What's the biggest lesson you've taken away from a relationship?

[AllHolosEve]

Sounds like you learned some real shyt.
A lot of people don't learn a damn thing from relationships and just blame the other person.

i know it was my fault... i dont blame her.... i was an evil homey (the white definition)..... i learned a lot of real shyt.....
she was my lover, my best friend, mother to my kids, support system, my lust for her is outta control... i need her back...

Dont push your woman away.

this is where i fukked up....

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

• Choose your battles
• You gotta have respect
• Let past arguments go
• Effort has to be 50-50
• Trust is earned

Mostly, you can't bring past relationships into your current one. Learn from your past but don't carry it with you.

all of this

 

[Tommy Knocks]

That when you snatch a chick clean off Raul hip, they have a distinct smell of pupusa.

 

[Groanman]

I've learned that if my girl is just sitting there chillin', that I never ever ask her what's wrong.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Don't argue. It accomplishes nothing. If you can't communicate without conflict then you either with the wrong person and/or you are not mature enough to be in a relationship

Don't ignore the signs. Most people play themselves by ignoring clues that the person they are with is not a suitable partner. Then when the relationship goes south they whine about being used. Grow up. People only do what you allow them to do.

Take personally responsible for your dating decisions. Who you date is a reflection of you, your short comings and your inadequacies. You pick this/these people to be in your life.

Communicate how you feel. People are not mind readers.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

-Call for no apparent fukkin' reason

-make efforts to be inclusive with my personal time and space

-peen can't fix everything in the long run and it can't cure psychosis or crazy

-stop trivializing stuff that's on her mind, no matter how stupid, whiny or petty it is

-Take lessons in trying to develop telepathy


Relationships

 

[bigesco]

If you really love her , you gotta let the silly shyt slide

Also, once you break her heart once, she will never forgive you

 

[Pool_Shark]

Relationships I've gotten out of....I learned that if you spend enough time with them most women are the same. No point in leaving someone you've built with just cause you think it's gonna be all sweet with some other girl. Eventually they start trying to change you and go through mood swings.

I'm married now and am learning that fights just blow over, just give it time. You can't always control everything and sometimes you gotta share the steering wheel, even if you're sure it's gonna fail cause you might be wrong. Watch out talking about each others family cause it will come back on you. Some shyt she's not gonna change, she'll just have to live with it and you put your foot down on some things and don't budge. I have friends that have to hide their weed from their girls, get sneak drunk, and perpetrate just to make her happy when really if she wants to be with you she'll just let you be yourself and accept it otherwise it's on to the next one.

 

[Rawtid]

Focus on understanding your s/o's point of view instead of agreeing with them. Men think differently than women and the both of you will hardly ever be on the same page

 

[Mr. Negative]

If a person feels like they have no control over their life, be it not getting what they want out of it, not getting what they want not having control over controlling, over bearing family members....

they'll fukk up your life by trying to have control over you.

 

[IPunchFaces]

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife and most women are hoes...so do the math.

 

[The Frozen One]

Don't start relationship on a lie
Give as much as she gives you
It doesn't hurt to do nice gestures from time to time

 

[Remote]

i know it was my fault... i dont blame her.... i was an evil homey (the white definition)..... i learned a lot of real shyt.....
she was my lover, my best friend, mother to my kids, support system, my lust for her is outta control... i need her back...

this is where i fukked up....

Damn.
I dunno if you can get her back, but at least you can bring those lessons to a new woman.
Good luck, bro.

Long as she raises your kids right, that's what matters.

 

[Remote]

There is always another dude trying to get your girl....

And most women keep one eye on their man and a wandering eye on other men.
Not to say that they act on it, but it's just the truth.

 

[The 2020 New Member]

if they'll try to kill you once, they will try to do it again.