored glasses are removed.


Id rather casual date herr and there no commitment no emotional attachment

Side bar...

Do you think the older men and women get....that after the honeymoon phase wears off...that people force themselves to stay together because getting back into the dating game is not an enticing option?

Like if you are in the honeymoon phase at 25 and it's getting ugly...you might break out, right?
But say that happens at 35? Do you think people break it off and date others? Or just stick through it because 35 is a tough age to meet a good partner?

 

[Remote]

Communication is key. Compromise is important. When people show you who they are believe them. Nobody changes all of a sudden signs are always there.

Truth
We just ignore the signs at the time.
It's sad.